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Are people on this site worth meeting?  

MisstressAmber 51F   
24 posts
10/31/2021 2:07 pm

Last Read:
12/22/2021 11:25 pm

Are people on this site worth meeting?


Now from a womans point of view are these people worth meeting?
never give out your because that's a leval of trust that most of these people just don't know how reach.
Liar's married men and creepy cheating me seem be holding this site back the most. If you really want a woman like you then 's best be a honest person!.
One of the worst lines I've been seeing is older men claiming that their in some kind of sexless married and 's ok for them just off their<b> wives </font></b>and just with anybody.
This drives me away the fastest never go with someone want's openly off someone their married .
My mission is serious and sensual sexual endeavors and locating that really does seem inpossible on this site.
Another huge isue are the people claiming their a couple when their not and try meet up as a single man TOO gross For my liking !
THE CREEP FACTOR IS WHAT'S HOLDING THIS SITE BACK THE MOST@@

Evocules 55M
1288 posts
11/24/2021 3:56 pm

Trust is the golden ticket, the magic key that opens everything. And yes, it all starts with friendship. I think that's why there are so many distasteful creeps. Way too few men here realize how critical friendship is. There's certainly something to be said for anonymous, no-strings-attached sex; but I believe that most folks here would prefer a strong friendship foundation first. It helps to establishe trust and ensure that whoever you're hooking up with cares about you as a person and isn't just objectifying you in a completely sexual way.


MisstressAmber replies on 11/26/2021 8:59 am:
Yes your very true and I think I deleted one of your responses on a different post. I made a bad response so I had to delete both the post from U and my response. You seem to be a friendly person that try's to keep up with me and I'm grateful for that so thanks

Evocules 55M
1288 posts
11/4/2021 11:51 pm

Are people here worth meeting? That's a fair question to ask. I suppose the answer depends upon your level of patience. My cynical take is that there are only a few people here worth meeting, and it takes a while to connect with them. Among the bloggers, you may find a greater level of trust. Some of the communities here are fairly tight, and I've been to blogger conferences where several have congregated and socialized in a hotel room. You're correct in surmising that there are more than a fair share of older men in sexless marriages, but as long as their honest, I don't think those guys should be judged. Serious sensual sexual endeavors are possible. They happen, but only with a good deal of interaction, screening, and filtering out the less desirable elements.


MisstressAmber replies on 11/6/2021 7:45 pm:
It's really a taxing affair digging thru all the people and I'm doing what I can to make a possible meet Possible.olol I NEED TO BE SAFe and I'm really having trouble trusting anyone here. yes I'm doing my best to be patient and I need to be aware of that but why is there so many distasteful creeps so prevalent?
or me personally I need tohave some sort of connected with someone Im gonna have sex will.
FIRST they need to be my friend and I need to trust them why is that SOO much to ask in this day and age?

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