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What do you think about this one.. yay or nay?
Posted:Aug 2, 2016 8:46 pm
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2019 1:19 pm

I just read this article after seeing it was posted by one of my family members on facebook. So I started wondering....
So read the article and post your thoughts..

Would this make a difference in how often you eat pussy?
would it feel better knowing your helping cure cancer?
What medical benefits are there for giving blow jobs? do you have to swallow?
How did they conduct the study?
Does that work for women that like going down on another woman?

Eating A Vagina Cures Cancer According To Cancer Treatment Studies!

The professionals have actually been making use of a lot of their time looking for brand-new option to the issues that the culture is dealing with now. Particularly when it involves illness. They are continuously looking for brand-new manner ins which could be reliable as well as effective for all individuals.
Did you know that eating a female’s personal body organ could conserve you from deadly conditions such as cancer cells and also cardiovascular disease?

Baseding on the research study that was made in the State College of New york city, one of the most vital dish that a guy need to take is consuming a vaginal area.

The bodily hormones such as the DHEA Hormonal agents as well as Oxytocin are being generated whenever cunnilingus takes place. These hormonal agents can protecting against cancer cells to a person.
This act does not just please the urges of males and female however additionally assists enhance the health and wellness problem of a person. It is a means of taking pleasure in the satisfaction while having health and wellness advantages.

So the following time that you question concerning decreasing on a female, make certain to maintain every one of these points in your mind. This is not just for your safety and security however likewise for the satisfaction of your body.
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Married and playing without your spouse
Posted:Jun 28, 2016 7:46 pm
Last Updated:Jul 20, 2017 2:32 pm

I recently was talking with a guy through emails here on the site. What had me wondering was as always. one of my first questions is always are you married, and if so does your wife know.
This guy assured me that yes, he was married, (cool) did she know (yes)
So his question to me was something like he got propositioned by an obvious .. he didn't know whether to be insulted or flattered.. So he asked me.. what do you think..
Well, I had no idea that my response would be viewed as being judgemental. Maybe someone that is married and playing without your spouse, and your spouse knows could enlighten me on this one.
I figure that if the wife knows.. then why couldn't you ask them what they thought about that. Am I wrong?
My response was.... What did the wife say? should I have said it another way? what I got back was that I was being judgemental and he thought I was different than everyone else.. blah blah blah.. he then proceeded to block me before I could reply and explain my answer.
First of all, I know not everyone has a good relationship.. I run everything by the hubby. he is my best friend.. sorry for me thinking that your spouse should be your best friend.

I would have asked my hubby what he thought before I asked anyone else.
I guess he did me a favor, anyone that is offended that easily is not someone that I think I want to spend anytime with.

Hence, why we are leery of doing anything with someone that is married, and not playing with their spouse.
So, if anyone would like to enlighten me as to how I offended him. when it was pretty innocent.. that would be great.
Single males, do you really want to be with a couple?
Posted:Dec 30, 2015 10:32 am
Last Updated:Oct 25, 2021 8:31 am

I am just curious, maybe someone can help me out here.
To get in the mind of a single male. Maybe I don't want to.
Is it the dick in the pants or the dick in the head talking?

Every once in a while if you are a single male on our friends list, you may notice that you get dropped off for no reason.
Well here is the reason. I get sick, and tired of men that are so eager to meet, so I give in set up a time, place etc. only to get the fake excuse why you can't meet.
I get it.. you got cold feet. its ok... just be honest, and tell us that you got cold feet. I can deal with that.
Anyone that has actually met us, knows that I like to get to know someone first. If there isn't a connection then nothing happens..
We don't mind meeting people, some of our best friends are in the lifestyle, and we have never played together.
Nothing is ever guaranteed. We have not met some people just because I wouldn't give a guarantee.

By all means, if you want to meet that is great. The only thing is get your crap straight first. Don't be all fired ready to meet then cancel, then say lets meet, then say oh I think I have a steady gf. Really? if you have a steady gf then why the hell are you doing this in the first place?

If your married and posing as single.. we aren't interested.. We choose not to play with married people that are not involving their spouses. We are not judging here, just not participating.

Are we the only ones that deal with this? Do women do this as well?

Let's just all be adults here. It has been along time since I have been in High School, I don't want to go back.

So, if your a single male and you get some attitude from us, sorry, this is why.

If you want to post comments go ahead. I would like to hear others opinions on this.

On a brighter note. We hope everyone has an awesome 2016 if we see you on New years eve and get to celebrate the bringing in the new year with you great, if not have a great one anyway.
Homo, Metro, Hetero, and now Lumber?
Posted:Aug 4, 2015 9:31 am
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2017 10:12 am
These days there is a name for everything and everyone.
As I was looking on the internet doing my daily scan of the news and everything around me, I cam across this article called

22 Photos That Prove Why Lumbersexuals Are So Hot Right Now

My curiosity got the best of me.. just what exactly is a Lumbersexual? From the nearest thing I can tell is the look is like a lumberjack hence the Lumber. Originally being in the medical field I thought it had something to do with the lumbar spine silly me.. how could that be sexy?

From what I can tell is in my opinion a man should look rugged but sexy. Beards, plaid shirts, muscles, groomed hair, an outdoorsy type of guy.

With lumbersexuals, the closer you look to a rugged Viking warrior, the better!
Plaid and muscles are the 2 most vital components to complete a lumbersexual look.
A strong man that has a gentle side? Must be a lumbersexual.
Lumbersexuals are always outdoor-ready.
Tattoos are a definite plus to any bearded body.
Suspenders are a welcome addition to any outfit.

I checked out the eye candy in the article ( if you want to call it that) and I must say, that they were nice. I personally don't mind a little bit of body hair. I always have liked a hairy chest, with that being said, hairy does not mean braiding my fingers in our out of it.. groomed is the key.
I like a man with facial hair, my dearest sweetheart looks better with the facial hair, otherwise, although he looks younger he looks too young.
I personally like the rugged look. oh with sexy eyes.. and butt..
This has me thinking now, how hot a pic of a guy with nice bare abs, jeans and suspenders might look. beard or not it would still look hot.. tats are cool as well.

So, in conclusion. I say.. I have liked this look before it was even a defined look I guess.

So, any Lumbersexuals that want to send me pics..or model for me, , I am more than willing to check them out for ya, and let ya know what I think...

I wonder can a woman wear plaid and carry and axe and be sexy too?

I am serious I would love to see some sexy pics if you have one you think may qualify as a Lumbersexual pic. send away.......or I know of a good photographer that can take some, hence the modeling (I come to all the photo shoots )
Just an observation from a woman's perspective
Posted:Jun 27, 2015 3:27 pm
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2017 10:14 am

So, I was just perusing a lot of the pics of men here on the site, and ones that have viewed, hotlisted or winked at us.
Just curious if the guys that just post pics of their penis, or pics of just the lower half in whitey tighteys ever get that many replies or action on their profiles. Unless, you have a 13 inch penis or a one incher.. I think I have seen enough to know what I like and don't like.
I like to know there is a something in your head other than grey matter.

I have to admit that if a guy has a nice chest.. or a nice bum.. I do like to see those..
If you don't have either of those.. then show me something about you in your pics that shows your personality, if your good hearted and have a sense of humor, show something along those lines.. I don't mean putting a lil hat on the little man with the big head either.
I truly understand not showing your face, who knows where and when that might come back to haunt you or could possibly in the future. Or put them after the fifth picture where you have to be a paying member in order to see them.

I enjoy the sensual looking pics.. guys and gals. (if you need some taken I know of a person that does a great job, for not a whole lot of money) If you don't have a pic, on there don't expect me to answer you, if you happen to im/pm me. I may.. but don't expect it.
I have to be honest if I don't see a face pic of you, we are not going to meet you. If you don't want to post a pic of your face then turn your cam on privately.

Once again, just my two cents worth.
Maybe some of you have some great ideas for pics on your profile to attract attention.

Please don't post a pic of you 20 years ago, unless you say this is me 20 yrs ago. No pics of other people either, this only brings disappointment for you and whoever is interested in your pic of who ever.
Also, don't pm me and ask me for pics, I don't send pics and I wont make an exception. If you want to see them then become a member and look at them, like we did.
Getting feedback from people/ any females that you know that may be looking for photos?
Posted:Apr 27, 2015 9:28 pm
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2017 10:16 am

I am just curious if anyone has found a great way to start a conversation on Im, or in an email on this site.
Recently, we sent out emails requesting people to pose for pictures for me, although hubby will be taking the pics, the pictures really are for my business. Yes, they would be nudes but classic and not showing any genitalia, only muscles, I am a massage therapist and they would be for my office. Because it is for my office, for my own business. I wanted pictures of female and male muscles. Of the people that we emailed some were very gracious to volunteer to help me, and I thank them very much. (we will do it soon I promise ) No, I do not do happy endings (if this was your next question)

I thought what I had written was very nice, and explained although there was no monetary compensation we would take pictures of the models for them, whatever they wanted to take pics of, and give them all the copies of them that we took.

What I have come to realize is if females have semi good photos, they have a photographer bf, husband, significant other, that takes pics for them. Some were very nice and explained this, one in particular was quite rude about it though.
I wont even go into who or what they said.
I know its their issue not ours, but I try to be nice and say we are not interested if we don't think that their is any possibility of meeting.

We try to be kind either way, and find that if people are creative when they email us that it usually helps catch our attention.
Has anyone else found anything that helps catch peoples attention ? if so what has worked for you? how often do you send out emails and people are rude and obnoxious.. no names please just curious who else has had issues or good luck on here.
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Sexual Enhancements
Posted:Jan 19, 2015 2:15 pm
Last Updated:Jul 10, 2016 7:43 am

We just got back from the Dominican Republic, where there are two types of music Merengue, or Bachata or so we were told by our guide Eddie Murphy. (this may have been just so we remembered his name). other than being black he didn't really look like Eddie Murphy that we were familiar with. ( in case your wondering Bachata is loving, caring, up close music)..
Anyway, according to Dominicans they are taught to dance before they can do anything else. The type of dance is very sensual dancing from what we saw.. it is very similar to what we may refer to as dirty dancing.
They seem to be a very sexual country, our guide was the youngest of 13 . Apparently, there isn't a lot to do other than sex or they are preoccupied with sex.

They have a drink they make up of various tree bark, and plants that when mixed with rum, wine and honey can increase the libido.. We were told you have ? we of course said yes.. we were then told oh your is just for fun then..
this drink is called Mama Juana.
We did of course try this drink. We didn't consume large amounts but didn't notice an UN-controllable desire to rip one another's clothes off and get busy.
The sound of the waves of the ocean seemed to have more of an amorous effect on us then the alcohol did.
I wonder is this similar to oysters, chocolate, strawberries or any other sexual enhancement foods.

Or, is it the rum which is very tasty I must admit. Brugal rum goes down very easy, before you know it you have consumed more than you thought. Is it the loss of inhibitions due to the rum or what?

This makes me curious, has anyone ever tried any of these or anything else that has had an enhancement on their sexual activities? if so what was it? How long did it last? Where did you get it? What effect did it have on you or your partner? Would you use it again?
Sexy Props for Playfulness in the Bedroom
Posted:Jun 15, 2014 4:31 pm
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2014 3:41 pm

I found this article I thought it was worth reposting.
Are there any others that you can think of that have been important to you?
I guess one thing that isnt on this list might be flirting with someone that your not in a relationship with. What do you think?

Our minds are capable of coming up with imaginative, deeply personal scenarios that can make sex one of the most vital and rewarding parts of our lives. In fact every one of us has a hidden fantasy that is dying to come out and take center stage in the bedroom. If this sounds familiar, it's time to shoo any shyness aside and start adding a little more magic, adventure, and color to your relationship.
Sometime we need a few props, or a little advice, on how to make these fantasies a reality and take them to the next level.

[B]High Heels
High heels have established themselves as a sexy mainstay in all parts of our culture. From the bedroom to the boardroom to the big screen, nothing screams sexy like stilettos. With a garter and thigh-high stockings or nothing at all, high heels can be the ultimate sexual accessory. And listen to this: An Italian study found that women who wear high heels have stronger pelvic-floor muscles, which can lead to better orgasms and improved sexual response.

Panty Hose

Wrap a pair of nylons around your hands like gloves, then give him a slow, sensual hand job through the fabric. It's easier to massage his penis through the sheer, silky nylons than with a dry hand. And he'll also be turned on by feeling this ultra-feminine fabric on his skin.

Feather Boa
A feather boa has fashion roots in Victorian England. Also a sassy prop of the 1920s flappers, the feather boa has become a sexy striptease staple. If you want to act feminine and flirty with a slight touch of naughty, the feather boa is the perfect thing to drape around your neck and then remove to tease and tantalize him. Lightly run it across his chest and stomach in a suggestive manner to drive him wild.

The Play Chest
When you begin to get comfortable with props, you might want to expand to use them in role-play. Store your role-play props in a sexy play chest (with a lock of course) inside your closet. Having a place set aside to contain these items will make it easier to incorporate these things into your repertoire. In addition, having this chest means that you will always have a few staples handy for a spontaneous night of role-play. Include whatever pieces turn you and your partner on: perhaps glasses for a sultry schoolteacher, a police hat for a stern but sexy cop, or a riding crop or whip for the classic dominatrix.

The Chair Lap Dance
It's time to sit your partner down for some serious seduction. Star with saucy lingerie and music that gets your blood pumping. Sit him in a chair. Move slowly at first, building anticipation by brushing lightly against him, then stepping back so he can see you fully on display. Come close as the layers come off, reveling in your sexy power to allow him the touch he craves only when you feel the time is right.

Edible Fantasy
Why not grab a blindfold and something lickable to create a sensual — and tasty — night in? Tease for Two Midnight Chocolate Edible Body Icing from Victoria's Secret is perfect. You and your partner can take turns blindfolding each other and using the brush to spread on the icing. You can even use yummy treats from your kitchen like peanut butter, chocolate sauce, whipped cream, jello, etc. You'll be nibbling, biting, savoring, and delighting in this decadent body icing until you can't stand it anymore.
5 Exercises Men Can Do for Better Sex
Posted:Mar 29, 2014 4:12 pm
Last Updated:May 7, 2015 10:06 am

I have found that as long as we have been in the lifestyle that most men are concerned that they want to make everything the best for the woman.
So, when I found this article I thought I would copy and share it on here for anyone, that might find it helpful. Good luck !

Move over, Viagra: Regular exercise could be the best medicine for a man to improve his sex life.
By Jan Sheehan

Medically reviewed by Pat F. Bass III, MD, MPH

You know that working out is good for your health. But did you know that hitting the gym could also help you have better sex? “Working out three to four times a week can do a lot to help your sexual technique, flexibility, and endurance,” says Pete McCall, MS, an exercise physiologist and personal trainer for the American Council on Exercise (ACE). So what types of exercise are best for better sex? McCall recommends the following five “sex exercises.”

Better Sex Exercise No. 1: Weight Lifting
Strength training could be just what the doctor ordered for your sex life. The reason: “Weight lifting causes the body to produce testosterone, which is the primary precursor for the male sex drive,” says McCall, who recommends lifting enough to feel fatigue by the 10th repetition. In fact, some studies have linked short intense exercise, such as weight lifting, with increased testosterone levels. To improve your sex life, do some push-ups, sit-ups, and crunches. These muscle-building exercises can help lead to better sex by strengthening the shoulders, chest, and abs. Strong upper body strength can increase stamina since these muscles are used during intercourse.

Better Sex Exercise No. 2: Kegels
Doing Kegels is considered a good sex exercise for men because these exercises can help endurance and control by toning the pubococcygeus (PC) muscles — the ones that let you stop the flow of urine mid-stream. Named after Los Angeles physician Arnold Kegel, they strengthen the muscles in your body’s pelvic floor, which can lead to better sex. “Men can use Kegels to delay ejaculation by contracting these muscles just before orgasm,” says McCall. To do Kegels, start by interrupting the flow of urine when going to the bathroom to get familiar with your PC muscles. After that, you can do Kegels anytime and any place by squeezing the PC muscles. Hold for 10 seconds, relax, and do as many reps as you can before tiring.

Better Sex Exercise No. 3: Yoga
Want to shake up your sex life with some new positions? Practicing yoga will give you better sex by allowing your body to get into creative positions for maximum pleasure during intercourse. “Yoga will help your flexibility,” which can result in better sex, McCall says. Some experts say it can also improve your stamina in the sack by drawing your energy in and up. McCall recommends yoga poses that improve pelvic muscles, such as the Bow Pose, Peacock Pose (also called the Forearm or Elbow Balance), and Shoulder Stand.

Better Sex Exercise No. 4: Fast Walking
In a study of 31,000 men over age 50, Harvard researchers found that aerobic exercise resulted in a 30-percent lower risk of erectile dysfunction (ED). More specifically, according to another study, aerobic activity that burns at least 200 calories per day (equal to fast walking for two miles) can significantly lower the risk of ED. Brisk walking is thought to help ED by improving circulation and blood flow. “Fast walking, running, and other aerobic activities help your sex life for the same reason that they prevent heart attacks,” says McCall. “They keep your blood vessels clear.” The result can be stronger and longer erections. Vigorous activities, such as running and brisk walking, also release endorphins and relax you, which can boost sexual performance.

Better Sex Exercise No. 5: Swimming

In another Harvard study of 160 male and female swimmers, swimmers in their 60s reported sex lives comparable to those in their 40s. Since sexual activity can be an act of endurance, long-distance swimming can keep you going and going like the Energizer bunny. “Swimming for at least 30 minutes three times a week will increase sexual endurance,” says McCall. Swimming is also a great activity for weight loss, which can also lead to better sex. A randomized, single-blind study of 110 obese men with ED found that losing just 10 percent of their body weight improved sexual function in one third of the men. And it’s no secret that losing excess body fat will help attain those six-pack abs and make you more attractive to potential partners. The result: better sex!
Try doing some (or all) of the above workouts to improve your sexual technique, endurance, and flexibility. Your mate will be impressed with your sexual powers and, as a side benefit, you’ll get healthier and fitter along the way.
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Is Bigger really better?
Posted:Jan 3, 2014 9:33 pm
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2014 4:07 pm

You might think I am talking about going down south.. but really? I never really even considered this until I found this article I thought I would share it with everyone just in case you missed it.
What do you think?

I especially like the he has more muscle... hmmm I want to know where that muscle tissue is.

Are there any big nosed guys that want to show me the difference? Of course I am not really sure what a small nose looks like on a guy.

Bigger Is Better: 6 Reasons To Date A Guy With A Big Nose

By Michelle Toglia

Here's why you need a nasally-gifted guy!

I can't tell you how many times I've said "Wow, he's cute" to friends and gotten the response, "Yeah, but he has a big nose." What? Isn't that the best part?

I can't tell you exactly why, but something about a big nose always makes me think they have a great personality — funny, strong, full of life. How could it not signify something? It's the most prominent feature on your face.

Turns out, I'm not alone. From ancient Egyptian priests to nineteenth century Europeans, cultures have been noting the significance of the nose forever. Leonardo Da Vinci even believed that the nose determined the character of the whole face in his paintings. Heck, even Jenny McCarthy is totally down to date a guy with a big nose — or a bald one!

It's time to forget your silly dealbreakers and all you know about Pinocchio.

Why should your next boyfriend have a large nose? Let us count the ways.

1. He Has More Muscle
My, what a big nose you have! Well, a recent study revealed it's so that they can support you better, my dear. Turns out, guys have bigger noses than ladies because they need more oxygen to maintain their muscle-y bods. Yep, you can thank that honker for his six-pack and killer biceps. Take all the oxygen you want, boys.

2. He's Thought To Be Wise and Powerful
What do Adrien Brody, Marlon Brando and Bradley Cooper all have in common? Well, according to Egyptian priests, had they known of these big-nosed hunks, they'd be considered incredibly intelligent. In Greek and Roman times, a big, long nose also meant power and strength. Win, win, win.

3. He Has Better Luck With Money
Smack in the center of his face, the nose is the Money spot — literally. According to Chinese face reading, also known as physiognomy, a person with a big nose has better luck with Money. And, this large-nosed fella can expect an increase in riches as they get older.

And, it's not just physiognomy that associates big noses with a big wallet. Experts in the UK looked at the features of the most successful people and came up with the ideal facial model for those destined for business success: men with a Roman nose, along with wide set eyes and flared nostrils. Wealth certainly isn't everything, but in any area of life, it certainly doesn't hurt to be lucky.

4. He Won't Get You Sick
And during flu season, that's pretty hard to come by. It turns out, a big schnoz protects against bacteria, allergies and infections better. According to a study from the University of Iowa, people with big noses inhale almost seven percent fewer pollutants than smaller ones. Who knew your boyfriend could be your best barrier against the sniffles?

5. He Has A Strong Sex Drive
While there's no proof that a big nose means a big package, big noses are linked to high testosterone and virility, according to research published in the journal Evolution and Human Behaviour. Manliness and a strong sex drive? Yes, please.

6. Because Diane Keaton Says So!
And if you've ever wanted to be Annie Hall, listen up. The actress says it's what stuck out when she first met former boyfriend Al Pacino on the set of The Godfather. Keaton writes in her memoir Then Again, "I remember his killer Roman nose sitting in the middle of what remains a remarkable face. It was too bad he wasn't available, but neither was I." And ladies, you've seen Pacino in the trilogy, right? DREAMBOAT.
Ideas to ring in the new year without breaking the bank
Posted:Dec 28, 2012 11:41 am
Last Updated:Jan 3, 2014 9:24 pm

Ring in 2013 with one of these affordable dates.

There's no need to spend a fortune on New Year's Eve. Try something new and celebrate with one of these romantic, inexpensive dates.

1. Dress, Drink, Dance
For a semi-traditional type of NYE celebration, find a great local show. Dress up in coordinating outfits, get a few drinks to loosen up your nerves and dance the night away together. Stumped at what concert to attend? Check out an app like StubHub to locate plenty near you. Try to find a venue that’s in close proximity to where the two of your live. That way, at the end of the evening, you’ll be able to quickly rush home to finish the night on a sexy note.

2. A “Quiet” Night At Home
For some folks, a nice evening alone with their honey is the best way to celebrate the holiday that most people go all-out on in groups. If you’re the type who would prefer a less crowded night, why not light some candles and pamper each other? In fact, you could even light a very special candle like Pure Romance’s Burning Desire, $24, which, when lit, melts into a delightful massage oil so you two can take turns giving sensual body rubs by the candlelight. Afterward, mix up a couple of cocktails, pop in a sexy flick and simply enjoy each other’s company. Plus, when midnight hits, you can do more than just kiss.

3. New Year’s Nostalgia
Sometimes, couples who have been together for a long time forget the things that turned them into a pair in the first place. Plan out a “memory trail” of sorts, wherein the two of you go to spots you can reminisce at. For example, if you went on your first date at a coffee shop, go there at the beginning of your night. Have a favorite restaurant? Reserve a table and order your favorites. Had a first kiss in a park nearby? Recreate that with a nice, long walk together and remind yourselves why you make a great team. It’ll be the perfect close to a solid year together.

4. Cabin In The Woods
Are you and your beau nature lovers? Have a romantic getaway in the wilderness by renting a cabin. Think you two can’t afford it? Think again: there are tons of websites that feature last-minute deals, like Direct Cabin Rentals as well as discounted gift certificates for fun vacation spots on Groupon Getaways and LivingSocial. Using one of these can get you a great price on a lovely location for you to share a wonderful, isolated holiday.

5. Potluck Party
Are you two a new item? Have a little party with both his and your closest friends so you can all become acquainted. Prepare some drinks and appetizers yourselves — pre-party activities that can really bring out a partnership for you two — but also ask everyone to bring a dish. You’ll have a great get-together that will not only help you meet each other’s loved ones, but also get you excited for your future as a team.
Can you think of any more?
Posted:Oct 7, 2012 8:08 am
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2013 6:46 am

I'm not sure who asked the question to begin with (as though you needed a reason!), but here is the full list of 237 reasons that people said why they have sex:

1. I was ''in the heat of the moment.''
2. It just happened.
3. I was bored.
4. It just seemed like ''the thing to do.''
5. Someone dared me.
6. I desired emotional closeness "(i.e.," intimacy).
7. I wanted to feel closer to God.
8. I wanted to gain acceptance from my friends.
9. It's "exciting," adventurous.
10. I wanted to make up after a fight.
11. I wanted to get rid of aggression.
12. I was under the influence of drugs.
13. I wanted to have something to tell my friends.
14. I wanted to express my love for the person.
15. I wanted to experience the physical pleasure.
16. I wanted to show my affection to the person.
17. I felt like I owed it to the person.
18. I was attracted to the person.
19. I was sexually aroused and wanted the release.
20. My friends were having sex and I wanted to fit in.
21. It feels good.
22. My partner kept insisting.
23. The person was famous and I wanted to be able to say I had sex with him/her.
24. I was physically forced to.
25. I was verbally coerced into it.
26. I wanted the person to love me.
27. I wanted to have a .
28. I wanted to make someone else jealous.
29. I wanted to have more sex than my friends.
30. I was married and you're supposed to.
31. I was tired of being a virgin.
32. I was ''horny.''
33. I wanted to feel loved.
34. I was feeling lonely.
35. Everyone else was having sex.
36. I wanted the attention.
37. It was easier to ''go all the way'' than to stop.
38. I wanted to ensure the relationship was ''committed.''
39. I was competing with someone else to ''get the person.''
40. I wanted to ''gain control'' of the person.
41. I was curious about what the person was like in bed.
42. I was curious about sex.
43. I wanted to feel attractive.
44. I wanted to please my partner.
45. I wanted to display submission.
46. I wanted to release anxiety/stress.
47. I didn't know how to say ''no.''
48. I felt like it was my duty.
49. I wanted to end the relationship.
50 My friends pressured me into it.
51. I wanted the adventure/excitement.
52. I wanted the experience.
53. I felt obligated to.
54. It's fun.
55. I wanted to get even with someone "(i.e.," get revenge).
56. I wanted to be popular.
57. It would get me gifts.
58. I wanted to act out a fantasy.
59. I hadn't had sex for a while.
60. The person was ''available.''
61. I didn't want to ''lose'' the person.
62. I thought it would help ''trap'' a new partner.
63. I wanted to make someone else jealous.
64. I felt sorry for the person.
65. I wanted to feel powerful.
66. I wanted to ''possess'' the person.
67. I wanted to release tension.
68. I wanted to feel good about myself.
69. I was slumming.
70. I felt rebellious.
71. I wanted to intensify my relationship.
72. It seemed like the natural next step.
73. I wanted to be nice.
74. I wanted to feel connected to the person.
75. I wanted to feel young.
76. I wanted to manipulate him/her into doing something for me.
77. I wanted him/her to stop bugging me about sex.
78. I wanted to hurt/humiliate the person.
79. I wanted the person to feel good about themselves.
80. I didn't want to disappoint the person.
81. I was trying to ''get over'' an earlier person/relationship.
82. I wanted to reaffirm my sexual orientation.
83. I wanted to try out new sexual techniques or positions.
84. I felt guilty.
85. My hormones were out of control.
86. It was the only way my partner would spend time with me.
87. It became a habit.
88. I wanted to keep my partner happy.
89. I had no self-control.
90. I wanted to communicate at a deeper level.
91. I was afraid my partner would have an affair if I didn't have sex with him/her.
92. I was curious about my sexual abilities.
93. I wanted a ''spiritual'' experience.
94. It was just part of the relationship ''routine''.
95. I wanted to lose my inhibitions.
96. I got ''carried away.''
97. I needed another ''notch on my belt.''
98. The person demanded that I have sex with him/her.
99. The opportunity presented itself.
100. I wanted to see what it would be like to have sex while stoned "(e.g.," on marijuana or some other drug).
101. It's considered ''taboo'' by society.
102. I wanted to increase the number of sex partners I had experienced.
103. The person was too ''hot'' (sexy) to resist.
104. I thought it would relax me.
105. I thought it would make me feel healthy.
106. I wanted to experiment with new experiences.
107. I wanted to see what it would be like to have sex with another person.
108. I thought it would help me to fall asleep.
109. I could brag to other people about my sexual experience.
110. It would allow me to ''get sex out of my system'' so that I could focus on other things.
111. I wanted to decrease my partner's desire to have sex with someone else.
112. It would damage my reputation if I said ''no.''
113. The person was too physically attractive to resist.
114. I wanted to celebrate something.
115. I was seduced.
116. I wanted to make the person feel better about themselves.
117. I wanted to increase the emotional bond by having sex.
118. I wanted to see whether sex with a different partner would feel different or better.
119. I was mad at my "partner," so I had sex with someone else.
120. I wanted to fulfill a previous promise to my partner.
121. It was expected of me.
122. I wanted to keep my partner from straying.
123. I wanted the pure pleasure.
124. I wanted to dominate the other person.
125. I wanted to make a conquest.
126. I'm addicted to sex.
127. It was a favor to someone.
128. I wanted to be used or degraded.
129. Someone offered me money to do it.
130. I was drunk.
131. It seemed like good exercise.
132. I was pressured into doing it.
133. The person offered to give me drugs for doing it.
134. I was frustrated and needed relief.
135. It was a romantic setting.
136. I felt insecure.
137. My regular partner is "boring," so I had sex with someone else.
138. I was on the ''rebound'' from another relationship.
139. I wanted to boost my self-esteem.
140. I wanted to get my partner to stay with me.
141. Because of a bet.
142. It was a special occasion.
143. I wanted to get a special favor from someone.
144. I wanted to get back at my partner for having cheated on me.
145. I wanted to enhance my reputation.
146. I wanted to keep warm.
147. I wanted to punish myself.
148. I wanted to break up a rival's relationship by having sex with his/her partner.
149. I wanted to stop my partners' nagging.
150. I wanted to impress friends.
151. I wanted to achieve an orgasm.
152. I wanted to brag to my friends about my conquests.
153. I wanted to improve my sexual skills.
154. I wanted to get a job.
155. I wanted to get a raise.
156. I wanted to get a promotion.
157. I wanted to satisfy a compulsion.
158. I wanted to make money.
159. I wanted to keep my partner satisfied.
160. I wanted to change the topic of conversation.
161. I wanted to get out of doing something.
162. I wanted to test my compatibility with a new partner.
163. I wanted to get a partner to express love.
164. I wanted to put the passion back into my relationship.
165. I wanted to prevent a breakup.
166. I wanted to become one with another person.
167. I wanted to get a favor from someone.
168. I wanted to breakup my relationship.
169. I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease "(e.g.," "herpes," AIDS).
170. I wanted to breakup another's relationship.
171. I wanted to avoid hurting someone's feelings.
172. I wanted to make myself feel better about myself.
173. I wanted to get rid of a headache.
174. I was afraid to say ''no'' due to the possibility of physical harm.
175. I wanted to keep my partner from straying.
176. I wanted to burn calories.
177. I wanted to even the score with a cheating partner.
178. I wanted to hurt an enemy.
179. I wanted to feel older.
180. I wanted to raise my self-esteem.
181. It was an initiation rite to a club or organization.
182. I wanted to become more focused on work – sexual thoughts are distracting.
183. I wanted to say ''I've missed you.''
184. I wanted to celebrate a birthday or anniversary or special occasion.
185. I wanted to say ''I'm sorry.''
186. I wanted to return a favor.
187. I wanted to say ''Thank you.''
188. I wanted to welcome someone home.
189. I wanted to say ''goodbye.''
190. I wanted to defy my parents.
191. I wanted to relieve menstrual cramps.
192. I wanted to relieve ''blue balls.''
193. I wanted to get the most out of life.
194. I wanted to feel feminine.
195. I wanted to feel masculine.
196. I am a sex addict.
197. I wanted to see what all the fuss is about.
198. I thought it would boost my social status.
199. The person had a lot of money.
200. The person's physical appearance turned me on.
201. The person was a good dancer.
202. Someone had told me that this person was good in bed.
203. The person had beautiful eyes.
204. The person made me feel sexy.
205. An erotic movie had turned me on.
206. The person had taken me out for an expensive dinner.
207. The person was a good kisser.
208. The person had bought me jewelry.
209. The person had a great sense of humor.
210. The person seemed self-confident.
211. The person really desired me.
212. The person was really desired by others.
213. I wanted to gain access to that person's friend.
214. I felt jealous.
215. The person flattered me.
216. I wanted to see if I could get the other person into bed.
217. The person had a desirable body.
218. I had not had sex in a long time.
219. The person smelled nice.
220. The person had an attractive face.
221. I saw the person naked and could not resist.
222. I was turned on by the sexual conversation.
223. The person was intelligent.
224. The person caressed me.
225. The person wore revealing clothes.
226. The person had too much to drink and I was able to take advantage of them.
227. I knew the person was usually ''out of my league.''
228. The person was mysterious.
229. I realized I was in love.
230. I wanted to forget about my problems.
231. I wanted to reproduce.
232. I wanted to feel loved.
233. I wanted my partner to notice me.
234. I wanted to help my partner forget about their problems.
235. I wanted to lift my partner's spirits.
236. I wanted to submit to my partner.
237. I wanted to make my partner feel powerful.

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