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Being the Best You Can Be  

EroticMusings2 59F  
1432 posts
7/1/2021 11:35 pm
Being the Best You Can Be

I think we all struggle as we age still feel attractive and desired. In whatever context you want use that in. Maybe not ALL of us, but most of us.

I know as a woman, post-menopausal thank you god, I certainly do. Most of that stems from me not liking how I look. So all I can do is try take better care of myself and become healthier physically, mentally, and emotionally.

A year ago I almost died, spent a week in ICU. My doctor told me that I would most likely never get my blood glucose below . At the time that the EMT took my blood glucose I was over 800. I was also told that they thought within a year I would be on dialysis for my kidney. My kidney health has stayed right as it was in Stage 3, and I work very hard at staying as healthy as I can.

That is why I am extremely careful on who I might engage with physically. I cant take chances and I dont think any of us should. I think in this day and age we all need to be super careful and when in doubt glove up. If you think you might even have a slight UTI or bladder infection, go get tested right away. Better safe then sorry. If you are going to be with someone, and you even think there might be a remote possibility that you are sick with anything, postpone or wear a full body condom.

Sexual attraction is not always at first glance. I have had some great lovers that at first I wasn't that attracted too, but once I got to know them - they really turned out to be wonderful lovers and friends. Isnt that all we are anyway in life, lovers and friends.

I am working hard on becoming a better version of me, for me. I love me, whether no one else does or not. I want to overcome some of my issues so I dont fight the<b> depression </font></b>as bad. I will, I can, and I will overcome.

You are too

Ann.


*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


godehnatty 60M
61 posts
7/2/2021 12:17 am

Honey, beauty, it is said, lies in the eyes of the beholder. You may not like how you look but someone, somewhere DOES.

Do the best you can for issues connected with health challenges ... and remember, that your friends are glad you are here, Beautiful ! {=}


WyoCowboy7751 70M
2537 posts
7/2/2021 4:31 am

" full body condom " My head (the one on my shoulders) was inside that place once before I do not believe that I want to attempt to put it back there


Needsomekisses60 63M

7/2/2021 4:35 am

You will overcome those issues, and your true friends will love and help you when you need it.


Grumpabear1962 61M

7/2/2021 7:37 pm

Good for you Sweetie. In order to get better we must first love and be happy with ourselves. Good for you. Keep it up and as you stated be careful about who you share your charms with, all while keeping an open mind. True beauty is on the inside, the outside is just window dressing. Keep up the good work and best wishes


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