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I'm not sure why I'm still here  

ashadebetter 70M
0 posts
8/28/2021 2:09 pm
I'm not sure why I'm still here


I was hoping meet a kinky lady here had the sexual proclivities as I do. Instead, what I get is women sell themselves as doms, literally, as they include using their slaves as pay pigs. Or want me to be their sugar daddy and trade gifts and/or allowance for sex. Really???. Just tell us your a that will have sex for money. No judgements, just own your shit.

If you're a man that has this kink of being dominated or a sugar daddy, and paying for the experience, congratulations, you've reached nirvana.

Is it just me or has the of 'ladies' offering these experiences increased ten fold in the past year or two?

Now don't misunderstand me. My profile clearly says I am dominant in the bedroom, but with limitations. No lasting pain or permanent injury. More light bondage and sensual torture than anything else. As with anything else the term 'dominant' describes a continuum of sexual behavior. My profile also says you should be real, not a gold digger, and be within two decades of my age. I can't find anyone with those qualities that lives within 100 miles.

Instead, I am approached by twenty and thirty somethings, and over the past almost two years every one of them has asked for money. I thought this was a kink site but instead it's turned into a sex worker's paradise. I am also approached by men, posing as women and those from outside the country (your English<b> skills </font></b>betray you almost immediately) that also want to go immediately off-site to communicate and when you do, they attempt to scam you with some bullshit story about needing this, or that, or the other thing. It happened again last night. I am not that gullible.

I will let my subscription expire a few months from now.

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
8/28/2021 10:16 pm

scammy pan-handler profiles have been increasing in numbers


nsnguystill 71M
428 posts
8/29/2021 4:29 am

i can almost guarantee that you are not approached by twenty or thirty year old girls, but rather by someone (gender unknown) sending mass emails.
i have also received many similar messages in my email account... though i could never (not that it is a major concern) figure out how the got my email address.
therefore i think that if you stay or if you go...
they will still find you.
as to your complaint of women using their bodies for finical gain, keep in mind that for hundreds (maybe thousands) of years men have their right to equality. thus forcing them to use the only tools to survive.
so now that the pendulum is swinging to the other end, as women taking (mens jobs) the power they seek ... we seem to
be unable to except the new woman as equal
yet
label the woman that clings to the old ways as a proustite.
seems to be that no matter what happens to some people... the blame is always on someone else
but truth
be told in life you have a choice
create your destiny
or
allow life to create your destiny
fair winds my friend
fair winds

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
8/29/2021 5:41 am

Yes, a common complaint from the men who blog ,,, its a scammers paradise, doesn't matter what you have on your profile. I don't expect the scammers read it, except that you're male.
The flip side of that is that too many men fall for it. .. they see a pretty 30 something lady hitting on them in their 50/60's and they start thinking with their dick not their head... leads to all sorts of problems and lots of disappointment.
If it seems to good to be true.. it probably is


ashadebetter 70M

8/29/2021 7:36 am

I'm a libertarian. If you want to sell your body for sex, that's your choice and who am I to judge. Just be honest about it.


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