The REAL AFF....  

BnCnStuff 44M/43F
5 posts
8/17/2017 8:06 am
The REAL AFF....

The reason I love is simple, its fun to look at profiles and find hot people with the same interests as you . Then potentially meet with them and if all goes well enjoy playing together. Now for us personally this evolved from something completely opposite to the place we're in now. In fact, us discovering the lifestyle has unlocked parts of us that we never knew existed, and both love to enjoy. Now I'm not saying that this is for everyone, it's most defiantly not! but if you are a secure couple or a confident single than you might be in for some serious good times. However there are a few things to watch out for here in this playground of adult debauchery. We are all familiar with the 4 basic sexual orientations; Straight - I have not played with same sex and have no interest in doing so. Bi-curious - I have not played with same sex but am interested in doing so. Bi-sexual -I have played with same sex but still enjoy opposite sex too. Gay - I play with same sex and have no interest in opposite sex. Seems pretty simple right? well your wrong, it's not as easy as that. You see there are sub classes that confuse the system. Lets start with what I call "Profile Straight" this guy is a single male listed as Straight on his profile but messages you about performing Bi-sexual acts. This is a sub class of Bi-curious and most are flakes that never intend to really meet you. Next up is my favorite, these people I call "Lie-bi". They come in two varieties, male and female. Males can be tricky to spot but females are very obvious. Males will claim to be bi to get with a couple as it is an "easy" in, but have no intention of interacting with the male and may become hostile if forced to, beware!!! Now females will simply be listed as bi but will strictly be looking for men. Lastly we have the "Creeper" these are weirdos who will generate an entire false profile to play out some personal fantasy. While very unsettling these people usually pose little actual threat as they will rarely meet people in person. But as a side note they might set up a meeting then not show but really be watching you from a distance. Now I have heard stories of couples coming to meet and finding a single male showing up with a story about a female waiting nearby but I personally would run like hell from this, and I advise you to as well. I'm sure there are plenty more archetypes I can identify so check back often and until then STAY SAFE!!!

happygolucky8200 43M
13 posts
8/17/2017 9:27 am

got to be 100 percent gotta be safe

wewantfunn727 53M/45F

8/17/2017 5:09 pm

Perfectly said!

Leegs2012 48M
86684 posts
8/17/2017 5:36 pm

Great post!!!! Welcome to Blog Land!!

Cum_Happy 108M
2814 posts
8/18/2017 2:12 am

Using cation and staying safe is the most important thing one -or two, can do.


Anything done half-heartedly will net you an equivalent result. ~CH

LookN4Threesum2 49M
17 posts
10/24/2017 4:30 am

Very well said

brutice69 41M  
137 posts
8/3/2018 10:32 am

yes yes wee stated what now freaks

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