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 ...I would love to cum more than once a year!! 
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All of your reasons are good points; However, personally I prefer the skin to skin intimacy with someone I care about. Makes sex much better and satisfying for me.
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do you have reasons why you want/don't want to have sex? sex is fun When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Ah, I do want to have sex....you know, with a partner.....but sometimes the other stuff just gets in the way.....usually I figure it's just part of the deal, but sometimes, I think of the offsets, the good and the bad, and weigh the benefits..... I got my masturbation routines down, and the end result is most enjoyable....not quite the ideal, but at this point in my existence, a comfortable pursuit..... Interesting post......
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I think the best thing to do during sex is to take your time and not wear yourself out too quickly. I think some people try to do it like the pornstars do it. I agree with you about masturbation, much easier to do. I do get a workout when I masturbate in the shower. In one of my shower videos, I stroked my lathered up cock for 8 minutes straight and was really vocal in it as well and the cumshot was amazing. A lot of people enjoyed watching me do all that. It is even more exciting to cum outdoors. By the way, you asked if I got cold being naked outdoors, I block it out of my mind and just enjoy the naughty rush of doing something that is risky, but feels so good. Nice to see you blogging again. I missed you! Funny women are incredibly sexy!
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Sex would be nicer if men always wore condoms so I would drip spooge for hours. Like you said, masturbation is neater. I would love to have a sybian to back up the shower massager 
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That fine line between want and need divides me. Do I want it? Sure. What makes doesn't want sex? Do I need it? Nope. Not at all. For those of you out there who can't live without sex, more power to you all! But I've never been the sort to go and try to get laid with a stranger or even with someone I know. I was socially distancing decades before it became a thing. I also had this very notion that I couldn't have sex without feeling something for my partner. When I met my ex-wife, it was great to feel in love and have someone respond enthusiastically to everything I did with them. But health issues on both sides eventually killed the sex. Don't get me wrong. I still get horny but have found ways to sate that urge. All of the reasons you give pretty much line up with me: lack of prospects, lack of initiative, safety concerns, and also meds sometimes putting the kibosh on the ole libido. But....there have been a few bloggers and chatters on here who do tickle me in the right spots. I'm exceedingly grateful to them for getting my spark back up. I hope you find a solution because we all need that glorious release now and again My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment
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Great post Ms Terence McKenna & good debate; personally I'm not giving up on my sex life just yet or finding sensual/ sexual partner(s) on this site, (& a couple of other more local ones) despite all the the potential challenges you list, (another alternative is thick towels on the bed btw), & some of my own too, (niggling old injury aches) & if I ever fail to perform I'd still be very happy to give those sensual head to toe sensual massages with happy endings & lots of oral 69 etc, thanks for sharing & big warm horny hugs for your solo efforts, Mark x
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12/6/2021 4:22 am |
I don't feel like sharing my post orgasm nachos...
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12/6/2021 5:08 am |
Great post. Love reading about what you enjoy!
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One Finding partners is hard. AMEN to that !!!! Two Sex is hard, masturbating is easy. Again AMEN !!!! 2 to 4 times a week is get mighty TIRING ! Three Sex is messy. a beach or bath towel helps with that !! Four Sex is work. I'm retired soooo at my age it makes it a pleasure !!!! Five Sex is dangerous. Especially if Hubby or Boyfriend happen to walk in !!! 🤠
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EnigmaInitiative replies on 12/6/2021 9:55 am: I'm guessing masturbation is not your thing... ..   
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Hey... how dja get into my head? 🤔 Kool trick. 😮😎❗❗ I feel EXACTLY like that, some days. But I wonder what it would be like to have a vagina... and infinite orgasm. 🤔🤗 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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One Sorry, I'm too far away to help you with that. Two I understand that, but there can be a feeling of excitement and anticipation when you're showering and primping up to meet a lover. Three I have no problem cleaning up and doing laundry. It doesn't all have to fall on you sweetie. Four I'm a great cook and would happily cook us a nice meal after a romp. It's also nice to fall asleep with a lover in your arms after the strenuous workout. Five I'm clean, and I know how to treat a lady with respect. Now, if we could only fix item one. 
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LOL too funny. Thanks for the laugh. Although to point 2 its hardly hard...I'd take you no makeup, unshaved legs and unbrushed hair any day of the week and twice on Sunday. xxoo
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Being Bi, I have not meet any women from this site. I tend to like around our age I am right there with you on #2 sister You have made some good points here. I get sex from my lover once a month but I would like to cum more than once when we are together but when the gf is at home waiting it is short and sweet. Being Bi I have not meet any women on this site. The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness. 
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Regarding your first point - um, yes, everyone got younger. That is one way to look at it.  . The joys of this bit about time, what with the flying-by, and all? Somehow, the number of younger people always seems to keep growing, and I don’t understand it, either. I was never much for the random-hookup thing. The last woman I was with asked if I ever just asked for a blowjob after finding out I hadn’t been with anyone for a few years. But, that’s just not the way I see the world. Count it among my many (many) other failings?  To me, being with someone comes with both possible pluses and minuses, so I lean towards finding someone for more than one-fun-and-done. But, that obviously doesn’t make things simpler. Even in “the good ol’ days,” before the, as you put it, cock-blocker of “the virus” (“boooooo … you suck!” would probably be what the virus would hear, from all of us, if it was a sports team).Hmmm, so are you saying sex is like an aerobic workout? Practice! I suspect more practice is what will make things better. Oh, hell, that means we’re back to the question of finding someone to practice with. If you tried a adopting a dom persona, you could at least make your minion(s) do the cleaning up and cooking? Hmmm, those type of people may be even more difficult to find. So long as you haven’t resorted to humping table legs in public, I guess you’re in a good-enough situation? Not “great”, or “ideal”, but good enough … ? Hopefully the said situation improves in the not-so-distant future. Oh, and your situation, too. If some people can become born-again virgins, is there a way to “undo” a heart attack? You might want to look into that one …  -- allgud69xxx Yeah ... that's right ... I went there .. Wanna msg, but can't - my Postbox blog Another way to say hi my Postbox
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