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It's an all day thing, foreplay the right way.
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It's an all day thing, foreplay the right way. I was doing my typical thing yesterday, looking through forum threads, when I came across one asking about foreplay and what you liked. For me it's not something I can answer in one sentence so I now find myself writing this out. First and foremost foreplay is all about enticing all the senses as well as the mind. The best way for me to really show what I mean by this is to give you all an example. It starts in the morning as you and your significant other get ready for your work day. Come up behind her as she is standing at the bathroom mirror and press yourself against her, kissing her softly, and tell her you will be thinking about her and what you plan to do to her that evening. Don't linger to long. Patience is a great quality to have when turning a woman on. As she is finishing her make up etc I tend to grab my favorite pair of panties she wears and place them with a note in her purse to find at some point that day. "Seeing your beautiful body in these drives me in sane my love," works like a charm usually and most often they find it well before lunch. The idea is to keep her mind lingering on what might and or will happen that evening as well as letting her know she is the only person you are lusting over. One thing that we have these days that really can help out with keeping her mind on the evening to come is the android messaging ability to set up messages in advance to be sent every few hours. Make each one a simple one line message describing a body part you find enticing of her or perhaps a previous sexual adventure you both enjoyed in the past. It's important not to rely on just note's or messages. Call her on her luch break and when she answers describe just what you want to do to her that evening. Describe in detail how you want to taste her pussy, the motions you plan to use with your tongue such as light figure eight's around the clit or that soft flat tongue upward slow lick that pulls the hood off of her clit. "When I close my eyes my pet you are the only woman in the world I want," is a great example as to how to end that phone call. Don't linger to long. As the afternoon progresses you still have those little preset message's being sent to her phone. It's about letting her know she is desired and she's the only woman on the planet you desire. So far so good. If you done it right she's more than likely smiling a lot and her mind is wandering. Now here is where patience come's into play. When you both find yourself's at home that afternoon it's important to also let her know you are willing to also pamper her. Draw her a bath and pour her a glass of wine and again tell her just how much she means to you. As she is bathing I first warm a towel for her and order in her favorite take out dinner. Cooking is an okay way to go but you don't want her thinking about having to clean the kitchen which might pull her mind away from where you've had it all day. Laying out something for her to wear as you eat is a great idea but I caution you to keep it simple and not overtly sexual. After dinner she's more than likely going to want to relax so sit with her and rub her feet as she watches her favorite evening show. This is all about her and showing her just how important she is to you. When someone asks how long foreplay should last remember this. It should be an every day all day thing. By the time you head to the bedroom she is more than likely climbing the walls. Now for the young bucks out there that think they know what dominance is all about I say this. You just dominated her mind and put her right where you want her<b> mental </font></b>state. Dominance isn't always about control. More time's than not if you ask her to kneel before you after such a day she won't think twice about doing just that. Getting her to submit fully and willingly make's it a thousand percent more worth while. If her mind is in the right place the body will follow. |
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