A guy  

Annielis 54F
85 posts
3/6/2021 3:22 pm
A guy


Today, I had a guy message me to be friends. He and ai have messaged before. I told him to ask me a date. He s not in that place in his life. OMG. THAT MAKES LAUGH SO HARD. What place are you in buddy? Not in a place have my energy or effort. It is bizarre that a man alone in his 50s is “not in that place in his life”. Grow old looking for sex, babe. That is a great plan.

I have no interest in you as a friend. I don’t need more of those. I don’t. If a man is so fearful ask a woman a date then he should be looking for sex. I know we don’t think the same, men and women. But, either be a man and your fears of actually meeting a worthy woman or leave me alone.

I blocked him. I have absolutely no interest in such a coward.

I will say that I get a lot of attention here. Too much. I leave IMs hanging because there are so many. But, on the same token, I share my photo on IM. You will not do the same. Really? Scared to show me a picture on IM .....like I am going to share it with the world. Do you actually think that a woman will accept your invitation to breakfast when you cannot even show her your face ?

You men are from Mars.

Apollo602021 61M  
3693 posts
3/6/2021 3:54 pm

I have a lot of sexy women that I am friends with but only a few I am into!

Please become an Apollo602021 blog follower!


Annielis replies on 3/6/2021 5:06 pm:
I did

SingleInGR 53M
352 posts
3/6/2021 4:18 pm

I am sorry to read that this person was not able to muster the courage to ask you out on a date.

That is strange that someone would even invest the time to get to know the other person and then say that they are not in the right place...

Maybe they should get into the right place BEFORE getting on this or any other site and not waste other peoples time.

I am sorry that has happened to you.

I Wish you much better luck next time.


Annielis replies on 3/6/2021 5:07 pm:
Thank you

Annielis 54F

3/6/2021 5:09 pm

I agree with you guys! I share my face for men I message with. I expect the same in return.

Yep....hmmmm.....not in that place in your life.....do not waste my time. You are no man to me......sorry


Annielis 54F

3/6/2021 5:16 pm

My face is just as beautiful as my lips. I have no qualms with my beauty or sexuality. I have learned a lot about myself here. I am not an exhibitionist and I am really not that kinky. I am a one man woman. I think I might not fit here. But, I paid. Lol. I will not meet you for sex. If you have not met me already then you are sol. I am not anything like I was 6 months ago. Do not treat me like a slut. AND please acknowledge my education requirements. I am well educated. If you are not, we have nothing in common. Just saying


ArkansasBen 44M  
12 posts
3/6/2021 5:25 pm

So you call someone a coward for viewing life differently than you? Because they're at a different place in life than you?

I think your comments and crude remarks about him say a whole lot more about you than it does him. It looks like he made the right decision by not asking you out.

Just my observation...


jaqmes57 64M
186 posts
3/6/2021 6:01 pm

I would say he's married and can't get out to play


DvillePUSSYEATER 51M
79 posts
3/6/2021 6:27 pm

I have became increasingly convinced that no-one on TSdates.com, wants to hook-up....ive been on for over a year, and when it cums to the actual showing EVERYONE flakes. Can-not figure out why?


turnipcar724 40M
65 posts
3/6/2021 6:51 pm

I leave you my blogs send me a message


boobwhisperer69 58M  
7832 posts
3/6/2021 7:00 pm

    Quoting ArkansasBen:
    So you call someone a coward for viewing life differently than you? Because they're at a different place in life than you?

    I think your comments and crude remarks about him say a whole lot more about you than it does him. It looks like he made the right decision by not asking you out.

    Just my observation...
What he said!!!!!


Annielis 54F

3/6/2021 9:58 pm

I appreciate your opinions. I have been messaging with this man for awhile. You don’t know the whole story. Don’t waste my time messaging me and getting to know me. I think if I would have said I would have sex with him, he would have met me. I told him to ask me out on a date........now, I get it that you think my character is in question. That is just funny to me.

Think what you want. I am fairly certain that he was interested in me........and, I am fairly certain that if it was one you you guys that I had been messaging with, you would have asked me out on a date....

Just saying🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️


TxNrg 64M

3/7/2021 2:56 am

Crying over spilled milk never gets the mess cleaned up. When you come to a fork in the road; "not at that place in my life," reach up and use the turn signal and take to right fork and resist the urge to look in the rear view mirror. My $.02 The turn signal if so I do not rear end you... : ) ~~~~~ and some change


New2Midlo 52M  
1035 posts
3/7/2021 4:37 pm

Men give men a bad name, when it comes to interacting with women.

Taking the pragmatic man's approach, non-promiscuous women universally want to get to know a man before they sleep with them. Satisfy their need to know he's not a slime ball and will be good in the sack. I've previously mentioned how so many women I've dated have told me they can get an idea of whether a man's good in the sack by whether he can kiss. Anyway, only with those two needs satisfied (extra credit for proper seduction) will she grant him the keys to her kingdom.
Jump into the sack and have her body or put the effort in and have all of her.

BTW, I'm okay with promiscuous or non promiscuous women.


Annielis 54F

3/10/2021 7:06 pm

I like you New2Midlo. I like the way you think and talk. You are helpful. Why do you have to live so far away😂


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