2020 - In Brief
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Posted:Feb 11, 2021 9:04 am
Last Updated:Mar 27, 2021 2:36 pm 2686 Views
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I haven't felt much like writing as I have become fairly disenchanted with the lifestyle and even moreso the lifestyle during a pandemic. But I figured it might be worth capturing at least a bit of what last year brought into my life.
I met Doug who specifically asked me not to blog about our encounters. I thought about doing it anyway especially after he ghosted me early on in the first shutdown/quarantine. We played alone a couple times and with hubs once or twice right before everything closed up (mid Feb through early March 2020). Then he vanished - no returning texts, etc - until about July 1. We played once right after that, once in late July just before I went on vacation, once or twice after and he vanished again basically thereafter only returning like one or two texts since first of Sept (including one where we tried to set up a playdate, but he bailed). This is disappointing as he was local, going through a divorce, had his own place and I thought might become an ongoing thing. Sigh.
I tried to set up some things in the fall (especially deer season when my family is all gone and I have freedom to come and go as I please). I had one guy stand me up (we'd played before, but he had something come up - which of course he didn't bother to communicate until a week later - grr). Another had to cancel last minute due to family stuff out of his control, but at least he communicated that. Just too late for me to make other plans. I sat at home ALL ALONE that whole weekend and was so frustrated and annoyed at the lost opportunities that I didn't even try to set up something the next weekend. Ugh.
I did manage a quick backseat hookup with Neal (who moved away, but still has family in the area) over Thanksgiving weekend. It was uncomfortable and he assured me he'd get a room over Christmas when he was back for a week, but he flaked and never even texted me when he was here. Sigh. Oh well.
I also managed a quick oral exchange with Brian (another long time friend) in early December in his 's living room (she wasn't home). It was impromptu, but fun.
Just before Christmas, I had a nice massage and threesome with Old Tim and hubs which was probably the highlight of my year.
I'll come back and add to this as I have time. But overall...2020 being over is good!
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