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BournemouthLass 57F  
71 posts
1/11/2021 9:16 am

It has been a very disturbing 11 months with covid 19

What are you doing ?
Staying at home
meeting strangers
meeting people you know, but you should not
not staying at home but staying as safe as you can
messaging for a possible future meet in 2022
Having an affair with someone not in support bubble
Using online as an opportunity to have a cyber affair

BournemouthLass 57F  
22 posts
1/11/2021 9:17 am

I have had over 20 messages in IM asking to meet because we appeared to be local
This is not safe or wise

Brownie202 65F  
2680 posts
1/11/2021 10:15 am

To many men are willing to take the chance. Not saying women will not. I am going by the messages I get. Just yesterday some looser asked if he could come over today for a blow job. Told him no. Even without the virus there is no way I am letting a strange man know where I need live.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.

seoulswing2 39M/29F
169 posts
1/11/2021 6:07 pm

have not been traveling like before covid, and we have not been meeting strangers like we used to. we have been playing with the members of our swinging club and meeting a few locals that we know

SomewhereSE 65M
336 posts
1/12/2021 12:11 pm

    Quoting Brownie202:
    To many men are willing to take the chance. Not saying women will not. I am going by the messages I get. Just yesterday some looser asked if he could come over today for a blow job. Told him no. Even without the virus there is no way I am letting a strange man know where I need live.
It’s the same can’t happen to me mentality that some of us will remember from when AIDS/HIV was running amuck in the 80’s.
Major difference being that this time one doesn’t even need to participate in any sexual activity to end up dead.
Covid is killing a lot of people, but the overall percentage is so low that many people just don’t/won’t take it seriously.

Illbcnu6996 34M

1/12/2021 12:29 pm

Just wear a mask

LakeRidgeBBWSeek 62M
3847 posts
1/12/2021 1:04 pm

HAVE been meeting with my 3 FWBs, which are all related BTW, grin, BUT, I know all 3 of them as basically family, and get ALL the gossip & new via the oldest, the grandma, so.... it seems worth the chance. IF I thought someone outside my 'circle' wanted to meet, I would be very cautious, and only after an extensive conversation & fact finding, would I take the mask off and continue further. So far, hasnt happened. BUT, I havnt turned anyone down either. Offers to meet are very few & far between in the last year. I dont know if COVID is the reason, or my age, lol? AM sure hoping this COVID issue gets done soon before I get much older, as I am not DEAD yet, and have lots more fun in mind!

RavenGB 61M
1430 posts
1/12/2021 2:27 pm

It is always a very good idea to keep things in perspective and to understand the risk factors to you and those you care about. I think that if AIDS was discovered now, instead of the 80s, the hysteria about it would be driven by social media, but the risk to the general public was low - for some groups in society, of course, it was deadly. Most people that contract Covid will make a full recovery and not be very sick - others will be less fortunate and some will die. With that said, people still die in plane crashes, car accidents, random shootings and choking on food. We are all mortal, the only question is how much living we do between cradle and grave.

idblueswoman 64F  
830 posts
1/12/2021 6:20 pm

Over the summer and fall I heard from men who were traveling through town wanting to meet.. My thought was WTF? First of all I am not interested in "hookups" with strangers and second, WTF? Seriously, I haven't met anyone even locally. As someone who needs surgery and it has to be put on hold because of COVID... no one is worth the risk.. Just my feelings anyway.

Chilledfun21 51M

1/13/2021 3:33 am

Safety first, but that doesnt mean you cant talk and maybe that leads to more when it's safe out there. Stimulating your mind is as important as the body.

iraduu 42M
3598 posts
1/13/2021 9:47 am


Ray94134 66M
31 posts
1/13/2021 11:13 am

Nothing wrong with looking toward 2022, you never know.

Mr2please2 60M  
63 posts
1/13/2021 6:10 pm

Only met a 3 times with favorite couple..Risky but cautious..I even masked up! lol

old_stick 60M
83 posts
1/14/2021 12:02 am

I'm not taking any risks. It's not just if I catch it but who I might give it to!

doubledeezer 42M  
17 posts
1/14/2021 1:41 am

Not meeting anyone right now and staying in . I have vunerable family members and their safety is priority.
I have recently made a connection with someone online and we plan to meet when allowed.
Whenever that may be !

synndarella 46F
5236 posts
1/14/2021 10:40 am

I live alone at the moment and I'm staying home, no visitors and getting food delivered. I just found out today one of my neighbours has it! I am going out next week into town, to help a friend with their flat,they have COPD, I think that's right, and could die if they catch covid. But they also can't take care of themselves very well and need help cleaning their flat.

They trust me because I'm properly isolating, but seriously, Just the thought of breathing the air outside frightens me. I just don't want to deal with it but I can't leave my friend stranded, I know how much this is all getting him down. He's too much in denial of his health to take on a proper carer. I may still cancel. We will see.

I'm working with 26 letter's and a short attention span. I'm practically lethal.

Texasbottom4u 59M
56 posts
1/14/2021 11:52 am

I'm getting so horny that I can't stand it. Really wanting and needing to get some cock!! When this is all over I'm going to be such a super slutty gurl. I'll be letting everyone fuck me all the time. 2 at a time as much as possible and as often as possible. I'm so horny that I wear out my vibraters every day and have to go get another one. I need one now

Italiancalidude 50M
331 posts
1/14/2021 3:01 pm

It sucks to fuck in a mask but, safety first!

I am a lover of positive energy. Fun happens when positivity pops!

fretless136 69M  
7 posts
1/15/2021 9:11 am

Masturbating a LOT !!!!

DocManther 55M  
14 posts
1/15/2021 4:26 pm

Biggest fucking scam ever pulled!!!
Masks do nothing and here's how to prove it. Put your mask on and take a couple big breaths off of a tail pipe. You will be poisoned! Carbon Monoxide is MUCH LARGER than a virus!

So I stay away from masked people

Strongandvirile4 57M  
25 posts
1/15/2021 9:40 pm

Well at least I am using it to develop a potential thing when this finally clears.

60satisfaction 65M

1/17/2021 7:27 am

When are all you zombies going to wake up to the truth that this is all a giant coup to subjugate the world into a global feudal state?
The corporate fascists have been planning this for ages.
It is happening now, because of their hatred of Trump, and his campaign to free the world of the constant banker's wars.
America First is the biggest threat to the oligarchs taking possession of ALL private property and making you into serfs.
You are all about to become the property of the Lords of the Manor,
if you do not wake up, rise up and refuse to bend a knee to them.

BBWjawn 37F

1/22/2021 4:05 am

stay home and safe

Thinkerman10 55M

1/25/2021 5:08 pm

Normal activities - but with precautions

s2ndegree 63M  
9800 posts
1/25/2021 9:58 pm

No sweat,solid!

Using more than all the road!

man4yoo 59M
15 posts
2/1/2021 6:41 am

I'll meet when the vaccine has been fully rolled out and lockdown is over.

Nothing less sexy than death.

In the meantime I will chat !

Leave a message ay my blog?

jessielouiseTG 54T  
23 posts
3/6/2021 12:14 am

im staying home but my good friend moved in with me for the duration and he's been keeping me entertained

Csalomon91 31M
13 posts
3/31/2021 4:52 pm

oddly enough i've been finding myself being more social and meeting more people in person, since covid. it's not that im being willful but i realized early on that isolating yourself out of fear is not living. quite the opposite really. i can say this from experience as i ran away from living after having horrific things happen to me as a teen.

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