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MistressInc 47M/39F  
16 posts
12/1/2021 2:41 am

That's just terrible! Where could I buy one of those, B?


Pleasureinc 60M  
2200 posts
12/1/2021 3:47 am

Thank you for sharing. Very informative, Venus.


tastemeY 57M  
148 posts
12/1/2021 4:34 am

Very interesting! You did some research here!


Cum_Happy 110M
2824 posts
12/1/2021 4:36 am

You pose a difficult, yet not impossible to answer question.

I would liken the answer to: "How do such contradictory practices and philosophies exist at the same time?" With this . . . Say that I am a very wealthy man and have many employees. Naturally, I pay my employees well and most are satisfied to serve me loyally. But one is greedy and decides to steal from me. The employee might have earned more in wages over time, but chose to steal from me instead. Stealing in most cultures is illegal and usually bears a severe punishment.
The same is true with sexual infidelity. While together we may enjoy orgies and all sexual liberties imaginable, it does not give a spouse license to cheat behind their lovers back.
All the punishment is, regardless of its form, it is intended as are the sex toys, to be a deterrent.

BTW . . I love the title, lmao!

Anything done half-heartedly will net you an equivalent result. ~CH


Fun4u3276 60M

12/1/2021 5:49 am

I have actually heard of some of that! OUCH!


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
12/1/2021 6:47 am

I know several women that would not consider the dildo saddle a punishment - minus the rocks of course!!

A squirting dildo - have clever.

Good point about the reasons behind all of this though. And I don't know that the practices and philosophies are contradictory. The women were viewed as objects for the men to use (in lots of ways) for their pleasure, and as you said all the rest was just to keep them "in line".

Fortunately, I prefer a much more liberated version of a female as a partner.

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CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
12/1/2021 7:58 am

There were orgies in ancient Rome as well

I guess it got frowned upon afterwards when religion was introduced where even discussing sex became taboo


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
12/2/2021 2:13 am

This is a great post Venus, funny, informative and thought provoking!

I really like how your opening paragraph sets the scene. It is interesting how even today, in what we see as liberal societies, the fact that something is legal does not automatically make it acceptable, and the majority of people are still very quick to attack anything sexual which strikes them as being too far out of the ordinary.

As in so many things it mostly boils down to a desire to control others. Sometimes in the past that was men controlling women, (occasionally the other way round) and often money, religion or both provided a selected few with the power. In modern democracies we like to think we are trying to leave all those restrictions behind, but currently, alongside wealth and position, another sinister method of control is emerging - the ability of one individual or small group to influence the masses. Hence the desire of some to silence anyone who doesn't share a popular view.

Of course sometimes a population does need to have some restrictions imposed for its own good. How do we decide when it is right to control the dissenters?

None of that explains why it would be embarrassing for me if my neighbours were to discover I am sitting here discussing alternative sexual practices with my fellow bloggers! What is there to be ashamed of?

Oh, and while I am here, I do not believe that wooden horse was only used for punishment!


midhard1 67M
325 posts
12/2/2021 5:10 am

Interesting blog, thanks for sharing. I tend to think that many people who critize someones sexual desires shared by consenting adults are ones who secretly deep down desire having those experiences.

Comments on my blog "midhard1" or on my erotic stories welcomed.


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
12/3/2021 2:07 am

Hmmmmm. It's not so much the splinters I'd be worried about!

Actually, speaking as a person whose hobbies include woodwork, I can be sure that it would be possible to produce a finish which wouldn't pose any risk of splinters. But I'm afraid my anatomy wouldn't respond well to such an implement, even if it was you wielding it


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
12/6/2021 7:49 am

Does what absorb the fluid and swell - the wood or my anatomy, lol! (Hopefully neither! )

But seriously, wooden dildoes used to be common before modern materials took over. It isn't difficult to produce a polished or otherwise smooth finished wood which will be neither splintery or absorbent.

Curiosity prompted me to do my own research and I see there is a very similar modern equivalent called the "cloud nine F slider ride on sex chair" for sale at a company called Lovehoney. Admittedly not in wood, but definitely not intended for punishment!


71Chuck 75M  
22 posts
2/15/2022 11:45 pm

I've learned a lot reading your musings but that wooden prototype Sybian takes the cake. Except for the size of the dongle on top and a possible or even probable splinter it would pass for a pleasure tool. I've watched some Ancient Alien programs listing some amazing items that makes me wonder why someone didn't make a similar item from crystals or some other such beautiful material. Was that really a Chinese torture tool or an alien contribution?


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