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Wife turned asexual  

parpekin 39M
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1/26/2022 7:57 am
Wife turned asexual


Well 15 years in and I am here, my wife is essentially asexual.

Part of me thinks its my fault, that I can't satisfy her, but this is not the case. When we do have sex she does enjoy herself, even after this long its pretty passionate, we do a decent amount of foreplay, try different<b> positions </font></b>and if I have done a really good job she has a vibrator finish her off. I am no slouch in the cock department either at 7".

But she does not initiate sex, she does not get sexual, she does not wear sexy thing. We talked the other day and she said that she avoids me because she thinks I am going to try and have sex with her. So where does this put me? I have a pretty high sex drive and she knows this, so my choices are to leave her alone because this will make her happy? Then where does that leave me? Miserable?

Am I supposed to take this one for the team, give up my entire sexual being so she doesn't have to be bothered? She says she's not attracted to anyone, I kind of believe her. But part of me wants her to be swept off of her feel so that she can feel again, am I just too familiar?

So I find myself on here, looking to release that sexual energy that I have, no matter how long I abstain with my wife it keeps coming back. Then in a rush and I'll end up staying online for hours jacking off on cam with people watching thinking to myself "See I'm attractive".

She has her physical issues which don't help her case, she is overweight, she is in pain all the time with a degenerative cervical spine condition. I can't help with those things. I guess I could do more in the day to day, I do clean, cooking isn't my strong suit and I do dishes and laundry. I try to take pressure off of her. But when she's free she just sits and watches TV, or works or reads a book. I am not in her thoughts.

Then when the go to bed she's off to bed 30 minutes after they are and it takes her 30 minutes to get ready for bed! So fuck, where does this leave me?

When we do have sex I go to the bed, lay and stare at her like some fucking puppy and she knows its time to let me fuck her. I do try and make the best of it, I try to do foreplay, she has gotten good at sucking cock over the years so I have to give her credit for that. But I feel that she just goes through the motions. I don't know why she even does it, "Oh because she loves me", sure thats is. But is it brotherly love now?

She wakes up earlier than anyone and is just gone in the morning, so the only time I get with her, with no TV, no is 30 minutes when she's getting ready for bed and I have to decide. Do I interrupt her routine and her sleep so I can nut? How fucking selfish is that! So most days I don't.

A few years ago I did this experiment, which I think I am repeating now, how long can I go before she initiates. She never did, I had to when I was going to break.

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