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BigBwp123369 49M
8 posts
7/24/2021 8:41 am
IM

Does anyone read iM’s. I use 17 points and the messages are never read! I just lose points. Anyone else have this problem?!

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
7/24/2021 10:44 am

 It's a common prob, one reason I won't use IM anymore

Fuck A**F**F and the IM-SCAM pony they rode in on


pagancountrygirl 66F
Ask me for a photo
6466 posts
7/24/2021 11:31 am

 Often people that show to be on IM haven't been on for a couple of hours. It's the way the site operates to keep interest...and to get others to spend points hoping to chat.
Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
7/24/2021 12:00 pm

 Can the person read them but not answer and not show it's been opened?
Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


1kittylikker 73M
349 posts
7/24/2021 3:42 pm

 Standard members can't read them, even if the sender is a gold member.


nova197238 61M
325 posts
7/24/2021 4:54 pm

 Same thing happens to me, man. I just lose points and never get to chat with anyone.

Also, not really sure how I can replenish my points either.


jajo696 113F
Ask me for a photo
4287 posts
7/24/2021 8:51 pm
    Quoting nova197238:
    Same thing happens to me, man. I just lose points and never get to chat with anyone.

    Also, not really sure how I can replenish my points either.
hover over your points on the top right. That drop down explains the whole point situation. Points can also be purchased~


jajo696 113F
Ask me for a photo
4287 posts
7/24/2021 8:56 pm
    Quoting 1kittylikker:
    Standard members can't read them, even if the sender is a gold member.
I can read them all and respond to them for17 points, at this time. I am standard. It may be different for males though.~


peninsula_ 53M
184 posts
8/1/2021 10:53 pm

 As a standard member I have men send me IMs and never bothered to read my profile, the mouse-over or the note I have displayed in IM. To respond and tell them I don't really like men costs me 17 points and that isn't going to happen, They see me typing but nothing gets through. If they were gold I think there is a setting that I would mot have to pay to im.

I have sent IMs to gurls I am interested in and almost all have went unanswered, many of them were gold members. I am a bit perplexed by this. A good amount of them, we played profile tag for an hour or even a few days. Several IMs the conversation was over before it even started, which led me to think it's bots to drain points. The system is difficult no matter how you look at it.

Start a blog and try to put a link in your profile or wherever you comment, they can post there if they have a clue. Or if you can work it out, go to chat and pick an empty room like Russia. Also pop their username into kick and see.
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