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Women Game Players on Adult Sites  

wildepleasures1 61M
12 posts
10/26/2021 8:52 am
Women Game Players on Adult Sites


I've been on many site, Lifestyle Lounge , Alt, POF, Bumble, Match and more. Let's face it, people play games, are inauthentic and scam. I observe a great deal because life has patterns throughout the universe. And what I've noticed on adult dating sites is that most (51% or more) women play more games here than other vanilla sites.
Why is this?
Its like, they are either wanting or they are incredibly inconsiderate meaning they give emails or numbers with little or no intention in be responsive in doing so. It's as if the whole thing is a giant game for them. Now, these are most abundantly privy to single girls and not married couples, rightly so.

Its as if nearly most of the single women are emotionally immature, emotional dysfunctional, self-centered, inconsiderate and just plain rude. Even though so many TELL that they are sincere and "want a real relationship", they're really full of shit!

So I ask the audience as to WHY this observation is so? Looking for actual answers not opinions. Thanks!

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
10/26/2021 10:00 am

It's no secret there is an abundance of fake, manufactured profiles on this site.
Origin unknown.


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
10/26/2021 10:54 am

I will kick this off and wait for my fellow female bloggers to chip in
As Hamo said, there are a lot of fakes and scammers on this site, if you read the blogs it is the main gripe of many a man, but then a 60yo man thinks a 23 year old blonde bombshell actually fancies him,,,, hmmmm REALLY!
Scamming men is easy,,, as borne out by the many scammers on here, because most are thinking with their dicks not their heads
There aren't many male scammers on here.. they're all on the ol' tinderoo and guess what.... there are men trying to scam us "vulnerable older" women,,, I can spot a bloody catfish a mile off.. oh and they tell you they are looking for love,, have a high paid job and usually they're child was killed in an accident ,, yes,, really... so I'm afraid you don't have the sole rights of complaint,


dwz5234 71M
2394 posts
10/26/2021 10:59 am

Very well written an I wonder the same ,I'll be checking back 4 some real answers


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
10/26/2021 11:23 am

I have heard every thing in the book from a lot of men here.Men scam just like women and there are some real people on this site. POF is the biggest scam site on the internet. As an older women I can spot them. I have to agree with seems666 on her comment.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
10/26/2021 11:51 am

Like no men play games. Oh and offline there is not one scammer?

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


OldStandardDudeX 71M
125 posts
10/26/2021 11:54 am

A lot of people don't really know what they want.....they become a member as a kind of lark, just to see how this works. They may eventually figure out what it is that really matters to them, adjust their profile and their approach, but until then, it is a bit of a game to them. And the whole anonymity thing allows them to masquerade a bit.....real people are here, but it can be a challenge at times.....


miserable2019 77M  
17 posts
10/26/2021 1:27 pm

As an older male I don't actually search for a female under 55 or couples under 60. The very young want the very young like themselves not the father or grandfather type unless that's their fetish. Although most DON'T read profiles I do and mine says I am not looking to get married and I'm looking for FWB or NSA. Seems pretty upfront huh????


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
10/26/2021 2:34 pm

It can be any where from ego to insecurity for those legitimate people.


MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
10/26/2021 5:25 pm

Ha ha this is NOT gender specific


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
10/26/2021 6:02 pm

I'd like to know where you got your information from..." most (51% or more)". Sounds like it's something you made up rather than an actual fact, something that can be proven with backing from research or surveys.
"Its as if nearly most of the single women are emotionally immature, emotional dysfunctional, self-centered, inconsiderate and just plain rude. Even though so many TELL that they are sincere and "want a real relationship", they're really full of shit!"
Bad grammar aside, the same can be said of a great deal of the men on this site. It's not like women have a monopoly on that type of behavior.
It would have been a much more effective rant had you supplied actual statistics and/or research to back up your claims, rather than your observations and opinions.

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
10/26/2021 7:31 pm

A prior comment, from a man, “keep your expectations low”. I disagree.
Keep your expectations realistic. There is no simple answer to your question.
Just be true. We all fear deceit and at times we may mistakenly avoid something good.
I have met some good ones here.


GummiBear666 40F  
1 post
10/26/2021 9:59 pm

i’m going to need you to cite a reputable source for that 51% stat.


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