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Why request to chat in the first place
Posted:Aug 19, 2021 12:08 pm
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2021 10:57 am

I had always been a gold member until the Ice Breaker program ended, but now I'm no longer looking to meet with anyone so it really isn't a big deal to be a standard member unable to view profiles or chat without it costing . Which brings me to my point: Why do members with no profile picture chat requests to standard members? Seriously, why, even if I was looking to possibly meet with the right person, why would I want to spend to answer a chat request from some faceless stranger? I guess the answer is you never know. No wonder guys are always asking if anyone has had any luck here. The no profile pic requesting to chat with a standard member would need a whole lot of luck to be successful.
How long to wait for chat response?
Posted:Mar 16, 2021 6:46 pm
Last Updated:Jun 23, 2021 10:31 am

often multitasking when on this site and don't always see requests when they are first sent. Sometimes the sender is offline by the time I can reply, other times it appears they are online but just don't respond to my reply.
So how long should you wait? I often see some go offline immediate after sending a request to . Do you wait all, or do you have a limit?
Expect immediate reply
Wait 30 seconds
Wait 1 minute
Wait 2-3 minutes
Wait up to 5 minutes
Wait up to 10 minutes
Wait more than 10 minutes
12 Comments , 77 votes
Post Vaccine, what will change?
Posted:Jan 1, 2021 4:00 pm
Last Updated:Jun 22, 2021 11:16 am

I was fortunate enough receive my 1st of 2 Covid vaccine injections this past week. The second one is scheduled for a few weeks from now. At least for me it feels like this long period of uncertainty is winding down. I figure it will not be until at least a couple weeks after the second injection when I will consider lowering my guard as far as Covid goes. I will of course continue wear a mask and follow other required guidelines in the public setting, however I'm thinking the biggest change will come in my personal life, such as visiting friends and family. Perhaps even fly somewhere for a visit or vacation.

I was given a CDC vaccination card documenting my receiving the vaccine, so I'm assuming as others receive their vaccination they too will receive proof. Chances are it will be a slow process before all or most receive their vaccination.

I know it is a huge relief for me to have received the vaccine. I expect my 2021 to return to something resembling normal. Have you given any thought to how you will proceed knowing the vaccine is or will soon be available to you?
Best Orgasm Ever
Posted:Aug 24, 2020 11:50 am
Last Updated:Feb 19, 2021 5:44 pm

My girlfriend recently introduced a new toy which has brought incredible orgasms, so much so I would rate them as my best ever. I've had good orgasm with both men and women, usually by oral, but this new toy is truly something to write home about. So this brings me to ask: What were you doing to achieve your best orgasm ever? I realize sometimes we have an orgasm more memorable because of who we may have been with, but I'm asking more specifically about how the orgasm was achieved. Feel free to share the details.
I am a woman, the best is from penetration
I am a woman, the best is from oral
I am a woman, the best is from hands/fingers, mine or others
I am a woman the best is from a toy
I am a man, the best is from penetration
I am a man, the best is from oral
I am a man, the best is from hands/fingers, mine or others
I am a man, the best is from a toy
Other, please explain
71 Comments , 696 votes
The color of hair
Posted:Mar 24, 2020 4:33 pm
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2020 6:11 pm

I received a nice email from a gentleman here today. He was just dropping a note to say hi and how he viewed my profile. He made a point of mentioning my reddish hair and went on to say how redheads are suppose to be good in bed. I'm not one to hype my bedroom skills, lets just say I hold up my end of things,. This guy obviously was attracted to redheads. We've all heard the blondes have more fun stories and I'm sure there is something positive about every color out there. So what color grabs your attention? Maybe in the comments extrapolate if you find them more fun. This is for male or female.
Carrot top redhead
Auburn, reddish shades
Doesn't matter
18 Comments , 152 votes
How many no's does it take?
Posted:Mar 5, 2020 12:50 pm
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2020 7:53 pm

I believe it was Zig Ziglar who said never give up until you have heard no at least 3 times. I receive lots of requests to meet and therefore say no thanks frequently. For this question, my reason for saying no is irrelevant. I get all sorts of responses after saying no; some saying their loss, some saying my loss, some begging me to meet. The list goes on. What I would like to know is how many no's does it take for you to say ok and move on? In the comment section maybe mention your success rate for not giving up should that be the case.
1 no and I'm out of there.
2 just to double check they really meant no.
3 no's are enough for me, then I'm gone.
3's only the beginning for the right person.
I never give up.
32 Comments , 249 votes
Will a new partner make you a better lover?
Posted:Jan 20, 2019 9:21 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2020 4:44 pm

There seems to be a lot of married folks here on and without being judgmental I'd like to know if finding a new partner for sex has made you a better lover? This can go for singles as well who change partners. Supporting comments are always welcome. Let me add based on your most recent change or addition of partners because I'm sure those with many have seen varying results.
Man: Became a better lover because of new partner
Man: No change with new partner
Man: New partner became a better lover because of me
Woman: Became a better lover because of new partner
Woman: No Change with new partner
Woman: New partner became a better lover because of me
12 Comments , 68 votes
What kind of lover is your lover?
Posted:Dec 19, 2018 8:22 am
Last Updated:Dec 27, 2018 9:33 am

As a woman I hear all sorts of talk how good a person is in bed. Oral for hours, great swomina, always womakes sure partner is satisfied. If anything the ones who womade no such prwomises are the ones who were the womost satisfying. So where do womost of your lovers stack up?
Woman: partner exceeds what they said they could do
Woman: partner usually does what they said they could do
Woman: partner rarely does what they said they could do
Woman: partner makes no attempt to do what they said they could do
Man: partner exceeds what they said they could do
Man: partner usually does what they said they could do
Man: partner rarely does what they said they could do
Man: partner makes no attempt to do what they said they could do
0 Comments , 37 votes
The fine art of Age shaving
Posted:May 21, 2018 5:36 am
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2020 7:02 am

Personally I don't see any reason to dramatically show ones age different than the actual age other than maybe being discreet as to hide one's identity. But dang, some of the age ranges people put out there. Recently when I told a 24 year old profile I preferred others closer to my age, he quickly told me he was actually 42. That's a whopping 18 year spread. Another case is a man who appeared he could be my father said he was my age. My guess is most age liars subtract on the average 10 years off of their actual age.
So do you lie about your age and by how much? What about some of the stories you've been told in regards to false ages given.
No I don't lie about my age
subtract less than 2 years
subtract 3-5 years
subtract 5-10
subtract more than 10
add less than 2 years
add 3-5 years
add 5-10 years
add more than 10
25 Comments , 246 votes
What qualifies as a monster cock?
Posted:Nov 3, 2012 2:55 pm
Last Updated:Nov 12, 2020 1:36 pm

There is a recent poll asking for preference in cock size, but experience has shown me that not everyone agrees on what exactly is a monster cock. So there it is, what do you think qualifies for monster cock status?
Thick and longer than 10"
Any thickness and longer than 10"
Thick and longer than 9"
Any thickness and longer than 9"
Thick and longer than 8"
Any thickness and longer than 8"
I wear reading glasses all the time, so longer than 6" looks big to me
OK, OK, I like them really big, so longer than 11"
22 Comments , 272 votes

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