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"Goodwill" Hunting!  

Melbass55 61F
117 posts
1/12/2020 10:02 pm
"Goodwill" Hunting!


I swear...every time I log on to this site, it feels more and more like I'm shopping at freaking Amazon! When I view a guys profile...or he views mine...are we adding each other to our shopping carts? I wonder how much you guys are worth? Do you know? Is a single guy in his early 40's with a stable job, a house and a nice car worth more than a divorced guy with 2 living with him? Is he discounted or marked down because he comes with a damaged ego and baggage? Most times...it does feel like I'm shopping at Goodwill!! (at least at goodwill... I know there are alot of used and damaged "merchandise") but, aren't we all?? We're all marked down in some way or another. Whether it was bad relationships..(which lets face it... most on here are all a product of)...or...bad upbringing. It's true...if you treat people badly, then odds are, thats how you were treated by someone at some point in your life. Or...maybe you're still being treated badly. Still...it's no reason to perpetuate that cycle. I know what your thinking...it's only sex! Yes...it is! But, sex is only the physical part. And in order to get to the physical part...you need to get thru the<b> mental </font></b>aspect first. That means...establishing a connection thru talk...and that means actually treating people like humans...regardless of how you've been treated in the past, or are now. Even though we may belong on the discount shelves...doesn't mean we have to shop there. Where would you prefer shopping? Do you want "damaged" goods...or do you want normal? Personally, i would much rather shop at Amazon! Let's face it...you can get anything you want there!!

tedscott40 60M
2550 posts
1/13/2020 4:41 am

You just need a man that you could hold a good conversation with and still want to have sex. Good luck. I hope you're successful. You seem fun.
Ted


Melbass55 replies on 1/13/2020 5:35 pm:
Thats exactly what i need, but i know i will never find him on any dating site...or here!

notsure1949 74M
10657 posts
1/13/2020 5:05 am

well written, do think some people are more desperate than others, should always be honest on here


Melbass55 replies on 1/13/2020 5:36 pm:
Thanks, but thats the problem...they're not even honest with themselves let alone anyone else. Most married and attached guys one here are living a lie. Its sad.

luvfun_669 48M
28 posts
1/13/2020 5:26 am

honest is key


Melbass55 replies on 1/13/2020 5:37 pm:
I agree. But it will never happen when most are living a lie.

Rareguy12345 66M

1/19/2020 9:26 pm

You just haven't met him yet..hint hint


tedscott40 60M
2550 posts
1/31/2020 5:09 am

If I lived near you, I would take you to lunch. I think the conversation would be interesting and fun.
Ted


Melbass55 replies on 1/31/2020 9:21 pm:
i would talk your ear off!!

tedscott40 60M
2550 posts
2/5/2020 1:25 pm

I know you would talk my ear off. It's what I would expect. You would be so excited to be having an intelligent conversation with a good looking man. And one that's close to your age.
Ted


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