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What is Settling?  

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2/11/2022 9:08 am
What is Settling?


I have been in discussions with people saying I am not going to settle! I deserve more! But what does it mean to settle? I am sure many of us has settled at one time or another because the thought of being alone is not something people would like to deal with. I think some people mis interpret this as looking for mr. perfect or Ms perfect.

Chemistry that others have mentioned is a powerful emotion. To achieve this I believe you have to have honesty and great communication. Be open and not be afraid to show them your true self. Your wants your fears and maybe your goals in life. This can turn into passion and when you have that you can feel that connection on a much deeper level. You are constantly thinking of the other person and every thought brings you joy. Its definitly strong in the beginning but true chemstry takes time and shouldn't be confused with infatuation. That is in my opinion a more<b> physical </font></b>emotion if that makes sense. You are in awe by someones looks or personality that can cloud your judgement

There aren't perfect people in this world, but someone could fit perfectly with you. Where all your qualites and flaws just mesh together with the other persons. A very intelligent couple on this site has said something similar and Sex is a bonus. Because that deep connection you make with someone is one of the best feelings possible.

So I believe that "settling" means forgoing some or most of your happiniess to avoid being alone. Being alone is one of our greatest fears

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