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7 years later  

WestC915 28M
2 posts
6/12/2021 4:24 am
7 years later


After having been this site for about 7 years and spent hundreds of dollars memberships and having sent over a thousand messages and countless more IM' when they where free, limited 5 per day or cost points. I can say with a certainty that this place is mostly dead or so vague that it does not allow for new members replace those who leave.

Most female accounts now are fake<b> spam </font></b>bots either here steal desperate mens financial info or make this site appear more popular than it really is (the usernames with "rm_" and accounts with 2 or four numbers at the end are popular now).

A lot of couple accounts are just men posing as a couple waste time by collecting pictures or fantasy . Men who are ashamed of their own sexuality or lying themselves that they are not gay or at least bi is a sad reality entertain.

As for the females that ARE real, well the ratio of males female is high so you must stand out in some way (just like real life!) for them consider it. The ones who cheat on their husbands/partners/SO might be of questionable morality, but the pussy is just as enjoyable.

For the couples that are real, the biggest barrier is schedules. The other issue i encounter are those who are willing swing or share are not quite ready engage in the lifestyle. They fight with their eyes and the jealousy/anger is there and makes the whole situation uncomfortable and a mood killer.

Issues with the actual site are numerous as they are ridiculous. The firs is the paywall that didn't used exist. When i joined the best way communicate with people was through IM which was free initiate and reply them. The was buggy (yes the IM has always been broken even now when they want you spend money for it) and most messages didnt allow certain words appear so you could communicate outside of this fresh hell. Then came the 5 limit a day which you could have duped it by refreshing the or leaving it before it registered as "received". Now they make you points in the IM even when receiving the even though you can extra allow standard members reply messages, but they dont allow them reply IM which is where most communications are done on mobile since you cannot message anyone if they are online.

I received more replies and the "community" was more fresh and vibrant since anyone could reply if interested instead of being required waste money replying messages or IM which is already buggy and so limiting in communicating. It makes even the most lowest quality apps a better alternative at times.

The other issue is probably not the fault of the company completely, but the lack of advertisement or a viable mobile app, are the biggest threat the existence of this shit show. It's always the same people who are online and the new people who join are met with a paywall or are just bots. This issue also creates an age disparity where most members are older (40+) and very few members are younger due the inaccessibility of no apps being available or promoted.

This was just my little rant about this site which i will probably still be using for years come in hopes that it gets better, but probably wont. Key word is HOPE that this gets better. Hopefully this helps other people decide stay or leave or motivate paying members voice their issues with the site in the hopes of the big wigs get off their ass and create a competing service equal or greater than the other big names in business do with fire and a tool.

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
6/12/2021 10:04 am

a good summation


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
6/12/2021 3:51 pm

You started here @ 18 ? Hmmm....


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