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nakedcock4u 60M  
2 posts
3/7/2021 10:52 am

We have had a few experiences where only one of us was attracted to the other party or parties. So, when this happens we discuss it and make the decision not to play, out of respect for each other.
When we used to frequent the clubs, and as people arrived...we would look at the arrivals, then say to each other "yes" or "no" as a signal to each other...
It seems to work for us.

reddenrose 74M/67F  
46 posts
3/7/2021 11:58 am

we have discovered over the years that taking one for the team does not work very well we have developed an open relationship as one way of getting around our different fetishes as they have developed. when we respect one another and the our relationship then there is no question about taking one for the team

funsnellvillecpl 64M/52F  
3813 posts
3/7/2021 12:38 pm

we think that's why we prefer mmf or mmffm

seoulswing2 38M/28F
149 posts
3/7/2021 4:48 pm

we are both in threesomes, foursomes and moresomes. We regularly attend swapping parties and divide up in all sorts of different ways. We've always been able to make it work and both of us have fun

TicklePlease 53F  
13680 posts
3/7/2021 5:30 pm

When I played as a couple, we had the worst luck with finding couples that were normal and attractive to us. We met a lot of couples where the female half had to be totally drunk to be interested... and a lot of couples where the male half only wanted to see (and direct) his lady getting fucked... and a lot of couples where the guy wasn't able to achieve and/or maintain an erection once the action started, or who decided he wasn't ok with his lady getting some dick after all... basically couples never worked for us two on two. Groups and threesomes worked much better for us since taking one for the team was never an option.

Sakwes77 67M
141 posts
3/7/2021 6:35 pm

ToddAndVictoria replies on 3/7/2021 5:23 pm:
okay that's great thank you for sharing, but are you playing as a couple or have you?

I had not noticed that you were asking couples only. That does not apply to me.

cozzycouple 63M/64F  
581 posts
3/7/2021 8:17 pm

yes it is usually the female that decides on the "No". Not liking the other partys man/dick/hairy chest/beard...... as nakedcock4u and reddenrose say. Itthen becomes a team discusion. But this should be sorted out prior on most cases with transfers of pictures. It is in swap/swinger/meetings that it becomes awkward. Viva the web.

sirenprime 65M/46F  
517 posts
3/9/2021 9:55 am

We voted "depends". We Used to say a flat out No, but have come to realize that as two substantially different people, { age, fitness, desires, and just likes and dislikes... } we probably appeal to vastly different potential playmates. Ergo..
We now consider a little more flexability on this issue, to allow for the pleasure of the other one of us who's the current object of lust.
But, having said that, it's still a matter of degrees. Neither of us has to accept someone Waaaay beyond what we want just for a single night of joy. If it isn't a close call, we'll just move along.
Like all things to do with "The Lifestyle", there are variabilities to consider.

Desir4Fire 46M
2354 posts
3/12/2021 3:48 am

It would depend on the situation:
If your Hot-Wife is matched good but the man is not, press on.
If the other woman wants the wife and not you, seat back and have a beer.
If the Wife is not comfortable, call it a night.
If the wife is not Happy, the whole house is not Happy!!

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