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LadiesR2B1rst 60M  
2735 posts
12/4/2021 2:40 pm

I hope things get better in your life. People that have never had health problems can't or won't understand. Most likely, with time you will get better. Try working on getting yourself better and put some distance between other people from your past. Just saying, it worked for me. Thanks for sharing your situation.


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
12/4/2021 4:39 pm

My Beautiful Friend,
You are going through a lot and in some ways with the sex, I don't want it either except frome one man I am.seeing now. Your feelings are yours and get them out any way you know how girl. I have not want to come on either with what all I got going on. Take some time for yourself and get all those feelings out. I am glad to see you. I have missed you. Take care and I am here if you need to vent

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
12/4/2021 5:28 pm

Girl....it's good to see you again....yah...i am not around here, much anymore other than just pop in to see what's new, which is nothing much new here anymore...just stale, stagnant tar pit, to be...

I am glad, you are still doing somewhat ok, in spite of some health issues...yah...i am 54, and in the middle of premenopause, the shit is going down hill, real fast, no stop to it...i tell yah...it's really scary...

I am doing my garden, too...I started my cucumber in September, and I had a quite a lot by now....it's just be getting really cold in the morning, (in Brooksville), like uppper 30's, so it's dormant, but tomatoes are still growing...surprisingly...and greens...lettuce, kale, and collard...they are doing really good now...

My ex passed in spring this year...yah...it's been a shock to me...although we never be close after the divorce, but still, the man died? yah...well, he did what ever he wanted to do, more than taking some responsibility over us, so, guess he was a happy man...that's all...

you know, i missed you...oh, i got a kitten in spring, too...he is an orange tabby, he was a kitten, but now, he just turned one...I got him at the shelter...you still feeding those kitties around you?

it's really good to hear about you, babe...glad you are back...take care...


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
12/4/2021 5:38 pm

Wow! You've been through a lot, in a short period of time. Sounds like you're slowly wrapping your head around all of the stuff going around YOU.
Balance is an interesting point to find. 😶❗❗


lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
12/4/2021 8:52 pm

I read a lot of stuff in the past. Do get on with your life in your manner, keep the online stuff out of your mind, some of it is not trutful any way, some, is though. Hope you can work your way through to today, hope your health stays good..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
12/5/2021 1:37 am

I'm delighted to know you are still kicking. I am sorry you had to find some ugly info about your ex. I'm glad he is in the past.
How are your kitties?


mc_justmc 63M

12/5/2021 5:05 am

It's good to hear from you! In the last few years I've started new posts and before I can finish them I delete them. They don't even interest ME, and they're about MY life. Why would anyone else want to read them. I can only imagine how shocking and upsetting that must have been to read about your EX. Learning about other's dark secrets has truly disturbed my life, too. As far as sex? Masturbation is better than ever and I crave it more than ever. Sex with another seems like so much work that I lose interest without trying. I've even had a few "come fuck me" offers and I just made a lot of excuses to get out of it. I don't know what's going on with me other than I just don't feel like making an effort. Although, I'm as horny as a teenager.


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
12/5/2021 5:58 am

Welcome Back! I do hope you do not go away again. At least not for so long.
You are so right that feeling don't care about facts. Unfortunately they just are and sometimes it is hard to tell what they are. If we are lucky we can parse out the why or roots of the why of them, sometimes the why stays buried. Once I tried not to feel but that sure does not work.
I hope life quits throwing you bean balls and gives you a chance to settle down and sort things out. Maybe even get you to hankering for two or moresome sex again. (And lets you find someone you find worth it.
Meanwhile stick around and remember that sharing problems with friends often helps you and your friends.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
12/5/2021 6:09 am

Ugh, what a crappy thing to find out after the fact. (hugs)

I was thinking of you recently, that video of the cannon firing when we were at the Fort just cycled through my feed.


easyrider4008 67M
2562 posts
12/5/2021 6:26 am

Sorry to hear you have had such a rough time, you sound a strong person though so keep your pecker up and here's hoping your luck changes for the better.


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
12/5/2021 10:44 am

You've been through a lot ... physically, mentally, and emotionally. It's no wonder the thought of sex is MEH. Sex partners can be a lot of work. Give yourself time to heal.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
12/5/2021 1:32 pm

Good to hear from you again. You really did go off the radar for a while.
My health's not been that great lately truth be told but I keep going...as you do.


Logan0867 56M
244 posts
12/6/2021 12:51 pm

I know it's been a rough one for you and I'm so glad to see you post. Always a pleasure to read your musings and see your lovely face show up on my feed
Love you lots...miss you bunches xxoo


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