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Dick Pic Dilemma  

Kinkyblkbull910 46M
1 posts
10/2/2020 5:22 am
Dick Pic Dilemma

Often times when I'm browsing profiles, I come across statements in an entity's profile expressing disgust with seeing "dick pIcs" profiles, especially if it's the main profile pic. As one with about 20 years of intermittent experience in the "lifestyle" I absolutely understand that point of view. A dick pic is the lowest common denominator and it doesn't leave much to the imagination. It doesn't challenge one to expand themselves sexually necessarily. One could argue that it's a tactic for the less evolved and sophisticated in this lifestyle. Again, as an experienced operator, I get it. Some of us are unhatched eggs and others soaring eagles; soaring eagles don't always have tolerance for eggs.

However, I'd like to offer the counterview based on my own experimentation. I've been on TSdates.com for years intermittently with different profile names and types and in different regions of the country. I've posted many pics with a range of themes, from natural landscape to hardcore action pics/poses. Anecdotally, nothing really generates the buzz (likes, comments, and profile attention) like a good dick pic. Although there are many motivations for being on TSdates.com, I'm here to actually meet people for in-person encounters so more buzz ultimately generates solid leads. Also, not enough credit is given to the fact that it actually takes courage to post a dick pic, we are not all created equal and for most of us, there's always a bigger cock out here so once you post a dick pic you don't really know how it's going to go over. It could be a devastating blow to a guy's confidence if it doesn't go over well, so there's that.


Now for the caveat to all of the above, I'm a black gent and many of my potential playmates fetishize BBC. What that means perhaps is in their eyes, my sexual value is in large part is based on my cock size and shape. The priority usually goes like this: 1. BBC-size, shape, etc. 2. Safety-emotional and<b> mental </font></b>stability, potential threat proposed 3. Physical Appearance-attractive face and physical fitness 4. Personality 5. Intellect

With that said, the most essential element at least until they establish a rapport with me is that they have an idea of what potential value I can add to their situation as demonstrated by a dick pic! So there in lies the dilemma, to post or not to post a dick pic. Like most things in life there isn't a linear approach to this. I say, it depends on your intended audience and who your sexual tribe happens to be. Be Well!


hottang123 58M/47F  
3 posts
9/18/2021 7:11 am

Very well said, and as a cuck to a very sexy wife, you nailed it. Dick size is definitely one of the top "attention getters". And yours is incredible.


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