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Easily Create a BETTER Profile!  

TexasSexMagick 50M/49F
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9/6/2021 6:22 pm
Easily Create a BETTER Profile!

We'd like to give some advice to the throngs of couples who are not generating as much suitable interest from their profile as they'd like. (Hint... it's not TSdates.com's fault!)

Here we go...

1. PICTURES (post a lot of them!)

a. NEVER have a "dick pic" as your primary photo. At least 75% of the M/F couples here include a bi-curious or bi-sexual female. So lead with your strength... HER.
b. Post AT LEAST 5 pictures. Make sure ALL 5 (or more) include HER. Make one a SEXY couple picture. Yes, they are curious what the dude looks like, but he is not typically why we are here. Yes, do a "dick pic", but be creative. Put it in HER hand,
mouth, etc... just make sure she is included.
c. Take QUALITY pictures! We cannot express this enough. Dark or blurry shots will get you a "swipe left".
d. the background. It speaks VOLUMES. Tidy up, simple. If you're painting a wall, take your photos from another angle. Your complete Beanie collection on the armoire will earn you no special favor!
e. Leave politics of your pics. For example, whether you are pro or con about masks, it is not the prefered way to disguise your in the LS. If you are concerned about internet anonymity, there are a hundred other very sexy ways to hide your without turning some people off.

2. INTRODUCTION

a. Be friendly. No one is interested in contacting and spending their fun time with "salty" or demanding people. Think of nice ways to convey your boundaries.
b. Check your spelling (and then recheck it). No one says you have to be Whitman, but poor grammar will not generate interest from quality couples. Oh, and leave the abbreviations to the .
c. Convey your message, but keep it as short and simple as possible. Unless you're a professional novelist, you WILL lose interest WAY before they reach the seventeenth paragraph.
d. Never say "Just looking". All you are saying is "we are not serious about meeting you". So why should they if you finally do decide to reach out?

FOLLOW-UP!

a. When you get a message, flirt, I.M. or friend request, promptly reply. Remember, this is what you want to happen! Besides, wouldn't you appreciate the same?
b. If you get a message from someone that you feel wouldn't be a good match, REPLY and pleasantly tell them that based upon OUR profiles, we don't feel it's a match for us and THANK THEM for reaching out and wish them the best.
c. If you are communicating with someone, but are unable to lock down a /time to meet, that's okay. It's life. Unless something changes, keep communicating with them until all parties can commit.
d. As mentioned, anonymity is important for many people. However, after have committed to an initial meeting, you shouldn't be a problem with sharing photos prior. It is actually the last necessary step to ensuring good physical attraction. Beyond that, it's important to know what they like when you arrive! It's also much safer not to arrive "blind".

A final note... remember this is not . Your goal should be to make good personal contacts, not to build a huge "friends" list. It is quite frustrating for those here seeking lifestyle connections, to be added to a friends list, never to be contacted again.

Thank you for reading and we forward to your supportive or constructive input! Feel free to share (with ).


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