Searching for the G spot?
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Posted:Sep 27, 2012 8:40 am
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Have you ever searched for the so called G spot only to be disappointed? or wondered just what it was but were afraid to ask?
Let me tell you if you go in the wrong way or try to much, it can be irritating, but if you find that spot. Ah it feels so good.
To any woman reading this, if you are curious where it is, don't be afraid to follow the instructions and find it yourself, then you can tell your partner how to find it.
It is important for the female to be relaxed and into it, if not, then you probably should try another time, as it is only going to be annoying, and you wont be able to find it anyway, it may even ruin your chances for next time.
I found this article, and thought it would be good to share since some people have found it quite exciting that hubby can stimulate me within seconds.
One is knowing your partner the other is finding the right spot. I assure you once you find that spot, and the female is comfortable, and willing to let go, she will find it so exciting. I always try to warn people that if I get that excited there is no stopping me, it is like the energizer bunny with the batteries in backwards.. I keep cumming and cumming.
In any case I hope this helps you in your search for that sometimes hard to find pleasure spot.
Good luck and have fun! If it isn't fun why do it?
The Gräfenberg Spot, often called the G-Spot, is defined as a bean-shaped area of the vagina. Some women report that it is an erogenous zone which, when stimulated, can lead to strong sexual arousal, powerful orgasms and female ejaculation. The Gräfenberg Spot is typically described as being located one to three inches (2.5 to 7.6 cm) up the front (anterior) vaginal wall between the vaginal opening and the urethra and is a sensitive area that may be part of the female prostate. Because the G-spot is composed of erectile tissue, it swells up when blood rushes to it -- especially if you learn how to master the woman's G-spot effectively.
To locate and master the woman's G-spot, face your partner while she is lying on her back and insert your index or long middle finger into her vagina as far as it will easily go. Then crook it up toward yourself in a "come hither" motion, sliding your fingertip along the top of the vagina until you find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall. (Make sure you have your fingernails clipped short and buffed before you do this -- sharp fingernails will definitely spoil the effort.) This rough or slightly ridged area is the "G-spot," and touching it will often cause a woman to react with surprise or pleasure.
If you don't get a reaction, don't be too shy to ask her if she feels especially sensitive when you touch what you think is the spot. You may need to use a fair amount of pressure to find the G-spot because it is located within, not on the outside of, the vaginal wall.
Sometimes it helps to use your other hand on the outside of the mons pubis (the hairy area above the pubic bone) to lightly massage the skin in the area where your crooked finger is touching to intensify the effect. And since not all women are G-spot sensitive, don't get discouraged if you can't get a special reaction.
The best way to manually stimulate the G-spot is with a firm "tapping" motion with your crooked finger. Some guys find it easier to stimulate the G-spot with various toys. Any dildo can be used for this, but the ones that are best suited for G-spot stimulation are hard and curved. Many are made specifically for G-spot stimulation, as their length, width and curve are specifically designed to take the "guesswork" out of G-spot stimulation.
Even women who do not enjoy manual stimulation of the G-spot may enjoy penile stimulation of the spot during intercourse. So, if your penis has a natural upward bend, you've got it made. Other men have to find positions that maximize penile contact with the front wall of the vagina. The "woman on top" positions and posterior (doggy style) positions are best for achieving that contact.
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My latest pondering..I am confused help me.
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Posted:Mar 11, 2012 10:43 am
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2013 6:47 am
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I had a guy who I have never met, hit me up today and want me to cam with him. We did talk apparently years ago, I do not remember him it has been that long since we have chatted, He doesn't live in the area and not planning on moving back to the area.
My question is.. do you think that just because your horny, and I have my chat on that.. woo hoo! then I am horny too, and more than willing to cam with you?
How do I say this.. are some guys really that insensitive?
I even asked him.. I don't mean to sound rude but really what is in it for me to get you off? I kinda thought this was a two way street.. am I wrong?
Why does one have to be rude or feel as if they are being rude if they do not care to cam.. shouldn't a no I am not interested be sufficient? He was pretty much begging for me to cam with him after I said I am not interested. I had to tell him Sorry, I guess you will just have to go back into your list of contacts of people you haven't talked to in years and see if they will cam with you.. then no word back.
I asked hubby why are guys this way?.. he told me we are just hard wired that way..
Please don't get me wrong I do not think all guys are this way at all, I am not man bashing by any means,and my hubby most certainly isn't this way. Is is just a few guys that do this or is more common than I thought. For the most part I think guys have been pretty respectful.
Is it a matter of I need to get off and I need an outlet? or is it something else?
I guess I am just curious does this happen to a lot of people or am I just singled out because I sometimes turn my cam on from time to time? (I might add hardly ever in im chat)
Does anyone have any comments or similar issues ?
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I am just curious, am I alone in my thinking?
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Posted:Feb 15, 2012 10:20 am
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2013 6:47 am
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Maybe someone can shed some light on this situation for me.
Is there anyone else that is bothered by, oh I slept with so and so.. you can ask them for a reference.
I personally think that who we agree to have sex with is between us, and the people we have sex with.
We are not into this for a popularity contest or to see how many we can fuck, and brag about it.
Everyone is entitled to thier own opinion of course but what if the experience you had with someone wasnt really that great, do you really want them broadcasting that to everyone else.
I prefer to make up my own mind about people, and do not want to make my decisions based on who has already had sex with that person.
We have been called elusive, its not really elusive as much as it is discretion, I dont want to be judged by someone that I have had sex with nor do I want to judge someone else by whom they have had sex with.
This is a total turn off for me. so, if you are interested great. let us know, but dont mention other people that you have slept with this could be a deal breaker.
If we do agree to have sex with you.. then please honor our wishes as we will yours.
It really isnt anyone elses business if we have had sex or not unless we are both there and we are in a conversation about it.. then it is all heresay right?
Does anyone else agree with me?
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I am just saying......
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Posted:Nov 13, 2010 6:46 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2013 6:48 am
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I am just wondering what goes through peoples heads I guess.
I don't want people to tell me a story, if we invite you out for the evening that means we want to spend some time getting to know you.. no that isn't a guarantee of sex, if we click then yeah we might have sex.
But if we agree to get together please don't come up with some lame excuse or get all shy at the last minute..
For instance if we invite you to the party that means we would really like to see you there, if we haven't met then yes we would like to meet you, of course the no guarantees thing exists, but if we all click and want to have fun lets go..
Just don't say oh yeah I will see you there, don't say it if you don't mean it..or if you get all shy at the last minute then say your shy or nervous about going to the party, or you really are not comfortable with that many people this I understand nothing wrong with that, the just not showing up thing.. well you may think I don't notice that your not there but after several emails or conversations of you saying oh I will definitely be there and just no communication after that.. well that only tells me that I don't really want to even meet you after that mainly its actions speak louder than any words ever could.
Oh and as far as chatting..I love to get to know people thru chat, its like a conversation for me but its safer and you can say what you really want to without them getting offended at body language however that being said sometimes we do not click for some reason or another but if I haven't heard from you or talked to you in some form or another for a while or you didn't show up after you said you would with no communication for a while.. that means I have probably taken you off my im and probably don't even remember who you are. Please don't assume that just cuz I am on your list.. up to three years later with no communication I probably don't know who you are or even really care who you are anymore..
(yes this really has happened to us)
I have moved on because apparently we didn't click enough to keep in touch.
I don't have a problem reestablishing communication again but don't assume things are the way they were when we quit talking. We have to start over again
well I am done with my ranting.. if anyone else has anything to add or has similar issues feel free to share away
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Shy guys......
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Posted:Oct 28, 2010 9:02 am
Last Updated:Jun 28, 2015 5:55 pm
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Hi all,
It has been a while since I have posted a blog on here so I thought it was about time since this particular subject has come up on occasion for us.
I have been told I intimidate men apparently because I am attractive or maybe I give off something that says I am unapproachable in any case anyone that knows me knows that isnt true and I am very easy to talk to, but I found this article and thought maybe it might help some of you in some way....
I would imagine this might work for shy women as well but this particular article I found just pertained to men.
Maybe you can tell me if you think it pertains to you or not. or maybe you have some additional suggestions
What do you think?
Shy men are challenging for many women because they don’t make the first move. Shy women in particular are often mystified as to how to proceed with this type of guy. Well, it’s not that difficult: With a shy guy you have to be more available, take the lead more often and maybe even give him the first kiss. Keep in mind, however, that he needs to be responding very positively to each of your moves. If he doesn’t, end the relationship because you don’t want to be stuck in a fantasy where you are crazy about someone who is truly not into you.
Here are eight dating tips to bring a shy guy out of his shell:
1. See him when he is in his element.
If he plays sports, go and watch him. Be there as he finishes a marathon. When a shy guy is in his element he will be at the height of his charisma and at a high point of self-confidence. Bottom line: he will be feeling very good about himself. And this means he will feel empowered to make a move on you if he is really interested.
2. Compliment him.
Notice something about him or what he is doing that you really like and praise it with a specific and sincere compliment. For example, That blog you wrote about going to Sicily was hysterically funny and made me want to go! This builds his self-esteem and will tend to get him to talk more about the topic. And it may even get him to show off a bit for you.
3. Say his name a lot; give him a complimentary nickname.
This indicates that you are noticing him and that he is important to you. He will bond more quickly with you when you use his name. Also, choose a complimentary nickname based on one of his qualities that you admire. For example, if he is into cycling, call him “Lance A.” This will get him to laugh and open up with you about his cycling experiences.
4. Ask open-ended questions.
Good examples are, “How did you get interested in (your job)?” “What brought you to live in the city?” “How do you manage to train for a marathon when you work full-time?” These kinds of questions will help a shy guy open up and talk about himself. And this will lead to him feeling known and being comfortable with you.
5. Ask for help with something.
Men love to help women. They are biologically wired that way! Ask him to fix your computer, your car, your bike, your door—you name it. He will enjoy coming through for you and feel much more connected to you. Ask him questions about what he is doing—this will get him talking more. When he is in the “helper” role he is much more likely to share with you.
6. Ask what he likes to eat or what sports, hobbies, or movies he likes.
Once you find something in common, ask him if he’d like to do it some time. Shy guys can be very interested in you, but petrified to make the first move. It is very easy to open the door to a common interest by asking about food, hobbies or other fun activities. When you hit on something you both love, you will instantly become more bonded. It is easy, then to make the first move and ask about doing the activity together. This is a good litmus test that will show if he is interested or not. When you are opening the door that much, if he does not respond and make the date, chances are he is not into you.
7. When leaving, say you’d like to see him again.
This is an easy, non-threatening way to show that you are interested in him. If he responds positively, by smiling, nodding or saying “yes” he may be feeling some attraction to you. At that point, make sure he has your contact information!
8. Give Him a Mini-Massage
If you’ve spent some time together, make physical contact with him. Being physical with him, will release oxytocin, the bonding hormone. In turn, he may feel closer to you and start responding. A mini-massage also relaxes him so that he is less up-tight and fearful. In addition, making physical contact often opens the door so that he makes an affectionate gesture towards you later on—where he holds your hand, puts his arm around you or kisses you.
Practice some or all of these flirting tips and you’ll be an expert at bringing out the best in guys.
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Assuming everyone knows of your personal issues, and or even cares.
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Posted:Jun 18, 2010 9:27 am
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2011 7:18 am
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A big hello to all who reads my silly blogs....
I hope everyone is truly doing well, employed and happy.
I had an encounter happen to me this week that I thought I would share with anyone interested in reading and if you have had a similar incident I would love to hear how you handled it.
Since being unemployed I have basically been somewhat of a hermit only keeping in touch with close friends and family pretty much, but I decided to venture out into the big city of my birth Boulder, yes I know that explains it all but my hubby decided he needed to check out the new i pad at the mac store and I tagged along. So we decided to drive in front of the store and finding ourselves what we thought was extremely lucky by finding an open parking spot, so we pull in and park.(anyone who has actually been to the 29th st mall will know it is difficult to find and up front parking space)
The hubby says to me (obviously oblivious)I think that gal next to us in the handicapped spot wanted our spot I was like whatever then why is she parked in the handicapped spot, I admit I didn't see her so I didn't really care and acted like nothing was going on.
We got out of the car and walked for a bit to the store looked around then after that got in the car and drove off to another store, after leaving this second store we noticed a note on our car windshield..we stopped the car and pulled off the note.. it read something like this..
Dear inconsiderate I am a single mom with a three year old and a 1 year old in desperate need of breast milk..your wife is a diabetes ridden fat woman on second thought maybe she has a baby swimming in that sea of cellulite cheers 
that was really the jest of the note I don't have it in front of me so can't quote it.
Now, this bothered me so much I have been internalizing this for days now.. why would she attack me.. how did I know she needed that spot.. was it my fault her needed breast milk...is it my fault she has to take care of two by herself...Was she jealous that I have a caring husband and she doesn't...why did she need that certain spot..should I be flattered that she thought I was even young enough to have another baby...should I be more observant..
and most importantly am I that disgustingly fat that people feel the need to prove this to me with notes on my car window when I was merely a passenger.
Now I am not saying I don't need to lose weight I definitely do but I assure you I do not now or ever have had diabetes that I or my Doctor know about anyway. I have never claimed to be skinny in my entire life and at this point don't expect to be but I do work out and try to eat healthy but with two under my belt and years of not working out and not eating what I was supposed to unfortunately these lbs have just become adjusted to my body and refuse to leave... ugh.. much to my dismay. I am who I am I don't force anyone to like me and never will I know who my true friends are and they know how I feel about them.
I just wanted so much to know who this was so I could attack back saying if you had kept your mouth and your legs shut maybe you wouldn't be in the situation your in.
But I finally after internalizing this decided that I really feel sorry for her that she is so angry with herself and her situation that she felt the need to attack an innocent bystander who had nothing to do with this in the first place.
I only hope that she will realize that her are a blessing and can bring her so much more joy if she would just learn to give more to them instead of being selfish and taking that precious time with them away just to write a nasty note that served no purpose to anyone.
Thanks for staying with me in this long posting.. please feel free to share if you have had something that irritated you.
Please note on a personal level don't share with me if you feel I need to lose weight that won't make either one of us feel any better..
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Just a reminder here
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Posted:Apr 29, 2010 12:17 pm
Last Updated:Nov 13, 2010 6:48 pm
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I know it sounds a little crazy but this actually has been an issue in a lot of circumstances.
I just thought it appropriate to remind people men and women that just because your in the lifestyle does not mean that you can just assume that someone is into you, and wants to be touched by you.
It should be expected that you would read the signs first, or at least talk to someone first. Also don't assume that even if you have played before with that person that they want to play again or that it is just okay to touch that person.
At group events people tend to think that just because your there that you want to go back to a room or place with someone, DON'T ASSUME it just makes and ass out of you and me.
Read the body language and if you can't do that then ask before you touch.
Most guys don't care but I know women who just go up and touch too, that is not always appropriate either, and can put guys in an awkward position as well.
Please be respectful to others and treat them they way you want to be treated. Remember just because we are in the lifestyle does not give you free reign.
Not that I feel that I am in anyway more important than anyone else but I just thought I would clarify that people really shouldn't just assume that I am not interested or on the other hand assume that I am interested.
You wouldn't just go up to a complete stranger and expect that they want you after all, it usually takes hubby and I a little bit to be able to get to know someone and trust them before we take things to another level.
I also thought I would mention that I know people dont mean any harm by it and that they only do it because they like me and in most cases it turns out ok, but dont come up behind me and put your arms around me, it takes me off guard and I dont know who you are. I love hugs and are more than happy to hug people even new acquaintances but just come up to me so I can see you first is all.
the only reason I mention it is because maybe this takes others off guard as well, maybe there is something that you would like to share that makes you uncomfy that others just dont realize, feel free to share it.
One of my other ones is coming up to me and trying to put a hand vibrator between my legs I have someone who does this to me every time I see them and rather than just telling them to stop it and look like an ass I always squirm my way out of the situation, this particular person never seems to get the hint.
Is there something that makes you feel uncomfortable but are afraid of saying something due to ridicule? it doesn't have to be you maybe you have heard of something that bothered someone else.
I also know of a particular woman that goes up to men and just grabs their crotch as well. Now this may not bother some men but on the other hand it isn't really cool to say please don't do that then they may not want do it when you really want them too. It isn't any different then just coming up to a woman and grabbing their boobs or ass,if they are cool with it then great but how do you really know they are?
I know that not all women happen to be bi either like alot of women that are tend to think, don't just assume that all women are bi, it really is a play by play thing. Just like people are not into everyone or anyone you have to get to know them and find out, and be able to accept it if they say they are not.
Maybe you have found a good way to tell someone that they make you uncomfortable please share that it might just help someone out of an uncomfortable situation in the future
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Finally back home again
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Posted:Apr 21, 2010 11:42 am
Last Updated:Nov 13, 2010 6:49 pm
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Well after several days being gone from home and missing my puppy we are back now with some awesome new photos, a very unique suntan and a renewed sense of perspective.
While we were gone my dear sweet hubby suggested that I go visit the spa at the Sheraton wild pass in Arizona, wow it not only took away this awful back spasm that I have been having for weeks but gave me a new perspective on what is important to me.
I got the native herbal wrap I have to tell you it was awesome, the not so hot looking man (darn it course I probably wouldn't have been able to relax if I had a hot young guy giving me the treatment lol)he scrubbed my body down with a loofah, and wrapped me in hot moist towels soaked in Lavender and Creosote and then wrapped me up like a burrito meanwhile as I relaxed he massaged my head and neck. when my head massage was over, he took off the towels and massaged my back, legs, arms hands and feet and abdomen It was wonderful. all the while soft native music played in the background.
When he was finished I walked into the rest area then went in to the sauna for a lil while breathing in the warm steam.
I felt to relaxed and just felt a new sense of being after I was done I felt great!
I went to the spa gift shop after I showered and found a book on spa treatments and came across this one I thought I would share with you, I have not tried it yet so if you do try it be sure and let me know if it works.
Aphrodisiac Bath Blend
To relax the mind and stimulate sexuality and euphoria.
Recipe:
4 drops of ylang-ylang essential oil
3 drops of neroli essential oil
2 drops of bergamot essential oil
2 Tablespoons honey
2 oz of fresh cream
Combine ingredients in warm bath water and soak until euphoric.
I plan on trying this soon and will keep you posted.
here's wishing you lots of sexual pleasure and happiness
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The art of flirting
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Posted:Apr 1, 2010 11:27 am
Last Updated:Apr 4, 2011 8:56 am
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I found this following article today and started thinking just how much I enjoy flirting.
To me flirting can be so fun making you feel sexy and good about yourself, without going past the limits.
Plus hubby gets a kick out of it when I dress sexy and a guy shows that he is interested maybe its one of those I will share her but she is mine kinda things who knows.
If a guy can turn me on with words then they have it licked so they say, but its not as easy as just saying oh I want to do you so bad it really is an art. It is hard to explain some have it and some don't it really is a mind game I guess.
Although it does help if the guy turns me on with physical attraction, and top that off with an accent.. mmmmmm oh yeah you know who you are... 
Although flirting can lead to disaster if one of the partners is insecure about their relationship,I think the key is to talk to your partner if your married about it and see how they feel about it.
Personally my hubby is my best friend so we talk about everything, I think that is the key thing that keeps us together so what do you all think? is flirting good or bad
Have You Forgotten How To Flirt?
Even those in committed relationships can benefit from flirting--so long as it's done correctly. Here's how.
Seeing your partner flirt, understandably, can bring out insecurities and jealousy. Yet innocent flirting can add an immense amount of zest to your intimacy and sex life.
Think of flirting as window shopping for those in a committed relationship. You have to admit that it's really nice when you (or your partner) can still feel attractive and sexy to other people. Best of all, when your partner has permission to flirt, it brings that wonderful flirting energy home to you and creates a happy couple connection.
As for mild jealousy, it actually affirms the affection within your relationship. That said, a well-balanced individual will not twist their jealousy into a full-blown fight.
Here are some easy things to do to give flirting a try:
* Talk through what is acceptable and not acceptable flirting behavior. For example: It's OK for you both to chat and laugh with others but it's crossing the line when: (fill in the blank).
* The first time you go out as a couple, take baby steps.
* Make a pact that neither of you will keep secrets when it comes to flirting.
There is something empowering and sexy about being confident enough in your relationship to allow flirting. Try it, you might find you really like it.
Tip: If you can't tell your partner about your flirting experience, you've crossed the line and shouldn't be doing it.
Let me know your thoughts
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hmmm .......is it just me?
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Posted:Dec 8, 2009 1:35 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2010 7:13 pm
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Just wondering about a couple of things
Has anyone been having people look at them and then you write to them and they say we didn't look at you? We have had this happen both ways.. personally if you want to write and say hello that is cool but just not so sure that this so and so looked at your profile thing is working correctly at this time.
I recently had one email us and say you checked out my profile but didn't say anything.. I had to reply that I didn't recall checking out this profile but must say I would probably remember as you are very attractive. Not that we don't check out profiles and not write anything but this one was obviously one that I would have remembered looking at..
The other thing I am curious about is how do you personally feel about name dropping?
Personally if you want to get to know us hey that is great, we are always open to meeting new people and seeing if there is a possible connection,no guarantees of course but I don't think that if you mention someone else that is really gonna do you any good in my opinion. We are pretty laid back and get along with most people and we know people talk but really name dropping isn't going to get you any further than if you just drop us a line and say hello, actually we are probably more apt to answer you back and want to meet you if you don't mention someone else.
I know word of mouth is good but in this case it could be bad depending on the situation you have had with that person not that we have any, mind you but we would really prefer to get to know you for you not for who you know or so they say .....who you blow..
The only exception that I can see is something like you know da beaches they put on those fun parties.. you can plug us away all you want for that one.. lol
I guess my point here is we don't really care who you play with it isn't going to make us want to play with you more if you drop their names that you played with them.. it could have the opposite effect.
We really are not ones to brag about who we have and haven't played with and would expect that same respect in return, the lifestyle is really a small world in comparison and would prefer others not to have preconceived notions based on who we have or haven't done anything with and we don't want to have those about other people either.
In the years we have been in the lifestyle we have had some strange situations come of this and to us whole thing isn't a conquest to see how many different people we can have sex with and validate it with others I am sure it is to some and that is fine. It really isn't our thing is all.
So does anyone else have any comments on this they would like to share I am really curious as far as what others think about this.
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G-Spot: Fact or Fiction?
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Posted:Oct 16, 2009 9:59 am
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2009 8:56 pm
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I found this article in my searches on the internet today and all I can say is that I believe it does in fact exist and hubby has definitely found mine, and has in fact shown others on how to find it.
The key is getting the woman to let go as it has a different kind of feeling but once they let it go it is wonderful.
I tell people be careful what ya start cuz once I get started its hard for me to stop.. like the energizer bunny with the batteries in backwards.. instead of going I just keep on a cumming...
What do you think? fact of fiction.......
Many women believe it exists, but science begs to differ.
By Connie Brichford
Medically reviewed by Pat F. Bass III, MD, MPH
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The G-spot – a highly sensitive place in the vagina that supposedly creates a highly intense orgasm when stimulated – is often discussed in popular culture, and many women seem to believe that it exists. Advertisers believe it, too, judging by the wealth of Internet ads that offer to teach you how to find your own or your partner’s G-spot. But what, exactly, is the G-spot, and do all women have one?
"The medical community is skeptical about the existence of the G-spot because the science isn’t there," says Edwin Huang, MD, medical director of gynecology at Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston. Most evidence for the G-spot is anecdotal, and the studies that do find evidence for it are so small as to be statistically insignificant.
So, is the G-spot a myth, or does it really exist? Here is the background 411.
What is the G-Spot?
The G-spot is believed to be an extremely sensitive area inside the vagina, less than halfway up the front wall from the vaginal opening. Also referred to as the urethral sponge, stimulation of this spot is said to cause powerful vaginal orgasms.
The idea of the G-spot has been gaining popularity since the early 1980s, when it was the focus of a popular book about human sexuality called The G Spot (by Ladas, Whipple, and Perry, and published by Holt, Rinehart, Winston in 1982). The spot itself is named after Ernest Grafenberg, MD, who was credited by the authors for first speculating about a highly sensitive area in the vagina in a paper published in 1950.
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What is the Evidence for a G-Spot?
“There is not a lot of research on the existence of the G-spot, and so far anatomical studies have not found any evidence," says Dr. Huang. "There is not more nerve tissue concentrated in one area of the vagina than another."
The most sensitive parts of our bodies contain more nerve endings per square inch than the less sensitive areas. Think about your fingertips compared with the soles of your feet. Your fingertips have significantly more nerves per square inch.
If the G-spot exists as it is described, then we should expect to find an area in the vagina that contains a higher concentration of nerve endings. So far, scientists have not found an area like this.
Why is the G-spot important?
A review of the evidence for and against the G-spot also reported that, despite a lack of evidence, the existence of the G-spot is widely accepted by many women around the world. However, the reviewer worries that widespread belief in the G-spot may ultimately be psychologically damaging for women looking to improve their sex lives. Women who can’t find their G-spots may feel inadequate if they are unable to have “better” orgasms. This idea is especially troubling considering that genital enhancement surgeries, including "G-spot augmentation," are on the rise, according to a recent Time magazine article.
Huang says that, with the exception of the location, descriptions of the G-spot sound a lot like descriptions of the clitoris, located above the vaginal opening. If you’re looking for a highly sensitive anatomical structure in the vagina that leads to orgasms when stimulated, the clitoris is a good place to start.
While there is little evidence to support the existence of an actual G-spot, there is plenty of evidence – both scientific and anecdotal – that indicates that women enjoy and can achieve orgasm, with either clitoral or vaginal stimulation. And discovering what feels best to you, either alone or with a partner, is the key to a healthy and satisfying sex life.
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Gold digging men
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Posted:Aug 26, 2009 5:23 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 3:44 am
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I never really thought to much about this until I read this posting on Craig's list the other day, Don't ask me why I was looking on Craig's list for men looking for women.. purely out of sheer boredom I think but I saw this ad which got me to thinking... in all do respect I am not making fun of the person that put in this ad nor am I posting how to contact him but I thought I would post the ad for you to read that this does really happen.
the title said he was looking for a suga momma so I guess he is being honest.. I would like to know how many women are that desperate to have a man that they would cater to a man's every need.
I guess this could be a bit of role reversal as in the 50's the woman stayed home and took care of the house..
here is his ad.
"I'm tired of being the one who has to take care of everything. I work my *** off as a self-employed consultant, and I do quite well... but I'm tired. Does someone else want to drive for a while? I'm an attractive, intelligent, funny, successful, good-hearted man and I definitely know my way around a woman. I don't have problems meeting women, though honestly I could stand to lose a few pounds. What would you like me to do for you today?"
I would also like to note there was no photo of this man in the posting..
So mind you I got to thinking.. and came across some information in a book I happen to have laying around the house...
Here is some information that I found
Screening for a Gold digging man
1. He's charming
2. He's suddenly lost his job
3. He's Self absorbed
4. He's spontaneous and lots of fun
5. He has no close friends
6. He asks to move in with you "temporarily"
7. He apologizes for not being able to pay for things
8. He will make interesting plans that you end up paying for
9. He's helpful and full of suggestions
10. The focus of the relationship is on money and sex
11. The relationship has a lot of drama and excitement
12. The woman finds herself buying lots of gifts for the man
13. He finds a way to drive your car,live in your house, spend your money, and use your credit cards.
14. The woman finds herself paying the mans bills
15. Very little time is spent getting to know each other emotionally
16. The man is demanding and takes charge
17. He is high maintenance
18. He's moody
19. The relationship centers around the man's demands
20. The woman's sole role in the relationship revolves around her money
21. The man has a pattern of being in relationships with wealthy women.
So tell me has anyone met one of these men?
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Five compliments every woman loves to hear
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Posted:Aug 17, 2009 3:38 pm
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2009 5:52 am
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Okay guys I know your going to say that not every woman loves to hear these but I couldn't find one that I don't like to hear.
Pretty much if your feelings are genuine then we like to hear them as long as they are meant in good faith.
I found this article and thought it would be nice to share with you.
If you know of some others then by all means go ahead and share them I am sure that everyone reading this blog would love to read your ideas as well.
My brother in law once told my sister she had the prettiest eyeball sockets he had ever seen... hmmm nice thought but might need a little work as to what he really meant, I am not sure if he was meaning to be funny or if he really was serious but I am sure she took it as a compliment knowing her.
I know this article generally deals with couples and appreciating your relationships but a compliment after meeting someone you had a good time with, or think that you may hit it off with sure wouldn't hurt in my opinion.( quite possibly might get you a second opportunity even)
Words of appreciation spoken directly to your romantic partner go far in paving the way to a happy, healthy relationship. What is sometimes too easily forgotten: disagreements among couples (from trifling to serious) can nearly always be overcome with a few words of gratitude from a partner (a.k.a., a healthy dose of authentic compliments). But it takes more than a "Hey Baby, you're hot" to really win points with your partner here. These are the top five compliments every woman loves to hear. If you can't remember the words verbatim, remember the key principles: appreciation, support and acceptance. This is the triage to a strong, lasting and powerful romantic endeavor.
1.You're Irreplaceable. This is a surefire way to light up your partner’s eyes. Saying these words (with full eye contact, of course) lets the special one in your life know that you know who she is as a person and that you value her as a unique individual. Why is this so effective? Think about when you break up with someone and part ways. One of the worst ramifications of the break-up is finding out, via Facebook update or chattering among friends, that you've been replaced by someone new. On the flip side, hearing from your current partner that you're valued for more than what you look like scores big, meaningful points.
2. You bring light to my life. Yes, we know this sounds like a bit much. But bear with us and let us make one point: relationships can go off course when one or both partners takes for granted the contributions the other makes to their lives. Saying this shows that a man understands and remembers that a women chooses to be with her man and opts to give her energy and time to him. Showing he appreciates that she shares her life with him is symphonic to a woman's ears. If the word light is a tad too over-the-top for you try replacing it with happiness, joy, sunshine—whichever word you can say with genuine meaning.
3. You are perfect just the way that you are. This one takes the gold star award for ability to make a woman’s day, week, month or even year (if, that is, whenever she gets miffed at you for something small she recalls you saying this to her). Ingrid Michaelson sang it best with her lyrics to the song "The Way that I Am." If you really want to make your partner's day, we suggest e-mailing this song or youtube video to the woman you love. Deep, lasting love is unconditional. Showing that you comprehend and embrace this idea will touch your partner way more than superficial comments such as, "Your earrings are cute."
4. I love your (fill in the blank: bright eyes, cute toes, toned arms, sleek legs, silky hair). We did not mean to give the impression above that we women do not like to hear you notice when we put extra effort into looking foxy for our man. But what’s key here is that what you say is genuine. Don’t just pick any random feature. Think about it. What is your partner’s best physical attribute and why do you like it? Telling your partner this will show her you pay attention to details, and to her.
5. I am so proud of you. A big deal-breaker in any relationship can be supporting one another’s life goals or not. Paying attention to your partner’s current goals she is working hard to achieve endear her to you for life. Whether it is paying off her credit card debt, completing a class, putting in extra hours to earn a promotion or even trying to better balance her life, show your loving support for your women. Her heart will melt then and every time thereafter she remembers when you supported along the way to making things happen and brushing off when the chips are down
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