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JustlomesumMe 69M
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10/11/2021 8:25 pm

Welcome to blogland. I am sure there are plenty of people to answer your questions. One quick note is to make the first reply to your blog will make it get on the main page quicker.

So nice to be insane; no one asks you to explain.


FoxtrotCalling 56M
58 posts
11/7/2021 11:22 am

There was a lot to unpack and answer in this blog post. I prefer to only ask one open question in mine. The great thing about blogs, though, is that you can do whatever you want in your blog - total creative control.

I’m going to answer the last question that you asked. I’m going to guess that you are asking about our favorite sexual memories. First off, the stories that I write are sexual memories so you can enjoy those memories. For the sake of your blog, here is one I have not recorded there:

Cocoa butter is my preferred lubrication. I use it with sexy friends and during alone time. However, how it became to be my preference is something I have not shared with anyone.

Before she died, my wife and I were always in search of ways to spice up our sexy time. We used toys, videos, and even discussed adding others in our play. As we were exploring our sexuality as a couple, we were expanding how we pleased each other. This included different positions, and broadening our oral sex and trying anal. We visited sex shops in the different places we traveled and tried all kinds of lubes. Since we weren’t concerned with condom use, we tried what ever we thought would feel good. Unfortunately, most lubricants we bought at porn shops were sticky and didn’t do a great job in keeping the area lubricated for longer than 10-15 minutes without getting gummy. I tend to last about an hour before my first orgasm. So, we experimented with more natural oils.

As I’m sure you can see where the story is taking us, we discovered natural cocoa butter. Actually, we discovered jojoba oil, shea butter and cocoa butter. As long as we were actively fucking, keeping the area (our sex parts) warm with our friction, all of those oils stayed very slick, including my cocoa butter. But of them all, the cocoa butter had that chocolate aroma. And, when we had anal sex, that chocolate smell added to our sensual enjoyment.

It took a while after she died before I started seeking sexual gratification, again. At first, it was just getting head from women. Then, pussy. It actually took a few years before I started exploring anal sex again with women. And, before I did, I started masturbating in between sex partners. First, it was soap in the shower. Then, I did Vaseline. You would think I was a teenager discovering this all over again. One Sunday morning, when I was preparing to move to another city, I was cleaning out under our bed and found our sex box. It had all the dildos, vibes and lubes that we had used. Among them was the cocoa butter.

I sat on the bed and opened the tube. The smell of the cocoa butter immediately made me hard. I rubbed some on my hand and it almost transported me back to that time when we were exploring. I must have stroked myself for hours before I came. Since that day, I keep cocoa butter around not only for my own pleasure but when I’m pleasuring others.

So, you can see why this is a guarded secret. It’s a very personal memory that contains a lot of value and history to me.


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