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A Woman's Guide to BDSM - Ep 01  

SydBull1 40M
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9/28/2021 11:24 pm
A Woman's Guide to BDSM - Ep 01


There are 23 things you must know about how to be A SUBMISSIVE.

This for any woman In a BDSM relationship, At the point you begin training as a submissive partner or slave, you have already taken a number of foundational steps along this journey. Hopefully, you have identified your submissive inner nature and taken some time to explore the meaning submitting to another person has in your life.

This guide is divided into two sections:

What you will learn.
How you will learn it.
Finally, a note about protocol. There are a variety of levels of protocol depending on the couple practising BDSM and their living situation. A couple may be a 24/7 high protocol couple where nudity, the formality of language, and ritual is practised at all times.

Section I: What You Will Learn
1. Your Identity
Central to your training is the primary understanding that you are becoming, through thoughts, words and actions who you have always been on the inside. The purpose of training is to scrape away the roles, myths and conventions of society within the context of your relationship and replace it with the reality of your core being.

Training does not make you someone new; it brings out the person you already are. Although your life and the attitude most definitely will change, do not go into training expecting it to make you a different person. It will give you the tools to become the person you were always meant to be.

That is why training should not be undertaken lightly or without a full commitment of service to your Master. You are learning to serve, live and love him as his slave or submissive partner for as long as you both desire.

In the larger social structure of western culture, women are taught via media, family and school that they are equal to men in all areas. Women are encouraged to develop and find their identity based on the scope of individualism. Who you are as a singular being is what matters and what defines you. As such, women are taught to measure themselves by their accomplishments at school, at work, as a spouse, parent, housekeeper, etc.

In training you will learn your identity is not made of your individual achievements (although they are important) but your relational context with your Dom. You are his. That is
the core of your identity. That is who you are and how you will define all the other roles and lenses you look through.

Your identity as an owned and beloved submissive to your Master will take time to evolve as the core of your being. You are no longer a business executive. You are his submissive who works as a business executive. You are no longer an athlete. You are his submissive who is athletic.

In time, looking through the world through the lens of his eyes will become second nature to you and you will marvel that you ever enjoyed the surroundings of your life without his pride, love and ownership of you being a motivating factor.

It is a source of pride to the submissive that when people look at her they are seeing a couple. A Dom whose pride and dignity is reflected in the obedience, adoration and attention of his sub is one who is respected, and rightfully so.

The bonus for you, of course, is that you do not have to suffer the pressure or loneliness that comes from having to do everything, be responsible for everything and assure everything by yourself. In the harbour of your relationship, your Master surrounds you with love, affirmation, inspiration, motivation and pride.

Being a submissive partner of a Master who has trained and sustained you means you are never alone. You are equal in your ability to consent to your submission. You are empowered with the ability to offer your Master all that you have, say, do and accomplish. You are his.

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To be continued ... SydnBull

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