HOW MANY PEOPLE HAVE YOU MET IN PERSON FROM AFF?  

A1LOVER2004 41M  
150 posts
1/23/2018 7:48 am
HOW MANY PEOPLE HAVE YOU MET IN PERSON FROM AFF?

I HAVE BEEN A MEMBER SINCE 2004 AND I HAVE MET MANY PEOPLE ON HERE IN PERSON....OVER 100(not always sexual) EASILY. AND I KNOW THAT'S NOT THE NORM, BUT I'M CURIOS AS TO WHAT EVERYONE ELSE IS DOING. WHAT DETERMINES IF YOU ARE GOING TO MEET SOMEONE?
0-3
4-7
8-12
13-18
20+
NOT HERE TO MEET ANYONE


whitekttn 57M/57F
5 posts
11/30/2021 2:35 pm

Sorry to see this thread is no longer active, it is great to hear so many different perspectives. To bad A1lover is not closer because you seem to understand what it takes. We must talk first and get a feel for the other party it is a sex site but that does not mean sex with everyone.


wincardium 59F  
8 posts
1/11/2020 7:06 pm

I've been on TSdates.com for four years. I've talked to way more men then I've actually met in person. Been stood up 16 times. Met and had sex with around 65. I don't have sex with everyone I meet. For the most part, the men have been very interesting and the sex has been amazing -- and all of you know who you are! When TSdates.com works, it really works.


A1LOVER2004 replies on 1/13/2020 11:43 am:
WOW...IF ALL YOU HAVE IS 16 LAMES THEN YOU ARE DOING AWESOME. ESPECIALLY CONSIDERING HOW MUCH SUCCESS YOU'VE HAD. YOU HAVE TO REALIZE THAT SITES LIKES THIS ARE GOING TO HAVE THE SAME RATIO OF FAILURE/SUCCESS AS YOU HAVE IN REAL LIFE. IT'S GOOD TO SEE THAT YOU ARE HAVING A LOT OF FUN.

Livin_my_Life14 51F

1/10/2020 10:59 pm

Maybe around 200 men. All sex- all the time. This is a sex site, right?

A few from Canada and 2 from India.


A1LOVER2004 replies on 1/13/2020 11:48 am:
WELL YOU ARE TRULY THE QUEEN OF A.F.F. I HAVE NEVER SEEN ANYONE WITH AS MUCH SUCCESS AS YOU HAVE. YOU ARE TRULY MAKING THE MOST OF THIS SITE AND THIS LIFESTYLE. I WOULD LOVE TO SEE SOME PICS/VIDS OF SOME OF YOUR EXPERIENCES.

bigtime69666 40M
53 posts
4/28/2019 3:05 am

at 13 currently since i signed up years ago. mostly flakes and fakes.
not all meets lead to sex but that wasn't the question.


A1LOVER2004 replies on 1/13/2020 11:55 am:
SO TRUE, I HAVE MET OVER 150 PEOPLE, SOME ARE SUCCESSFUL AND SOME AREN'T. I WAS JUST TRYING TO GET A FEEL FOR WHAT EVERYONE'S EXPERIENCES ARE....THANKS FOR YOUR REPLY.

AmeliaAvalor 25F
1 post
4/9/2019 6:05 pm

incredible that you have known so many people on the page I am very surprised

con amor amelia {=}


A1LOVER2004 replies on 4/10/2019 9:37 am:
I HAVE BEEN ON THIS SITE FOR OVER 15 YEARS. IN THAT TIME I HAVE MET A LOT OF PEOPLE. ESPECIALLY IN THE EARLY TO MID 2000'S. THIS SITE WAS MUCH MORE ACTIVE AND ENGAGING THEN. NOW THERE ARE TOO MANY FAKES, FLAKES, AND PIC/CAM WATCHERS.....THIS SITE USED TO BE ABOUT ACTUALLY MEETING UP WITH SOMEONE.

A1LOVER2004 41M  
177 posts
5/30/2018 8:40 pm

THANK YOU ALL FOR PARTICIPATING AND MAKING THIS A GREAT POST!!!!
NOW I'M OFF TO MEET MORE GREAT PEOPLE FROM TSdates.com THIS SUMMER.


Funguy5884 64M  
65 posts
3/25/2018 6:51 am

I have been on and off the site for awhile,i have met and played with over 20 women and two couples it has been a fantastic time.I have made some great friends from the site as well


KnightMan105 65M
50 posts
3/19/2018 7:19 pm

gotta say met bout five only went with two an thats over few years lots of talkers...


MrCumtastik 57M
9 posts
3/13/2018 8:39 pm

Lots of conversations but not many meetings,


Wantingsexymind2 51F
12602 posts
3/10/2018 11:13 pm

I have been here since 2002 and I have met many people some have become and remained long term friends over the years and I have dated many too. I have had positive experiences and some negative ones too.

This site is just a website, how you use it and your ability to be friendly, charming, and social is really going to determine how the site works for you or anyone!

"She had a way of making you look at things differently. A way of making you close your eyes and see with your heart." JmStorm
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"Her love happened to me a hundred times at once, in a thousand different ways, in a million different colours" Atticus
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Jeremy_1144 48M
58 posts
3/5/2018 9:51 pm

Ive been on here for several months and only met up with 1 lady.

Usually we have great conversation here and then exactly on the day we agree to meet up, she will say she is busy and unavailable. Then she goes 100% ghost. When I say "she", I mean over 1 dozen fake women I have communicated with. If they aren't busy and aren't going ghost on me, they are usually asking for money, or asking me to sign up for a paid website or asking me to buy something. I am glad I never went to meet a woman just to have her not show up. I'm sure that will be the next hilarious thing here.

I wont give up just yet, but it is extremely difficult for me to find any real women in my area who want to meet up. I cant believe that I've had more luck on traditional dating apps and websites.


YoungGuyinWelly 29M
35 posts
3/4/2018 4:06 pm

let's say 2 and a half people

If you want to contact me send me a message on my postbox blog: My Postbox


RedMale233 31M
32 posts
3/4/2018 11:07 am

0-3 unfortunately


Click4U 74M
34 posts
3/2/2018 8:16 am

The half dozen I met were all very sexual.


CampoGirl 55F
43434 posts
2/28/2018 8:47 am

    Quoting  :

yes! There use to be massive m&G's, seing its pics reminded me of woodstock photos!!! lmao.
The hostess of mostest,,, called me to invite, and to this day i dont know, howd she get my number? lolol i loved her, a top blogger named MzH, her legend lives on here.

Im on fb with her now...shes still as amazing...

Now on my Blog: 👄 New Pictures 👓


Chocl8Dr0p 41F  
40 posts
2/27/2018 10:34 am

I signed up around October, but didn’t become consistently active until mid January.

I’ve had 6 DTF invites without any worthwhile convo to see if we vibe or even exchange names...lol...that I declined

I’ve exchanged numbers with 4 people of which one was my first match that I was very open to a sexual encounter from our exchange thus far but his follow-through was/is bad.

Another match I invited out because my gf was vibing his profile and our conversation exchange that I shared with her enough to want it to go down that night and I was all in for the experience with him based on his profile and and testimonials, but my friend canxed last minute. He and I still had a meet- up and the convo was good and we are still assessing our vibe. I love his soft lips.

The third meet-up was with someone who although he didn’t match up with my specified profile interests and his greeting was lackluster I decided to take the time to give feedback to, after reading his profile and seeing that we have many mutual interests. He isn’t my type and I was surprised at the invite, but accepted it because I understand that I have to be open to getting out of my comfort zone as I ride this rollercoaster of sexual exploration and discovery. It did not lead to anything sexually but it was nice to connect outside of the virtual world and I am open to meeting again.

I have another possible invitation with a traveler that I’m currently assessing to see what is up.

My 4th match that I exchanged numbers with took me out of my comfort zone with amazing phone sex and turned me own hearing him cum from our imaginary sex session but.....

I’m definitely not about that pen-pal texting life. My ex just offered to eat my pussy yesterday morning. I’m here to connect with people who can and will lead me to adventure while we explore each other sexually. I can have basic any day of the week, show me how exceptional looks.

TopShelf-Chocl8


Bmanus465 68M
46 posts
2/19/2018 2:35 pm

I have meet 8 people of which 3 women and 1 man were regulars. The others were 1 time things. I seem to have a way with communication. I have a lot of CDs that want me. post 4065117


BigLoads500 40M  
16 posts
2/19/2018 6:02 am

I have met 7 from the site. Everyone was on the same page as a one time hook up. Although, I have seen a couple more than once.


PeterMoon1964 57M
11 posts
2/17/2018 8:33 pm

No one yet. But still trying


1seeking1 56F
3748 posts
2/13/2018 1:42 pm

When i first joined had lots of coffee meets, Quickly learned too many liars, fakes and flakes. Have met some great people, they seem rare. Could be so much better if everyone was honest and had recent pics.


bigtime69666 40M
53 posts
2/13/2018 1:50 am

2.F both were flakey after one date. wanted 2nd dates but would always cancel lol. couples about the same thing.

hard weeding threw all the fakes and groups pretending to be female lol


spewonme2 57F  
15 posts
2/12/2018 8:10 pm

I've been on here since 2006 and I've met over 100 easily, not just for sex. We've met at meet and greet (dances, picnics, just hanging out), along with dates and the usual hookups.


jnt4bifun 57M/58F  
8 posts
2/12/2018 4:43 pm

We have met with 6 guys from here. 4 were great, got together a bunch more times for fun. One she said lets get him off and get him out ! and another, it didn't even start.


nicelipss66 45F
24236 posts
2/10/2018 10:21 am

I have met with a bunch of guys. I actually have great friends that I met in person from here. is been years and we remain in touch. I sincerely can't complaint. Good site and Good meetings.


A1LOVER2004 replies on 2/10/2018 6:25 pm:
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH HAVING GOOD FRIENDS. I ALSO KEEP IN TOUCH WITH MANY THAT I MET THRU TSdates.com.

A1LOVER2004 41M  
177 posts
2/8/2018 9:20 pm

IT'S CRAZY THAT THERE IS SUCH A WIDE SCOPE OF SUCCESS AND FAILURE HERE. OBVIOUSLY THE WOME DO MUCH BETTER BECAUSE MEN OUT NUMBER THEM 10 TO 1. THEY BASICALLY HAVE THEIR CHOICE. BUT AS FAR AS MEN GOES IT SEEMS LIKE THERE ARE A FEW THINGS THAT KEEP THEM FROM MEETING PEOPLE.
1. AGE
2. LOCATION
3. DISTANCE
4. NO PERSISTANCE
5. UNREALISTIC

I HAVE MET OVER 100 BUT I ALSO PROBABLY CONTACTED 50,000+ IN THAT PROCESS. THIS PLACE ISN'T LIKE DOMINOE'S PIZZA. YOU CAN'T JUST PUT IN YOUR ORDER AND 30 MINUTES LATER SHE ARRIVES AT YOUR DOOR...GOTTA PUT IN A LITTLE WORK....DON'T GIVE UP FELLAS!!!


my_rc51 56M  
2 posts
2/8/2018 4:41 pm

I've met a couple ladies on here, they were all enjoyable to be with, still looking for the right one. She has to be out there somewhere


Saranghae2 49F  
206 posts
2/7/2018 3:58 pm

i lost count...

When I'm good, I'm great, but when I'm bad, I'm even better...


nebman67 54M  
3 posts
2/7/2018 12:35 pm

Me a couple early on, anymore people set something up and then just dont show up. Really starting to think I did something wrong with my profile.


blqberri69 56F
52 posts
2/6/2018 12:09 pm

Met several, Only a couple of them are worth mentioning You know who you are...


Suppletitties 61M
290 posts
2/6/2018 11:27 am

I joined the site in 2002, people were very different then and you had much more access to them using all the tools. The only reason you paid was to see pictures otherwise you freely communicated with people and people were not as full of shit. I think the better question is of the people you've met how many do you still keep in touch with or have sex with still.

Now I've in touch with more than ten people over the years I I still have regular sexual contact with over 60% of those people,,,,,,,,and that speaks to how people were then versus now on the internet.


damn20002 71M
2 posts
2/6/2018 11:07 am

there's not many real people on here.


wettighttussy 59F  
1 post
2/6/2018 10:34 am

I met 2 men for sex and a few i wasn't attracted to at all but, we laughed joked no hard feelings. I have to at least fibe first, communication before sex ever happens.


CollNels1 41F
1 post
2/6/2018 7:51 am

I am 41 married white female and I joined a year ago and I have met 3 different guys here for sex ! I’m shocked I ever met first guy at hotel! But I enjoyed everybody, little nerve racking but worth it


gandchodh 37M
62 posts
2/6/2018 1:39 am

I met 20 frm this site n most of are money seeker n cheater nt fr real...


Culver37 44M
22 posts
2/6/2018 1:26 am

I've met over 20 in the last ten years or so, which is many more than I thought I ever would. Had many good times but very long dry periods in between. But met some really nice wonderful girls along the way. Believe it or not, there are some normal decent people on here.


curiousguy347 64M  
6 posts
2/5/2018 10:18 pm

Over 15 yrs only one meeting,just some lite touching.Agreed to meet for a real sex session.End contact nothing since 2 months.


mkranch 61M/61F
5 posts
2/5/2018 4:24 am

I / we have met a few very nice people, played and had alot of fun.
Not anyone steady to have a LTR for play friends, lots of flakes and guys that just want to use us and not reciprocate.
It's has been alot of fun and we both have learned alot.


McDream_me 60M
24 posts
2/4/2018 8:02 pm

somewhere around 15 or so. I have made some nice friends here. There's a whole group that are a little too far away, I'd say 25 more that would meet me with no hesitation on either of our parts.
Most have been friends in the chat rooms.


goodpoke 63M

2/4/2018 7:43 pm

Not a single one, not even close despite using different profiles and styles over the years. I just use this place as a joke for light entertainment now. Just way too fakes and time wasters.


lumpyr271 64M

2/4/2018 2:40 pm

Only once. It was a great experience, though.


ltrskr 73M  
5066 posts
2/4/2018 2:39 pm

Over the years I have actually met quite a few, had sex with very few, most meetings have ended with just drinks!
The best one I met had a blood clot on the brain and passed away!

"Onward thru the fog!"


7inchwolves 35M
37 posts
2/4/2018 12:40 pm

there too many fakes


Despicable_Drew 36M
4 posts
2/4/2018 9:57 am

13 meets (involving sex in some form), couple of hundred conversations and messages exchanged.


shnickie4u 62M
29 posts
2/4/2018 4:36 am

2 couples and SF. Lots of fun over the course of several 'meatings'.


justlaughanyway 52M
5 posts
2/4/2018 4:11 am

I've met quite a few , a dozen or more.... More importantly ,I met THE ONE. I never should have let her get away. She was beautiful and sexy and smart... and I was stupid and shallow ... I miss you Sherryl...


golosa1115 60F
1066 posts
2/4/2018 12:00 am

I've met about a dozen. I've have met more than once with most and through a few years with a couple of them. I get all hyped about hooking up, but its like a sweet/sour emotion because even though I love sex at my age I was hoping to meet the ONE whether a FWB or a fuck buddy. I feel I am more devious when I'm with someone that I feel safe. Someone that's not going to give me herpes if I kissed them or crabs if I didn't shave. I would be able to enjoy a 69 w/o being tormented that I'm taking something that I am going to lament later. ppl say get tested but it seems man believe that if they fuck someone 2 days ago w/o protection or gave oral sex that they cant share whatever they got infected with to the person they fuck later that night. Its true if they got tested that same day after sex its a huge possibility that it will not show on the test results. Why else would they not mention the recent fucks but say they got tested within the last 6 months. FUCK RESPONSIBILY


A1LOVER2004 replies on 2/5/2018 2:10 pm:
I AGREE....GOT TO STAY SAFE NO MATTER WHERE YOU MEET PEOPLE, INTERNET OR IN PERSON.

slowone40 51M

2/3/2018 8:19 pm

I've met about 10 or so people on here and not for just sex just had a good time.


toy20666 64M
105 posts
2/3/2018 7:33 pm

Yes I have met about people from this site, I hope to meet more


absolutelyiwould 76M/76F
68 posts
2/3/2018 6:45 am

We have met many couples but more single guys as we enjoy mfm's. As we have gotten older the responses have declined, but still get quite a few, often from guys much younger. We are very selective and meet probably about 1 in 10 who respond and have sex with no more than half of those we meet. Met lots of nice couples and guys and some not so nice.


SomewhereSE 64M
314 posts
2/2/2018 10:02 pm

been on and off here since 2007, met a few in the beginning but as I got older it tapered off and the number of women with visible profiles locally (within 50miles) declined as well, better options than this site no doubt. It's no longer worth being a paid member to keep looking at the same half dozen or so profiles that aren't a good match, or wait for the one or two new members that trickle in a month.


ApexDan1000 66M  
22 posts
2/2/2018 9:16 pm

Been on TSdates.com for approximately 4 years and have met probably 20 (give or take). Approximately 15 resulted in sex and I would say it was a positive experience.


PantsConCarne666 50M

2/2/2018 7:37 pm

ZERO ... I'm kinda over it.


McDawger 48M
49 posts
2/2/2018 12:57 pm

1 so far....not a bad meet and greet


funshop1969 52M

2/2/2018 11:26 am

Zero!!! I put in no effort until recently, but as others have said there is a huge ration of men to women. If I were to stick my ass in the air on IM i'm sure I could meet 100 guys in a day, but women aren't so easily caught. Although I'm working at it and plan to meet that lucky lady soon.


isobifolks 66M/67F  

2/2/2018 9:36 am

It's very close to being a waste of time. Lot's of posers, no shows, and pic collectors.


Funtimes1677 42M
16 posts
2/2/2018 3:34 am

I have met 0 in person.


tnt6969694 68M
221 posts
2/1/2018 1:03 pm

Have met several wonderful people here - look forward to meeting many more


wontgetitthatway 51F
65 posts
1/31/2018 3:14 pm

In 4 ish years, 15 met. 3 led to sex and wishing I hadn't bothered. Is what it is.


Bedrebels 60M/61F

1/31/2018 3:13 pm

It's lost a lot of couples over the years but we have met hundreds of Cpls on this site... If you work real hard at it, you can be rewarded. Now its full of single males for the most part


karma2006 56M
178 posts
1/31/2018 12:59 pm

Met two women. Played with one. The second woman, we both felt it was not right.


haveabig14ya 52M
53 posts
1/31/2018 12:55 pm

Have to be upfront, I have lost count how many folks I have met on this site over the 10 plus years I have been on here. Not everyone panned out but many more did than not.....


BooneDavis 41M
54 posts
1/31/2018 8:29 am

Only met 3, not sure if that's a lot or a little

Midnight


Jessi3825 55F
12 posts
1/31/2018 2:26 am

Actually, TSdates.com has been my primary way of "dating" over the years. I've been on since around 1997 or 1998. Back then, sites like this were rare and TSdates.com was the most organized. Now it is just one of many. I would guess I've met a guy maybe every 2 or 3 months, so probably around 60-80 over the last two decades, but things have slowed waaaaay down from what it once was on here.


A1LOVER2004 replies on 1/31/2018 1:56 pm:
WOW....WITH THOSE GORGEOUS TITS AND BODY I'M SURE YOU MEET GUYS EVERYWHERE YOU GO. I WOULD DEFINITELY MEET YOU IF WE WERE CLOSER...

bewbieluvr 54M
68 posts
1/30/2018 4:58 pm

Best as I can recollect is around 25 - that I am aware of; may have met others without knowing they are members, and have met some before I knew they were members. Some are real-life friends who I've since happened across on the site. Meetings have run the full gamut from being stood up, having no connection, some soft playing, some one-time sessions, a few overnight stays, one 2 year relationship, and a couple of ongoing relationships.
A decent record seeing as how I rarely make the initial contact


Jessie90s 31F
1 post
1/30/2018 4:02 pm

I'm not sure of the exact number, but I'd have to easily say at least 20. Considering I'm now pregnant, it's safe to say that I've been flooded with messages recently...


A1LOVER2004 replies on 1/31/2018 2:01 pm:
WELL YOU ARE SMOKING HOT SO IT'S VERY EASY TO SEE WHY YOU ARE BEING BOMBARDED WITH REQUESTS.

ULIXBIG 67M
9254 posts
1/30/2018 3:03 pm

Physically met just one in 2 years. Was stood up about half a dozen times though, where nobody turned up for an agreed meeting.


TheCaveman76 45M
18 posts
1/30/2018 2:25 pm

It does seem to be getting harder to meet people on here , its been a few years since I met anyone genuine.


DoctorBooty 40M
6420 posts
1/29/2018 10:28 pm

Enough that I have actually lost count over the years, but it could easily be higher if I lowered my standards, and if I really enjoyed fucking with an audience. I never really liked having her husband watch


plumbboi 28M
164 posts
1/29/2018 9:58 pm

Only 1 and that is after a week of talking just to be sure there was no funny business on both side.

There is alot to see out there, so get out & experience the what the world has to offer.......or not


kissing_softly 107F  
215 posts
1/29/2018 6:04 pm

I lost count.


hungdon70 59M
84 posts
1/29/2018 3:42 pm

i have been here for a while.. i have met about 6 people , single and couples over that time. lots of fakes and flakes.. still friends with a few i have met but not had sex with . as a single guy, it's tough to meet anyone that really wants to play.. and yes, this site sucks and getting worse .. IM sucks .


cuminmypussy2x 39F

1/29/2018 1:47 pm

I have been on here around 7 months or so but i have met some really nice people, about 10. But i get 75-100 request to meet per day. I'm a married slut but i don't have the time to meet them all....lol


wildcard_73 48M
1 post
1/29/2018 1:03 pm

this sites a fucking joke. it has ben the last few years. half are fakes and the other half think this is Dr.Phil.com


krisiswolfzeta 42M/41F  
25 posts
1/29/2018 12:41 pm

It's tricky. I am the male side and have been here on and off since 2006. Most of the ladies are gone. They no longer go one here. They are on other platforms. We come here for bisexuals only now.


naughtyguy1950 71M
65 posts
1/29/2018 10:25 am

Zero so far in the last few years. I guess I'm just too old and my penis is to small. I'm in the older age range, (70 yrs) and not many erotic minded ladies here in that age range. It sucks to get old.


tmorg1234 30M
1 post
1/29/2018 9:48 am

I think age is a big factor ive only met 2 because most arent interested in someone this young


hrdrpecker2 65M
1 post
1/29/2018 2:36 am

Hook ups with bi guys can be complicated.


Magosika3 32M
186 posts
1/28/2018 11:48 pm

out of the whole year I've never met anyone here so no action

welcome to my chats and spats


akiz4u 55M
10 posts
1/28/2018 10:44 pm

Some of the gals I have met here are also on Fetlife. Kinky gals are the best !


poullaki1982 39M

1/28/2018 10:33 pm

ONLY 1! Most of them are fake in my area...


Alluringlyyours 28F
20 posts
1/28/2018 9:33 pm

Unfortunately, zero. Joined this site May 2017. Too cautious and I'm also shy Have had plenty of offers (btw, thank you to all) but I don't know if and when I will ever meet anyone I've had great chats (wink, wink) that I've kept in touch with once in awhile (sexting, phone sex, or just normal chats)



AlluringlyYours 💋


LadyTeddieBear 64F
6 posts
1/28/2018 6:56 pm

I have been on here since 2012 met between 13 to 18 possible more some no sex a few sex a few just for a date to see if we had anything in commen


redy2plzu6969 67M/58F  
71 posts
1/28/2018 6:14 pm

We have been on here since 2012 and have met only 3 people. And only 1 sexual encounter. This site sucks. Too many men on here competing for the attention of a woman. I have read a poll of dating sites that says TSdates.com is the worst site if your looking for a single woman to play with as it's 67% men or couples. The highest men/women ratio of heterosexual dating sites. Also TSdates.com charges for every little thing.


Cutie7519 51M/46F

1/28/2018 3:50 pm

Have met around 15-18 people off TSdates.com for meet and greets. Only had 4 play dates over the last 3 years. Has been good for us as we are not looking to sleep with the world.. Just depends on what you like to do and how far you want to take it.


pearltongue78 43M
4 posts
1/28/2018 1:32 pm

Way down hill. Chat rooms used to have a lot more people, wasn't hardly any women on here trying to rent out pussy, and u could watch cams without women wanting tips. As soon as they get to asking for tips I leave their show.


A1LOVER2004 replies on 1/28/2018 1:46 pm:
I DEFINITELY AGREE WITH EVERYTHING YOU SAID.

Sumptiou 58M
6 posts
1/28/2018 10:59 am

the "fakes" are misguided or can be deluded about how people should relate. or are only out for the mental stimulation. which is cool too. but if cant relate in a chat, it wont ever work for a meet up. this is a communication place. else its just an ad posting.


Sumptiou 58M
6 posts
1/28/2018 10:55 am

they have to chat, be able to chat... that's number one. then they have to seem sincere.. interested.. discreet.. adventurous on levels..


whitelunch 72M
9 posts
1/28/2018 10:50 am

I've met and had sex with 2 men from here, had a couple of no shows and am in contact with a couple more for future hookups.


AlohaScott 59M

1/28/2018 8:12 am

This is my second stint on TSdates.com, the first was 6 years ago and only for a 3 month trial. I met with 3 women at that time. One woman misrepresented herself with old photos, one lady and I had no chemistry, and the other was a sex goddess who I saw four times over two months that summer. So far this time I have yet to meet with any women in person but have talked with several on the phones. It seems that more women are on here now just for entertainment and not wanting to meet in person.


LonelymwmNSC 68M
35 posts
1/28/2018 5:43 am

I have been on here for about 15 yrs one time as a couple now as a single male. Have met many people from here some worked out for play others just friends or meet and chat


lovableguy4her8 51M  
21 posts
1/28/2018 4:54 am

Been here 6 yrs..site and people are fake...everyone wants to fuck but no one wants to meet? WTF


wincardium 59F  
8 posts
1/27/2018 9:54 pm

I have met some really nice men in the past two years and some couples. The men have been overwhelmingly nice, kind, smart and sweet. However, there have been an extraordinary number of no-shows, cancels and stood-ups. I guess that's just par for the course. Love it here on TSdates.com. When it works, it's fantastic!


dubyavee 41M

1/27/2018 9:40 pm

Haven't met anyone yet. Had two offers but timing wasn't right for either.


bandit5_0 51M
79 posts
1/27/2018 9:07 pm

Living the TSdates.com dream but its a lot of hard work. I've met mostly single women , a few couples, and got invited to join a couple of swinger groups. I didn't play with everyone I met but my time spent here is worth it. I agree with others as this site is definitely going downhill.


LayMeDown17 52F  
39 posts
1/27/2018 5:30 pm

I haven't counted actually Think I have meet about 10, not all have wiorked out. One has been off and on for 3 years. Another, has been a couple meets.


biglotofun4u 67M  
34 posts
1/27/2018 2:04 pm

I've met just 3 women on here, had sex with one exceptional lady, but for the most part there are simply a lot of lookers, some hookers and then the fakes. Might be nice to host an area meet and greet so that there's some real face time


shag46514 72M
51 posts
1/27/2018 11:50 am

Only been on for a short time. Have not met up with any one yet. my age scares many ladies. However, grandpa knows some tricks too, you do not have to be 30 something to have great sex.


7up48 69M  
49 posts
1/27/2018 11:29 am

I have been on this site for 17 years and nothing as of yet.


Kaciestar 57F

1/27/2018 9:49 am

I've been here about 5 years, mostly keeping up with old friends now. Lots of men, lots of sex. Some groups, some couples - I should write a book. There are some experiences I'd like to forget and some I'll dream about forever. Also, people that I'd love to meet who are just "chatting" friends. They just won't know what they're missing...


youngmanlooking1 50M
10 posts
1/27/2018 7:07 am

I travel a lot so I come on here when I'm in a diff city and meet others . not all turn out to be sexual but most do .


ILveTHICKWomen 50M
77 posts
1/27/2018 5:44 am

Lot of fake profiles and women


freakybynatur2 46M
27 posts
1/27/2018 5:23 am

A lot of talk, very little action


wifejustlookin 43F
8 posts
1/27/2018 4:28 am

been here as either part of a couple or this profile for over 15 years and have met several decent ppl from here. Although will say it has gone down hill over the last few years...


ScCpl4BiFem 44M/43F
46 posts
1/26/2018 11:41 am

We have been meeting people for a little more then 2 years and have only met about 4 people/couples from here. Have had a ton of fakes say they want to meet, but then they never show.


Slowpoke2017 67M
1 post
1/26/2018 10:58 am

Four months, 0 meets, 3 scammers that got way too much of my money and a blackmailer wanting full body/face nudes. Still hoping...until my sub expires.


bob144333 66M
201 posts
1/26/2018 5:39 am

I have met with 6 had sex with three one I had sex with exclusively for 4 yrs she was the last one


Isttime4us 61M/61F

1/26/2018 5:07 am

when my wife and I first joined people seemed a lot more willing to interact. We met one woman in person for a threesome,she was a nice person but I wasn't that attracted to her . she and my wife continued to correspond but nothing became of it. My wife no longer has any interest so i'm here alone. I met a couple and the husband could no longer perform and she was very horny and he was willing to share , there was an attraction but she was seeing someone else too so I declined. I had two other women that I corresponded with that were very friendly , I talked on the phone with one and we were going to meet ...she sounded pretty horny but she didn't provide a picture, so it never happened. there are one or two others but some people are just so uptight that it just doesn't seem worth it.


uneedmeinu 56M
18 posts
1/25/2018 11:12 pm

Too many fakes and escorts on here.I mustn't forget the scammers too.


JoldmanL 75M
136 posts
1/25/2018 11:06 pm

I and my departed wife, have been here since the late 90's... Have arranged for over 20 to meet.... of the 5 that did finally meet, others were no shows... I was what we expected, other 4 were not as they advertised/// zero went to final meeting... Wife found more playmates offline and was long term...... We did make friends online, some still stay incontact on here, others have found other playgrounds to be better pickings... I still stay in touch with both online and offline friends.

I stopped saying Good Bye, instead I say HELLO, until I see you again!


lkng4moretrbl 55M  
3 posts
1/25/2018 8:28 pm

I have been a member since 2005 altogether and Go ld for probably close to 90% of that time period. I have probably had close to 75 actual meets (they didnt always wind up with us in bed). Many I now consider friends and still hang out/play to this day. Some were VERY short lived beyond the initial hook up or meet and there has only been 2 that were (for lack of words at the moment) scary in 1 or more ways. Over all I would rate my satisfaction with overall meet up is average to above average.


redhotfun4you2 58F  
1596 posts
1/25/2018 5:13 pm

I have been a member for over 5 years including a few month break after the first year. I have attended several functions we have in our area, I even hosted coffee meets at a local coffee shop for a while. Therefore, I have probably met over a hundred, very few for sexual encounters.

Our area has an active chat room as well, where we converse on a regular basis. I will be attending a party/dance this weekend and will meet a few of the newer members.


autotech3222 63M
41 posts
1/25/2018 4:36 pm

Only met one and that went nowhere


galwaynew 53M
12 posts
1/25/2018 1:54 pm

this site is a money racket
or ladies in Ireland don't meet
loads of fake irish profiles to collect the euro
once my gold membership goes ill be out of here


FthoodBimale 49M
26 posts
1/25/2018 1:31 pm

I have meet a lot of people from here . Once a few of us had a 2 day orgy in san Antonio . Best weekend I very had 11 different people and one good time . My Ass will never be the same


playtoy484 58M
103 posts
1/25/2018 1:11 pm

met many ... fucked several .... love to lick ass to clit


playtoy484 58M
103 posts
1/25/2018 11:18 am

i have met 10 women on here and fucked them all Some many times .. some once or twice... i had one i fucked for months never should have let her go...


dessertgarden 51F
32 posts
1/25/2018 9:13 am

Been here a year. Have been immensely enjoying the first guy I met from here for a number of months now! Recently added a second for additional occasional enjoyment and am considering a third.. then I can get them all together and be thoroughly filled all at once! mmm, things to ponder


A1LOVER2004 replies on 1/25/2018 9:34 am:
II CAN SEE THAT YOU ARE A LADY OF QUALITY, NOT QUANTITY....GOOD JOB!!!

throatscock 93M

1/25/2018 6:49 am

I have met several people on here over the past year that resulted in some great experiences. I have also had the distinct displeasure of a bunch of quacks that spend a lot of time on here with no intention of any real contact. A lot of the women are just fishing for compliments (a lot of puss pics) and men that are just flashing it in hopes of getting that elusive unknown something.


yumehole 55F

1/25/2018 4:34 am

I have been a member for all most 3 years and have met with over a 100 it has been wonderful sexually and I still continue to meet. I like to start with chat here that allows us to connect. I have on a few occasions chatted and met within the hour which is also very hot.


JohnInNebraska 60M
186 posts
1/25/2018 3:52 am

Havent met many on here. There seems to be a lot of fake people.


mrtoad31 52M
317 posts
1/24/2018 11:54 pm

Used to meet and talk to many more years ago but now its mostly fakes on here and rude guys that make the girls to shy to meet


A1LOVER2004 41M  
177 posts
1/24/2018 10:16 pm

THERE ARE A LOT OF INTERESTING STOEIES HERE. I APPRECIATE YOU ALL TAKING THE TIME.........MY EXPERIENCE STARTED OUT LIKE THIS. FOR THE FIRST 4 YEARS I ONLY MET A HANDFUL OF PEOPLE ABOUT 8. THEN FOR THE NEXT 10 YEARS IT BECAME A STEDY FLOW OF PEOPLE WILLING TO MEET. I FIND THAT BEING IN GROUPS, CHATS, AND HAVING SIMILAR OUTSIDE INTERESTS OTHER THAN SEX HELPS A LOT. LATELY THE PAST 4 YEARD IT HAS SLOWED A BIT. I THINK ATTITUDES HAVE CHANGED, PLUS THERE ARE SO MANY OTHER SITES PROVIDING COMPETITION. BUT OVERALL STILL HAVING FUN AND MEETING NEW PEOPLE.


Tjregal1976affx 64M  
116 posts
1/24/2018 9:26 pm

I been a member for 2 1/2 years now and still have NOT MET ANY LADIES YET.
Some ask for money drop them. Some say they will meet me and never follow thru. Mostly the rest want to play games. I live in the country and almost all the women I emailed live in the cities. I guess they think I live too far away going to the cities is no problem for me.


tyrantcapri 48M
24 posts
1/24/2018 7:32 pm

been on this site about nine months, met four ladies in person, and l enjoyed them all


digsit169 56M
3 posts
1/24/2018 7:03 pm

Been on here for a few years. Met 1 lady, but she got cold feet and didn't go forward. Since then I guess I'm not what they are after.


illtrynow 55M
69 posts
1/24/2018 6:47 pm

This site can be amusing at times hence the main reason I get on it.Perhaps a little too amusing,as it can help you push your sexual limits and that isn't always a good thing ive learned.Met a few people on here,some quite awkward situations,some I did like,however would be easy to give it all up for a woman who I connected with maybe someday--


aniceride 51M  
117 posts
1/24/2018 6:34 pm

lol well to be honest the answer is i can't remember exactly how many but it's somewhere close to the number you have.i'v been a member since 04 so i'v been here a little while lol.now i will say it does help being actually bisexual and have met every gender you can think of.the types that i have met the most is couples both bi & str,mostly bi.i always get asked what's the trick to meeting people.really the answer is also the simplest,be HONEST about who you are and what your looking for.not everyone fits so don't try to make it fit.FILL out your profile fully so people can tell more about what they are looking at.for god sakes guys STOP with the one liner emails and sending pics of your junk.don't get me wrong it's good to have those types of pics but in your profile not as a starting point.if you follow these simple rules you'll do just fine.hell i'm not the best looking guy in world but being real will get you a lot further anyway.


Gidster1 57M
3 posts
1/24/2018 6:25 pm

I am obviously what no one is looking for.


bigblackman21221 51M
4080 posts
1/24/2018 3:00 pm

From 4/2010 to 4/2012 over 25.

I wasn't active from 4/2012 to 6/2017.

Since 6/2017 three.
I already knew one and the other two were one hit wonders.
A drink or lunch and that was it.


MrMoneyShot4u 41M
5 posts
1/24/2018 6:48 am

2 that i remember so far


1025mws 58M
677 posts
1/23/2018 6:52 pm

I met 4 women on this site. We had a good time together.
Now it is hard to meet or talk to woman on this site.


sphxdiver 71M
21064 posts
1/23/2018 3:01 pm

I'll just say that I have met some very fine women from this site, and leave it at that !!


Readmoreofeveryt 48F

1/23/2018 8:35 am

Probably about 15. I want to be safe but I want to weed out losers so I won't just meet or hook up with just anyone. If I did my number would be just as high because I get contacted a lot!!! It cracks me up that the guys always say they want a connection but seem more paranoid to give contact info and meet half the time. I haven't met any that said they didn't feel a connection, weren't impressed with me, etc! If they seem open with info, easy going, patient with me scheduling them in between jobs and kid, mature, have manners, if they seem to match what I'm looking for as that changes, etc!


lovethestick 76M
564 posts
1/23/2018 8:29 am

I have meet two guys from this site and had a very nice time with them .


HollyChatsNJ 63T
2792 posts
1/23/2018 8:15 am

Years back I used to meet many. Not necessarily for sex though.
This go around I’m so specific on whom I’m in search of. So the number of meets are few and far between.

~Holly
Atlantic City, NJ


A1LOVER2004 41M  
177 posts
1/23/2018 7:55 am

I LOVE TO MEET PEOPLE AND "TALK" WITH REAL CONVERSATION. THE INTERNET MESSAGES BACK AND FORTH DOESN'T ALLOW US TO FEEL A REAL VIBE. NOT ALWAYS ARE WE A GOOD MATCH BUT I THINK IT'S GREAT TO BE FACE TO FACE AND SEE IF WE HAVE A CONNECTION.


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