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Blogs > Rickdorf > Tiptoeing Through The Tulips

My Continuing EIF  

Rickdorf 65M
64 posts
6/16/2021 10:48 am
My Continuing EIF

EIF stands for Exercise In Futility. This is just a term I coined on my own, and in this case, it fits very well.

You see, since I arrived on Cape Cod in May of 20 my wife's been after me to find friends locally, instead of online from all over the place, to spend time with. and I've TRIED, HARD to do just that because being alone for long hours when she's working or socializing or whatever isn't my idea of fun.

I've tried Craigslist, local venues including one church that had better not have a name, etc., with no luck.

At work now, I've finally made a friend in a co-worker. Thank God.

When I stumbled onto this site (advertised extensively on my favorite porn venue) a month ago, I thought I might FINALLY connect with local people.

I have connected with good people from all over, and a few Cape Codders have reached out to me, but they never work out, it seems.

I've found Cape Codders, AND Summer People in general (not all of them, so don't get me wrong) to be very unpleasant toward Different Folk or people they consider beneath them socially. Unfortunately that seems to include ME.

I'm not bitching here. The friends I've made here are all aces, and I'm deeply thankful for them, all of them!

I just sometimes wish to hell I could find a LOCAL FWB or just plain friend someday without the restrictions I currently suffer with.

Life goes on.

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