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The Language of Empowerment pt3  

CandExo 47M/53F
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4/13/2021 5:54 pm
The Language of Empowerment pt3


Validate feelings as an expression of thought and recognize that the feelings of a situation are shaped by thoughts; while our circumstances aren't us, our actions reveal the current state of our spirit and our thoughts influence our circumstance. When we seek improve ourselves through self-analysis, we attack the disharmony in our heart and stop fighting against the effect from without. This allows us to find common ground through same thinking, so people can deal with their feelings, rather than just fight against circumstance. When we recognize that invalid thoughts produce inaccurate feelings, it builds awareness of the imperative to acquire language that builds trust, knowledge and awareness so we can get to the heart of understanding and articulating accurate, genuine feelings.

There is always a gap in time between stimulus and response where our choice resides. If you don't want to be uncomfrortable, then see less than feelings as action signals, telling us to change our perceptions and or our procedures. Doing so allows us to transcend our discomforts and produce solutions. When we see suffering as the effect a wrong thought in some direction, we're given the ability to see its purifying benefits. Empowered with loving kindness, we become the key that opens the door to unity. Loving kindness builds trust and breeds compassion, integrity and honesty. It distinguishes purity from impurity and demands selflessness of the selfish, ensuring that what we truly can be, is revealed to us.

Love is acceptance plus concern, acceptance without concern is tolerance, concern without acceptance is conditional love. Authentic love is uncondotional. That is not to say that relationships and intimacy do not require boundaries; acceptance, concern and boundaries are the dimenions loving kindness. Boundaries ensure both mutual respect and happiness in all parties. Concern shows that we matter, are important and that we relate, and acceptance helps us realize the reality of a situation by recognizing the process, conditions and dynamics , not always postive, without attempting change it, protest or leave. Having boundaries assures we respect the level of authenticity according the level of intimacy and lets us explore intimacy safely and securely.

Loving kindness is at the core of the language of empowerment. It is the actuated expression of the value of the human spirit, both ways, the giving and<b> receiving </font></b>because that is what actuated spirit is.

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