Just some thoughts after a long night  

BiSussi 61F
659 posts
9/14/2021 11:29 am

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Just some thoughts after a long night


Don’t we all like be desired, appreciated, and pleased by someone we love? Does age make a difference, I suppose not, as I feel the today than how I felt about when I was still an adolescent. While many males are different, based on the few I met during the decades, you also have some have the needs I do. Unfortunately takes some time in some cases until your truly get know them. surprises me all the time that deep down many men would like a monogamous female, while they want have the freedom sleep and fall a few times a month or year. “ just happened” is a phrase I recall so well.

No doubt, if I love a man, I would like please him emotional and physically. If I am not incorrectly informed, seven of ten men cheat in relationships or marriage, while one in ten is honest about , if he trips and falls on another women. Is possible monogamies for me, I am not sure.

Is the intention of nature that a satisfies a female totally, emotionally and physically, provides her and her offspring’s with all they need in their lives and society interferes with nature? It is not easy for a male to provide for a woman and her today, many are not able, and we don’t have many Bill Gates in our wonderful land. The other question is, are many men are able please a female sexually?

While I have met a few men got close on a regular basis, most fail short big time. This is why I consider myself very luck that I have boyfriends have no need for a monogamous female. Is not of paramount importance for men open up during courtship and initial dates, prior becoming intimate, if they seek a monogamous female? would avoid emotional pain for men and females.

When I was a , was not fully aware of my sexual desires and needs, monogamy was something desirable. Not so much today anymore If I would fall in love with a man today, requires an exclusive relationship in order be happy, I would pass on any intimacy, in order not hurting him or myself.
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BiSussi 61F
1189 posts
9/14/2021 11:32 am

Would you become intimate with someone who is in need of a monogamous relationship, knowing that you could not be able to live up to his or her expectation?

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ChesapeakeGuy00 38M
2 posts
9/14/2021 5:38 pm

I hear ya!


CUMHANDLEME 59F  
790 posts
9/14/2021 5:42 pm

    Quoting BiSussi:
    Would you become intimate with someone who is in need of a monogamous relationship, knowing that you could not be able to live up to his or her expectation?
No ... Why get your or their hopes up of something other than what it is ... Someone is always going to get hurt in the end.

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


OldStandardDudeX 69M  
119 posts
9/14/2021 5:51 pm

    Quoting BiSussi:
    Would you become intimate with someone who is in need of a monogamous relationship, knowing that you could not be able to live up to his or her expectation?
No, I would not.....it's just not fair. For myself, at this point in my life, given the history of my monogamous, long-term relationships, I have determined that I am not capable of sustaining such a relationship....I seem to be lacking some emotional closeness capability......and so I seek a wholly satisfying FWB scenario.....I just won't do that to someone ever again....


Granny872 69F  
4035 posts
9/14/2021 6:27 pm

I was married for 32 years, and since I was monogamous, I did not see the infidelity that goes on in the single world. Since being widowed and cast again into the single life 12 years ago, I have come to the conclusion that 99% of men in relationships will cheat if the circumstances are right for him. Thus, I have no faith in men and would have a very hard time believing a man who professed to want a 'monogamous' relationship with me. I just haven't seen it to be possible.


Shouldbe_here 58M
53 posts
9/14/2021 6:32 pm

[4414389] Age is just a number you are in,y as young as you feel.


scoupe42 58M  
12838 posts
9/14/2021 8:41 pm

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G000dbuddy 34M  
1220 posts
9/14/2021 10:53 pm

You already mentioned what you want

goodbuddy781


G000dbuddy 34M  
1220 posts
9/14/2021 10:55 pm

    Quoting Granny872:
    I was married for 32 years, and since I was monogamous, I did not see the infidelity that goes on in the single world. Since being widowed and cast again into the single life 12 years ago, I have come to the conclusion that 99% of men in relationships will cheat if the circumstances are right for him. Thus, I have no faith in men and would have a very hard time believing a man who professed to want a 'monogamous' relationship with me. I just haven't seen it to be possible.
Rule 1 blame your hubby..
Rule 2 follow rule 1

goodbuddy781


nsnguystill 69M
389 posts
9/15/2021 3:27 am

    Quoting BiSussi:
    Would you become intimate with someone who is in need of a monogamous relationship, knowing that you could not be able to live up to his or her expectation?
no person can meet 100% of another persons needs. does that mean we should all have the "freedom" to do as we want?
what is most confusing to me is why one sex is always blaming the other sex of inflicting wrongs on the other sex
sometimes i ask myself " is the only difference between the sexes, body parts?

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


Leegs2012 48M
86463 posts
9/15/2021 9:48 am

    Quoting BiSussi:
    Would you become intimate with someone who is in need of a monogamous relationship, knowing that you could not be able to live up to his or her expectation?
No, I swing and I enjoy FWB/NSA sexual relationships only at this time in my life. Maybe down the road as I get older, but now swinging is all that I am interested in, and meeting people with the same mind set.
Great post Sussi!!


easyrider4008 65M
2458 posts
9/20/2021 7:15 am

I wonder if monogamy is not a dream as I think few could really claim to so in deed and thought.


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