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Bling, Signatures, Stickies and super Chat Live!  

Andrew 54M  
2482 posts
3/1/2007 4:41 pm

Last Read:
3/2/2007 12:26 am

Bling, Signatures, Stickies and super Chat Live!

We're excited to launch some new features today:

1. Bling : Members can now create online bling (small graphical icons) to show off their personality. You can use our online bling editor so you can create icons without any special software. You can put lots of blings on your profile, posts, groups, etc as well as trade, sell, or gift them between members. Who knows the possibilities - should be fun to see what members come up with. If you want some of my bling, go to my profile and take some! Click on the link on the main page to manage and create your own bling.

2. Signatures : You can now create signatures for your blog and group posts. This way people can know more about you when you posts.

3. Stickies : Group moderators can make their posts "sticky" so they always stay at the top of their group post lists. (no need to keep bumping posts)

4. Super HTML Chat : This upgrade to our standard HTML chatrooms will make text appear faster as well as eliminate chat "flicker".


heavenlylove105 60F

2/28/2007 5:09 pm

I took some of your bling...Thanks!

Andrew replies on 2/28/2007 11:46 pm:
Thanks love... it's all about the bling

one_wilde_river 55F

2/28/2007 5:11 pm

Yeah, I've got your signature too...and where's the bling tools? I didn't see the pencil, eyedropper, bucket, etc.....

MyHeartLost4U 58M  
2487 posts
2/28/2007 5:35 pm

Blings....Interesting....something new to playing with...

Shelly_Marie 49F

2/28/2007 5:41 pm

I cant find the sticky thing....

Shelly_Marie 49F

2/28/2007 5:47 pm

Ohhh i see it now, you can only do it when you first start a post, not when you've already started one. Thanks for making that available.

Andrew replies on 2/28/2007 9:48 pm:
Oh, that sounds like a bug... will tell team tomorrow.

rm_justron9000 61M
1301 posts
2/28/2007 5:54 pm

i wish you had fixed the problems caused by the last update first

Andrew replies on 2/28/2007 9:50 pm:
Ron - what's your #1 bug... will try to get done asap.

Shelly_Marie 49F

2/28/2007 6:55 pm

For the bling, I cant see any of the tools like the eyedropper, pencil and all, but I managed to do this much without any of the tools, just the color box part (of course) .

I did notice that there are two boxes on the top right hand corner of the grid that you cant fill in (or at least I cant) cause it will reset itself to a blank grid, it is the top right hand corner box and the one directly underneath it.

Andrew replies on 2/28/2007 9:53 pm:
Which browser are you using? Those little boxes on the upper right are just showing you your before/after bling that you're working on. If you click the "original" bling, it will revert the one you're working one.

absolutelynormal 62F
6558 posts
2/28/2007 7:13 pm

I wondered why the site was so slow tonight.

Andrew replies on 2/28/2007 9:54 pm:
still slow?

rm_Shazz1971 50F
1052 posts
2/28/2007 7:40 pm

my bling:

hee hee... self portrait

unless of course it's still showing up as a white box with
a red ex... I'm much better looking than that. Fun idea... so far.

Andrew replies on 2/28/2007 10:06 pm:
Nice bling

rm_justron9000 61M
1301 posts
2/28/2007 9:50 pm

bling appears to be Firefox challenged

MyHeartLost4U 58M  
2487 posts
2/28/2007 9:59 pm


I created two Blings and and I am finding that other members are using the ones I created. Will there ever be a way that a Bling a member create can be kept from being taken by another member? Or is all Blings open to being shared? A Bling that a member creates for "themselves" is almost like a "personal logo".

Which by the way, personal logo's would be a wonderful addition for members to being able to inserting on a Blog home page or on their profiles. Almost like how the groups can add a photo to the main description page.

Andrew replies on 2/28/2007 10:10 pm:
Yes, you saw earlier tonight the circle with red line through it... that was supposed to be the icon you see if you're using a bling that is not your own (either taken or created). However, had a bug that made it tougher than it needed to be. So... tonight I'll code up something that is more correct (e.g., it will product your bling to be usable only by people who either take it from your profile, perhaps for a price, or you gift it to). The good news is that all the people who take your bling end up putting links back to your profile. These will eventually become personal logos (when used with post signatures).

JustASingleGirl2 54F

2/28/2007 10:10 pm

Ut oh, now I am gonna bling bling everyone. Thanks for the new toy!


Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

wet_pussy4ever 49F
3059 posts
2/28/2007 10:30 pm

Nice!!!! M goanna experiment wit sum new blings plus i've taken sum frm u Nice changes


mendu_sexalnite 52M

2/28/2007 10:42 pm

why are'nt i recieving emails from other members

TheOracle2006 111F

2/28/2007 11:13 pm

Thanks its been fun playing with the bling... only thing is it eats up the standard members viewing priviledges.... you are such a devious man!

Now can we get the clock fixed? I am tired of being ten hours ahead of time in this blog.


L"Oracle de L'Amour

Hi again

Andrew replies on 3/1/2007 9:33 am:
Perhaps - we are still looking at ways to show bling to standard members.

Yes, my posts get put in the future so that they can been seen for a day at the top.

nairoz 43F

3/1/2007 1:19 am


drkainz 41M

3/1/2007 4:34 am

thank yu for the wonderful site i am proud zim has the most people here in africa.but all these are not reaaly reachin out to us could yu try something for us as we can not pay in us $

Andrew replies on 3/1/2007 9:40 am:
You could create bling and sell it for points then use points for memberships. Unfortunately, we had to block africa because of high fraud in credit cards. You can pay in money order tho.

Shelly_Marie 49F

3/1/2007 6:27 am

    Quoting Shelly_Marie:
    For the bling, I cant see any of the tools like the eyedropper, pencil and all, but I managed to do this much without any of the tools, just the color box part (of course) .

    I did notice that there are two boxes on the top right hand corner of the grid that you cant fill in (or at least I cant) cause it will reset itself to a blank grid, it is the top right hand corner box and the one directly underneath it.
the 2 little boxes i was talking about are the two boxes inside the grid itself, if you run your cursor over the farmost top right hand corner one and the one underneath it then you will see your cursor turn into a hand, or at least on mine it does. I am using Internet explorer 7.

TheAlienPsycho 111M

3/1/2007 6:56 am

You need to make a new category. There are not only males and females on this site there are also Aliens. Next to my handle and age the "m" (male) must change to "A" (alien), since I am an alien from planet Quaquakron.

Customer service has not realized the importance of this request from mankind.

Alien Gleflejnequ Rebkstrw

Andrew replies on 3/1/2007 9:49 am:
I will put that in the list of project...

cowboywanted2day 51F

3/1/2007 8:52 am

Great - something else for someone to complain about that in a couple of days wont work right!


Lets Save A Horse and Ride Each Other,

Andrew replies on 3/1/2007 10:05 am:
Yes, have to distract members with something while we fix other bugs

rm_Got42DDD 55F
159 posts
3/1/2007 10:10 am

I love all of the NEW features available. Any more in the works? I have noticed changes to the VIDEO page as well.

However the "Live Webcam Search Form" doesn't work properly all the time. If you sort by location, member status... the results are still mixed up as well as numbers skipping. For instance - you sort live cams by "Member Level". The results you get will be the first few listed are Gold Members, then the Silver and Standard Members are all mixed up. The results are numbered and should be consecutive 1,2,3 etc... But the results are 1,2,11,17,23 etc... Where are the members in between? Why isn't the sort by location results accurate?

My point is that the "Sort By" function doesn't work properly.

The drop down menu offers different items to Sort by (newest, most viewers,distance,score): How about a "view all" option, How about a audio option? I love to search for live cams that have audio. I hope this gets worked on. Thanks for a good adult experience.

Happy Hunting, Got42DDD

Andrew replies on 3/1/2007 11:07 am:
I just informed the team.

rm_rubenesque8 49F
3244 posts
3/1/2007 10:38 am

Hi, Andrew. I took one of your blings . I love the sticky post part. This way I don't need to make Welcome thread part this and that anymore. I remember the first time we reached page 100, we needed to click on NEXT to be able to go to the next page because the page box was ( still is?) only good for 2 digits.

Andrew replies on 3/1/2007 11:08 am:
Thanks - I think box is 3 digits now?

papyrina 56F
21123 posts
3/1/2007 12:48 pm

    Quoting spunky11961:
    Thanx, but so far I can only recieve I can't give... and the tools aren't available to create yet..Interesting,seeing what will develop and the myriad of uses this will be applied to~

spunky they are honey press on Create/Edit Bling
Create new Bling using our presson thatonline editor,its slow at opening but it does and you can play all you like

I'm a

i'm here to stay

papyrina 56F
21123 posts
3/1/2007 12:50 pm

bigger blings would be nice i'm having fun with them thanks

I'm a

i'm here to stay

Andrew replies on 3/1/2007 7:01 pm:
Yes, we have bigger bling on list for new stuff... fun to see what little bling can be done first

folkhantio 47M
4 posts
3/1/2007 1:08 pm

hmmm it's a fun bling game mate

TheOracle2006 111F

3/1/2007 1:38 pm

The clock time has nothing to do with your posting... everyones time is in the future. It has been that way for weeks. I have written to you guys and been given empty promises. I do not like being ten hours in the future all the time.

Can you fix that? Pleeeeese!
And while you are at it, I lost all viewing privliges looking at bling. Now I can't steel any bling. This sucks. I gave away all my privilges to bling people.

L'Oracle de L'Amour

Hi again

Andrew replies on 3/1/2007 7:02 pm:
Did you change your IP? Did it work before? I'll talk around to see if it's systemic.

rm_Journey4me 61F
40 posts
3/1/2007 1:39 pm


Happened upon your blog today from a friend who sent me the link and am quite glad I found your writings.

I've checked out the "bling" and while i've not had the time to fully check it out or do any creations it looks like it could be a fun addition.

I have a couple of questions for you though. I moderate the group New England Greeters that's been around a couple of years now. I understand the "sticky" option and think it's a great idea. My question is this though, with the update the threads no longer pop to the top of the list with a new posting, thus keeping the more active threads at the top of the list. With the update they are now appearing in chronological order by the thread's original posting date. Thus making it so older threads that are still active are no longer appearing at the top of the list. Is there any thoughts of changing this back so that they are listed by "most recent" reply posting date again, being below any that have been "sticky'd"?

Also, I've been on A.F.F. for a time now before the smaller geographic chat regions were created. As I recall back then there were a few chat room "monitors" they'd warn people of breaking the COC and boot the "bots" out of the chat room. Not sure if this is something that A.F.F. would consider implementing again, but I'm sure that you'd be able to find some long standing members that frequent specific chat rooms that'd be willing to be monitors for the site. While this would take some doing on the sites part it would be totally doable, somewhat like the old "plus" system on a gaming site that used to have lobby chat areas for some of the games. They enlisted the assistance of certain members who met a set of guidelines and criteria to assist them in keeping the chat following the COC, a possible core group you might be able to ask assistance from are your active group moderators and associate moderators. I was a part of that program a number of years ago and while I won't go into specific details here if you'd (luvpump) would like information on how it worked please feel free to sending me an e-mail here on A.F.F. I'd agree with the other posters that the "bots" again are in high numbers, in the New England area chat room we typically have about 3 bots running at any given time, including the late night/early morning hours when there's usually only about 40 chatters. While "ignore" is an option to do so quickly fills up one's ignore list.

While typing this I tried the "goggle"ing of handles like one of the posters mentioned. I have a silver membership so not sure that makes a difference, but I was able to click on the "google" link and be taken directly to a modified version of the profiles - ALL of the profile information was there though it was just a difference in appearance.

Lastly, I agree with another of the posters here about changes being made without notification to the members. One prime example would be the recent "3 day" viewing of new profiles. Many of us who have "silver" memberships had that change made during a paid period of which when we'd paid that wasn't a part of the "silver" memberships restrictions. While I understand that updating of the COC and other offerings of the site are necessary. Why not send out a mass mailing like has been done recently for the site's contests? Another addition that'd be nice for "standard" members is while they see the "order form" page when they log in, have it show them if they have mail. I've seen quite a few new members on the site in the last few months that don't even realize they have the ability to receive mail here on the site if not a paid member.

Thanks again for the blog


~Journey ~

Andrew replies on 3/2/2007 12:23 am:
Will pass this along...

TheOracle2006 111F

3/1/2007 2:30 pm

Hi again

ERdosDdos 57M
637 posts
3/1/2007 2:32 pm

It sounds interesting....

I will watch this



Wer sich getroffen fuehlt .... ist gemeint

MissAnnThrope 62F
11481 posts
3/1/2007 3:19 pm

I think the new chat is having an ill effect on chat. The system is completely down with the message: Http/1.1 Service Unavailable

Andrew replies on 3/2/2007 12:25 am:
Unrelated issue - programmer broke chat for a few minutes today.

SpaceRangerNJ 61M
4686 posts
3/1/2007 3:19 pm

Kewl idea. I tried typing in my own RGB values but that didn't seem to work. Should it have? Will it in the future?

Andrew replies on 3/2/2007 12:25 am:
it should

rm_Journey4me 61F
40 posts
3/1/2007 4:32 pm

My apologies, I inadvertently posted this to the wrong blog thread it was meant to go into New stuff for Feb 28th release ~ Journey

~Journey ~

danaman4u 68M
5979 posts
3/1/2007 4:45 pm

This is cool! And something too long for one bling can always be split between multiple blings:

TheOracle2006 111F

3/1/2007 7:05 pm

So how do we make signatures?

The bling has broke my ability to mail or visit profiles. This now has put a crunch in my ablity to have what I came here in the first place... to contact paramours.

I am as distraught as ever. The clock is off, the bling ate up my ablity to carrouse, and no where have you told us how to write signatures.

What's a girl to do... guess go back to work on my own website. You guys... teasing us with stuff... and all you did was tease.

L'Oracle de L'Amour

Need to put a warning up for those of us without balls.

Hi again

Kitty_n_BigGuy 48M/50F
218 posts
3/1/2007 7:23 pm

the Bling editor isn't working for me right now, the tools to modify/paint/etc aren't showing up on the page as they were yesterday for us.

Second of all, the post listings in the groups have been messed up. While the sticky thread is nice, we'd like to have the topics show up again in chronological order of the last posts made by members.

As well, there seem to be repeated issues with members in various groups being banned by some system glitch - not the moderators. Can this be fixed, as well as the glitches in not being able to ban a member who isn't part of the group at a particular moment?

Thanks !

Kitty & BigGuy

Moderators, Ottawa - Capital Sex

Kitty_n_BigGuy 48M/50F
218 posts
3/1/2007 7:31 pm

Ok nevermind.. I've been able to access the editor 2 times out of 4 now. It seems to depend on how I access the page ? Who knows...

Kitty & BigGuy

Moderators, Ottawa - Capital Sex

Andrew replies on 3/2/2007 12:27 am:
working now?

Shelly_Marie 49F

3/1/2007 11:32 pm

i noticed on the the blings that i can only see the toolbox after i have made a bling and then click on the update link..but i cant see the toolbox when i go to first make the bling. Is it my browser? IE7?

Shelly_Marie 49F

3/1/2007 11:42 pm

    Quoting Shelly_Marie:
    i noticed on the the blings that i can only see the toolbox after i have made a bling and then click on the update link..but i cant see the toolbox when i go to first make the bling. Is it my browser? IE7?
ok, looks like i was i dont see it either way...must have been a one time attack.

wet_pussy4ever 49F
3059 posts
3/2/2007 12:11 am

I understand tat after u've came up wit these blings, we r unable to view profiles & cams. Y so? We use to b able to view profile. So, being a standard member here now dun have all these advantage i dun mind not viewing cam bt at least to view profiles.


roughotightbotom 82M/76M

3/2/2007 9:07 pm

Andrew, why did you delete my comment pertaining to Out Personals? I didn't know you censored what was supposed to be an open forum? Shame, shame on you!

Surely you DO discriminate against the gays & now we know it for a fact!

I am sooo disappointed in you & will discourage my friends from continuing to subscribe to your biased business.

TheOracle2006 111F

3/3/2007 3:12 am

guess what's on my mind!!!
Can't wink... can't view profiles...
sex sells!

Hi again

Wi_Enchantress 61F

3/3/2007 6:02 am

are the "bling" getting smaller for silver members in order to provide larger bling options for gold members or is this my imagination?

Explorer5455 70M

3/4/2007 1:44 pm

    Quoting  :

I agree that Standard members have been recently impacted by the changes. Standard members can no longer see cams. That is going to hurt the whole site since they also participate in doing cams too. A lot of people are really upset about this.

Phoenix_Rising4U 67M

3/4/2007 9:21 pm

    Quoting  :

This is exactly my problem also.

Andrew, pleez fix or instruct a.s.a.p. big guy.
I desperately need to 'STICK' an EXISTING TOPIC IMMEDIATLEY.

Good stuf.
My OKANAGAN group is enjoying the bling.
So many are so impatient when it 'don't work right', without actually learning about them, and expect a glitch or so. Glitches are normal in everything. They must think you can walk on water or something to think what you do is anywhere near E-Z.

p.s., lots of people do not believe you are a real person!!!
Too bad for them. I think you Rock.

rm__Evil 46M

3/4/2007 9:22 pm

Its interesting to see Ajax working with CGI, I thought that Ajax would be used for creating an flicker free HTML chatroom, as thats the only possible way.


Phoenix_Rising4U 67M

3/4/2007 9:27 pm

    Quoting  :

I know this is just repeating my post above, however, I want to express the need.
Thanks Andrew


rm_deeepocean3 64M
22 posts
3/5/2007 9:07 am

I agree with Northern, if my friends can't watch, why bother? why pay to be here.

Another gripe. Right this minute the home page says 1139 live webcams, click the link and it goes down to 450. But there are only 17 women and 58 couples actually listed. the numbering is out of sequence. if you start up chat there seems to be a lot of cams listed there but hardly any of them will connect. this has been going on for days. I realize broadcasting webcams, Can we try and get this fixed?

rm_MiBustyBBW 66F
2 posts
3/5/2007 12:07 pm

Hey deeepocean2, i too am bothered by the live cam's not being right with the number listed. Furthermore, when I am camming it does not always show up on the public video screen. Only people who have hot-listed me see I am on-line, then they have to go to my profile page to see if I am on cam then, they click on view web cam.

What fun is it giving a live cam show, when the people don't even know you are on cam. I like a big audience for my oral lovemaking talents upon the lucky male of the day

educatedaccent 72F
298 posts
3/9/2007 9:31 am

Delighted to find you. I just did a post about blings. I can't find a really ripe red like the one on the rainbow which you click on. The colours come out darker. Some of the icons I click on like the circle and the square don't seem to do anything. But overall it's great.


educatedaccent 72F
298 posts
3/9/2007 9:36 am

Hello Luvpump
Delighted to find a techie (in old non politically corr-rect days known as a nerd). Also good to see a pic of a person with a face. It appears large numbers of people have died and left behind a pickled penis picture.


charliesexangel 60F
2936 posts
3/9/2007 11:33 pm

When I click on your Get Bling Here link, I get sent to the order page....I get the same thing for the majority of the profiles as well. Why?

Fondly, Charlie's ex

bdadebora 62F
71 posts
3/12/2007 9:32 pm


CrazyCampers 47M/49F
12 posts
3/13/2007 9:40 am

About signatures

I've been trying to search for a place to create a signature...and all posts I could find lead to the 'BLOG' area. Finally, after countless days and deciding to create a 'test' blog there it was, the magical link I was looking for 'Signature'.

Here's the issue, I don't care to have a blog as I imagine many other members would also agree. Can we not have a link in the groups area as well to create a signature? Seems counter-productive to force us to create a blog to have access to the signature editor.

my 02 watts

rm_IluvSmiles2 42F

3/13/2007 3:58 pm

I tried making my own bling but taking yours was much easier!

rm_Got42DDD 55F
159 posts
4/5/2007 8:34 pm

Take My BLING please......... LOL OK OK That was my last ditch effort in the bling contest. If you go to my profile, you can "take" the little boobs in a corset bling for free. If you can't view my profile, then go to my blog [blog Got42DDD] and ask me nicely... I might give it to you. Thanks Everybody! [post 785510]

Happy Hunting, Got42DDD

FtSaskman 69M

1/8/2008 6:22 pm

Thank you for the Bling that I took

If you want to chat with me sometime soon, you can find me at the hawt place

Love you

cnnamon242 63F
1780 posts
3/23/2010 7:49 am

How about a post for HOW to create bling? I can use the drawing tools fairly well and have made several that way, but how does one insert graphics from elsewhere? Like the picture bling, etc. I'm not completely technically challenged, but I need a jumping off point here! Is there a bling class I can take lol? Help?

He who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe, is as good as dead; his eyes are closed.
Albert Einstein

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