Bettibenobo 65F  
80 posts
7/20/2020 1:07 pm

Have you ever Googled your user name here?

If you did you would find your name linked their other sites.

But if you click the link you would be asked create an account.

That's why even though they have separate sites just for gays, seniors, Hispanic etc they end and we have wade through It find the ones we listed our preferences for.

Bettibenobo 65F  
423 posts
7/20/2020 1:09 pm

Let's see how many words or letters are missing!

Happynude58 65M  
8 posts
7/20/2020 2:13 pm

Yes I have done that and surprised that this site allows the info to be on the web, seems since we pay it should be kept on the site only.

lonlyforlove2 78M
22909 posts
7/20/2020 2:37 pm

The many entities associated with Various Inc are all based on a common data base, That is why when you are on one of the sites you have no idea where the people you are looking at are located.. If you are aon A.F.F and are looking at my profile, there is no way to tell that I am on It is a business method to fleece more people with less effort.. Have a good , be safe..

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SomewhereSE 64M
312 posts
7/21/2020 1:12 am

    Quoting Happynude58:
    Yes I have done that and surprised that this site allows the info to be on the web, seems since we pay it should be kept on the site only.
If you read the site Terms Of Service, (which most people obviously don’t) you would know that you give the site the rights to everything that you post for their use, so whether you like it or not, they will use it in every possible way to con people into signing up.

That disclaimer you see many people post about harvesting/use of their pictures and such is totally useless and invalid, since once it is posted or relayed through the site, all content becomes the site’s property, and only they would have any legal recourse. Pretty much applies to all sites that display user content, they could not legally publish it without the users permission.

lindoboy100 58M
23884 posts
7/21/2020 4:27 am

Oh McBeebster, it's in the Terms of Use, they can use your details as they see fit. Which makes it all the more important that you give them very little in terms of personal details.

Their server was seriously h*cked (this word was barred after it happened) a few years ago. So again, all the more important that you give as few details about your personal life as possible.

Nada más que fallas......

missthee 55F  
4457 posts
8/3/2020 4:59 am

It's terrible. I started receiving messages from young men who are under the impression that my profile is on "d a t i n g m a t u r e." I wrote to Customer Care about it and it seems to have stopped, so maybe if you complain they will take your profile off the shared database (or whatever it is they are doing).

author51 58F  
125936 posts
8/4/2020 12:47 am

I did a blog post once on just how many other sites this links on to and was shocked beyond belief..

ItsThtPervertGuy 41M
485 posts
11/9/2020 11:10 pm

Hey triple B. is at it again. Can't reply to anymore. Took me off your list .Guess it is more bull from them for points and a upgrade. Soon as i get a good 50 we will be back!! Be safe and take care B!

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