Does IM work for you?  

60 posts
9/22/2019 9:06 am
Does IM work for you?

Does IM work for you?
Yes all the time
No never
Hit and miss

100 posts
9/22/2019 9:06 am

Kik is best I’m cjdou there

GrassLakeMike 69M
60 posts
9/22/2019 9:26 am

I never know if it will work or not. When I find someone I really want to chat with it doesn't work Grrrr

Lasttry731 42M

9/22/2019 9:32 am

Sometimes. I've talked to people that said they have tried to contact me but never got a notification. vice versa on my chat sends.

AzRedhead1 64M/63F
8 posts
9/22/2019 9:38 am

It drops conversations and locks up a lot

robdoggie57 64M
45 posts
9/22/2019 10:06 am

Very frustrating, especially when you pay for this crap!

14854 posts
9/22/2019 10:34 am



jimmyyybackdoor 64M
20 posts
9/22/2019 2:32 pm

It is no longer effective for non-paying member, since the 3 free messages were taken away.

north120 47M
28 posts
9/22/2019 7:50 pm

It sucks most of the time

suzieloves3 35F

9/22/2019 7:55 pm

Seems to work fine for me but what do I know ?

MyPlayBed80x120 59M
42 posts
9/22/2019 8:16 pm

I've seen 3 versions of the IM since being on the site and each time they come out with a new version it gets worse. This latest version is totally unusable on my smartphone.

Maxbillion87 34M
49 posts
9/22/2019 11:31 pm

Only works like half the time

allnitelong2063 57M
230 posts
9/23/2019 4:25 am

It sucks all the time!

needsumluvn54 63M

9/23/2019 4:56 am

A lot of people will not answer back...very rude.


jerseygal69 27F
1 post
9/23/2019 1:51 pm

I can't send pic through the IM.

YourGoodLukCharm 62M
80 posts
9/24/2019 12:47 am

The IM over time has steadily gotten worse & each supposed upgrade is worse with less features Last upgrade we lost the ability to hover over the profile pic & it would enlarge as well as give the persons mini profile. Also they no longer tell you how many miles away the person is. I often like to scroll out about 700miles away from where I live because I own a rental house there & like to keep up with a few gals from that area. Now I might be able to scroll once, maybe twice & then it starts skipping the entire region & jumps out further. No action by after several e-mails on this corruption. Liked it much better when you could scroll continuously at speed without having to constantly hit the "view more members" at the bottom of the page. Hard to chat with someone that's not local because of this. Hate paying points, which you seemingly can no longer earn to have a chat with someone. This site was based on interaction & now that they have tried to monetize every aspect of it, it's no longer worth the price of admission for what you get, as we have lost so many things that made the site function so much better in the past. You want me to upgrade to Gold? Why should I again when basic problems aren't fixed & so many privileges have been removed. Remember the basic tenants of a successful business, our success as basic or Gold members should guarantee your success. Screw us & your platform withers away. I would certainly like to know how a "chat" can be considered a "chat" when it's only "delivered" but not "read" by another as a chat by definition is a conversation between 2 or more people, not a one way dialogue with yourself? Anybody got an answer for that? I also feel after being a member for more than 10yrs that cell phones have ruined IM chat & etiquette because people are distracted by their devices & can't stay focused & the chat process isn't fast enough. At least we shouldn't be docked points for unanswered attempts at conversation. And on the subject of points, how the hell does one earn them anymore!? Logging in/out doesn't work. No points for commenting on blogs, videos, liking a photo. W.T.F.! Want me to be involved with the site, reward me for my efforts if you're going to have a stupid points system. I've always felt the points thing & buzzmode toys were very discrimenatory towards men as women aren't as visual & don't watch cams as often nor do the toys which cost far to much work all that well for men either. Let people cam for the fun of it, like before, not to be cam whores that are trying to make some points for money upon which the house takes a share. It's awful compared to what used to be & personally when it comes down to it I'd much rather go to a real strip club in the flesh for my money, then a virtual one. Two of the other things that I miss on this site are being able to search by zipcode which was convenient for road trips & more recently the loss in search of being able to filter out members in your area that haven't been active in more than a week or two. My area has very few actives for the IM & camming. Maybe they are still available by e-mail but you can't do that as a std. member & I also feel that if a paying member sends you an e-mail you should be able to answer it, even if you can't send e-mails out as a std. member unless once again you pay extra as a gold member to have std. contacts. If you're Gold you should be unlimited. I could go on about more things that we've lost over the years. I've had a lot of fun here, had some great dates & FWB's in that time, & am still dating a couple, but we all agree the site seems past it's prime & needs some major renovation's & house cleaning to become relevant again. It's why I've remained a std. member for so long after being gold, as there has got to be a better site with more value for the bucks I spend.

nu2cincy 55M
1 post
9/24/2019 3:10 am

i think screws us daily

100 posts
9/24/2019 3:44 pm

IS there a better site?

rm_1littlehose 59M
529 posts
9/24/2019 5:11 pm

Yup it sucks. This site sucks as a whole thanks to all the changes made.

newtothisfu66 27M
1 post
9/25/2019 4:49 pm

Works for only a few messages. Switching to other apps works.

olderboy48 72M  
79 posts
9/26/2019 9:44 am

I guess it all depends on the individuals. Some people prefer to find out about you a little bit before trying a meet and greet. Some just use it to trolll folks.

bwc4ladyznodudes 42M

9/27/2019 5:01 pm

Kick is definitely the best. The im here is hokey...

StormchaserSTL 37M
15 posts
9/28/2019 12:54 pm

This IM sucks 95% of the time

attygurl_27 65T
50 posts
9/28/2019 2:10 pm

I have found that although it's sort of hit and miss it's much more hit than miss.

StCloudCouple19 31M/31F

9/28/2019 4:54 pm

Definitely hit and miss

ready7go 68M
22 posts
9/28/2019 10:18 pm

Most of the software here does not work very well. I'm surprised fixes don't ever seem to be forthcoming.

analslut2bused 44M
19 posts
9/28/2019 11:18 pm

it never works for me

smokeyjohnson54 61M
32 posts
9/29/2019 6:20 am

Works when it wants too. Im not a paid member so it costs me 10 tokens to find out if its gonna work. I dont use it

AZBiGuy480 58M  
27 posts
9/30/2019 1:47 pm

On my PC NO On my cell Phone YES

Love2eatpussy404 36M
6 posts
10/22/2019 12:04 pm

It works sometimes but im the same i use kik

author51 58F  
126528 posts
11/11/2019 10:04 am

I don't IM at all so do not know on this one.....

100 posts
11/11/2019 10:17 am

I’d like to add some joy to yours 😉

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