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love is a sacrifice
love is a sacrifice when u love someone you have to sacrifice everything.. you will let them lie to you to survive the relationship and so u can still spent time with you,even it seems like you are just torturing your self knowing that he is just lying to you about his feeling when he is around. when you love someone you have to let him go if he is not happy with you even in your part is really hurt. you want him to be happy bcos you love him.. having him in your arm un happy will not make you happy. |
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Don't waste your time with people who can't be honest. Why sell yourself short? What you described is not love because love is a two way street. Be true and kind to yourself is my advice.
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You are right. Love is sacrifice. You choose to give of yourself and sometimes put the needs of another human being ahead of your own. However, Love isn't an unending and singular sacrifice. We human are just not made that way. Don't sell yourself short. There are people who will love you.
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You sound like a real genuine woman who is really looking for something to build a life on. I think that by letting him lie to you about the fact that he really doesn't love you, shows that you need to believe in yourself more (and perhaps that a higher power will send the right one to you). People always have issues to work on as they grown in a relationship. Buit such lies as this one has told you should not be tolerated. You have so much potetntial to be a great lover, wife and mom.
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Here's a thing about men's lies that you might find encouraging: after a while, men actually start to believe them. So if he says he loves you and has a place in his heart for you, but there's reason to doubt it; give him the benefit of the doubt for a while. Let him attempt to live up to his words and evolve into his fictional account of himself. Some men will become the man they wish or want to be. Does that make sense?
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6/28/2019 3:37 am |
"when u love someone you have to sacrifice everything.." just because love is a act of giving does not mean you are sacrificing anything. when you feel you sacrifice for love, then you are desperately holding on. " you will let them lie to you to survive the relationship and so u can still spent time with you," why would you except their sperm without their love... does it not leave you even emptier than before they came? "even it seems like you are just torturing your self knowing that he is just lying to you about his feeling when he is around." so if you know he has no love for you does become his cumdump hild anylove? but most of all i always wondered... how does one fall in love with someone that does not love them? there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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