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What I learned from a new bird feeder.
Posted:Apr 17, 2019 6:28 am
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2019 12:57 pm

Last year I had a suet bird feeder but it was a pain to keep up. It attracted mocking birds and robins. This year I decided to put up a different feeder that is split. One side takes big seeds and the other tiny pieces that finches like. I was not sure if I would get any finches but I love seeing little yellow finches. To my surprise here is what I learned:

1. My pictures looked cloudy... reason; my window needed serious cleaning.
2. I now have Cardinals... those birds are territorial and aggressive.
3. Cardinals will not share so you only see one perched at the feeder at a time.
4. I have yellow finches!!! Yay!!
5. Finches are not territorial and you can see several on the feeder at a time.
6. Since this is a sex site I guess I should include something sexual so... I wonder if they make bird feeders in the shape of vagina's and penises. And, if so, can you tell the sexual preference of the bird by which feeder it would go to.
Random thoughts and wondering why?
Posted:Mar 28, 2019 6:00 am
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2019 6:14 am

First for my random thoughts:

1.) I never get tired of seeing naked woman, in pictures and in real life. Do any women ever never get tired of seeing naked men pictures or in real life?

2.) Why do people always bash what naked people look like at a nudist beach when they have never been to one? "Oh, all you see there are people who should not take their clothes off in public." I have to disagree, as I think people who are comfortable in their own skin look the best. They may not have the body type that I am looking for but they ALWAYS have a smile on their face and are friendly. I don't know about you but I like people who are not fake.

3) I wonder how many people would actually leave home if they could give themselves oral.

4.) It never fails that whenever I log in I get a random IM from someone wanting a NSA hookup and to email them at such and such email. Clearly a fake.

5.) In addition to #4, I still get emails from gay or bi-sexual guys wanting to hookup. I know my profile states that I am STRAIGHT, why do they email me... do I look gay? I guess I need to start dressing a little more sloppy. lol

Have a great rest of your week and weekend!
Brainless Hump Day Questions...
Posted:Mar 20, 2019 2:04 pm
Last Updated:Mar 22, 2019 8:06 am

I have been on the road a lot lately and that means I have plenty of road time where I just simply ponder a hundred things through my head. It goes from something mild something wild something curious who knows what. My brain never stops coming up with random thoughts and feelings. Here are a few of my recent ones. Feel free to answer as well.

1. I really feel the freest when I am naked. I sleep naked, I paint naked (inside my house), and I would love to golf naked, swim naked, snorkel naked. I just dream about being on an isolated island somewhere and just being naked. Anybody else feel that way? anyone want to join me on that exotic blue waters, warm weather isolated island?

2. On a scale of 1 - with being the highest, how important is it you feel desired by someone? anyone?

3. I really love chili-burgers and a tall ice cold frosted mug beer.

4. I have always been fascinated by the thought Mermaids. What fascinates you?

5. I love photography (have lots of equipment) and would love to do an exotic photoshoot. But it takes a willing model and I do not know any. I did do a self shoot once and even posted a few of the images on here back when I was on here before. Would you be a model for this type of shoot? Would you be behind the camera for me?

6. I enjoy fantasizing about some of the women I meet or see on a daily basis, and wonder... do any of them ever fantasize about me? or does anybody on here?

See, I told you my mind is all over the place when I have time to think and daydream. And I did not even get into my passion for waterfalls and my new love.... zucchini fries!
My head is spinning...
Posted:Mar 11, 2019 6:27 pm
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2019 7:13 am

I am currently out of town with work and finally got a moment to sit down and read some blogs. However, once I get here my head is spinning because there are so many to try and catch up on. My busy season is going to be coming to an end soon and I will have a lot of catching up to do. But until then, don't think that I have forgotten about all my friends here. I have had so many blog ideas run through my head but just have not had time to sit down and write.

I am really tired right now but want to leave you with this one question. As you have gotten older, what means more to you now about sex and relationships?

I find I want more time, no wham bam thank you mam. I want cuddling and reminiscing. Spontaneous kinkiness, and teasing pictures to make my heart long for your touch. Wish I had a good picture to leave here for you.
Still here!
Posted:Dec 31, 2018 7:02 am
Last Updated:Mar 20, 2019 1:33 pm

In case you are wondering what happened to me after being gone for a little bit, my busy season with work has hit. Also, because of the holidays I have been doing a lot of traveling to see family. I will try to drop in here from time to time until I get my work under control and through my busy season which will not end til Spring. Hope all are doing well and Merry Christmas and Happy Sexy New Year!!!
Ready, aim, fire!
Posted:Nov 30, 2018 12:07 pm
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2018 6:53 am

Saw this sign above the urinal the other day and couldn't help but grin. I also noticed that it seemed to be working. The restroom where this sign was hanging was pretty clean. Must be a town of men who can read... unlike this site.

Speaking of reading on this site, it seems like nobody has had a good sexual experience lately. Any of the blogsters on here had a great experience recently? if so, tell us a little about it. Keep our hopes alive. And if it was someone from this site, how long did you interact before meeting them? Just curious.

I have kept a running tally going with IM just for fun. Here are the results from IM's I have received in the last two months: One request from a "real" women asking me about something. On average three IM's weekly from "Spam" female accounts me to email them at an offsite address. And at least one a week from a variety of Bi guys to know if I would like a bj. Well, the answer is YES on the bj but NOT from a dude. Just my preference.
Sexy Winter-time Shoes!
Posted:Nov 26, 2018 6:45 am
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2019 1:07 pm
Just got back last night from being out of town with the family for Thanksgiving. It was a rather large group and mostly ate, talked about when we were eating next and ate again. Through in a little (make that a lot) of football watching in between. It drives me crazy to sit around as I am a very active person so I go off and do what I enjoy best, people watching on Black Friday. Yes, I love watching a bunch of "Thankful" people pushing and grabbing things out from others during this wonderful time of year. Okay, it was actually not all that bad this year as I think most people now shop on-line to avoid all the craziness at the malls.

Anyways, I did happen to see several really sexy looking shoes being worn by women. First, let me re-iterate that I am a 100% straight male. However, I do love good fashion and because I love pretty feet I have always loved seeing sexy shoes on women. The summer time is great because seeing bare feet is like seeing a naked lady to me. But for the winter time, it is all or almost all, closed toe shoes so my little secret fetish gets muffled out. However, I did see one pair of lace up the front, open in the middle pair of short ladies high heel boots being worn. DANG! off went my horny meter and I thought I was going to have to find the nearest bathroom stall to relieve myself of built up pressure from no recent release due to the holiday. See, that is what sexy shoes do to this guy. Now back to my story. The ones I like being worn now are those where the lady has on the boots/heels without any socks showing above the shoe line. Makes me think the same way as seeing a woman who is not wearing a bra under her shirt. My imagination runs wild and I get all worked up. Please tell me I am not the only one. Thanks!

So ladies, I would love for you to post a picture of your favorite pair of shoes that make you feel really sexy when you wear them? And guys, what do you wear that makes you feel studly and confident? Women are lucky because they have SO many options for shoes. But for us guys, I have had a shirt or two in the past that I felt really confident in when I wore it but currently I am searching for that certain item to make me feel like I stand out in the crowd. Stand out in a good way that is.

"Lustful" feelings...
Posted:Nov 19, 2018 1:25 pm
Last Updated:Nov 21, 2018 6:51 am


-- noun
- intense sexual desire or appetite.
- uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire or appetite; lecherousness.
- a passionate or overmastering desire or craving (usually followed by for ): a lust for power.
- ardent enthusiasm; zest; relish:
- an enviable lust for life.
- Obsolete .
- pleasure or delight.
- desire; inclination; wish.
-- verb (used without object)
- to have intense sexual desire.
- to have a yearning or desire; have a strong or excessive craving (often followed by for or after ).

Have you ever thought about how you would want others (who you are interested in) to feel about you? What word comes to mind and how would you feel about someone having "lustful" desires for you?

Now I asked the question in the terms of "whom you are interested in" because I know that having others whom you are not interested in feel this way about you can be a little scary.

What is your desire for your love interest? I like it when a woman whom I enjoy being with can't keep her hands off of me. I like being groped, held on to, holding hands when walking. Snuggling in front of a fire, spooning in bed, etc. But I also know that there are plenty of others who do not like being touched when they are not in the mood. I guess I am always in the mood for physical touch so it simply does not bother me one bit. I really enjoy it and feel loved and the thought that someone "lusts" for me makes me feel special. How about you?
Did you know there are two types of positive people?
Posted:Nov 16, 2018 6:33 am
Last Updated:Nov 20, 2018 5:53 am

First type of Positive: They like to look at the glass as half full, they try to look for the good in all first and even get burned because of being optimistic. They like to build others up with their words so to try and make this a better place.

Second type of Positive (Sarcasm): They are positive because you are on a sex site you must not be honest. They are positive that you are only after one thing. They are positive they know more about you than you do and you just made contact. They are positive their crap doesn't stink. Need I say more?

Today, choose to be the top type of positive. Choose to be open-minded and considerate first. Then if they prove to be a positive A-hole you can move on. Life is short, air is a precious commodity, and remember, when life gets hard, there are many others who wish they were as fortunate as you. The grave yard is full of them. Enjoy life with a smile, and stop every now and then and remember how lucky you are.

Have a great weekend sexy bloggers!
Preference Poll - Just to test a couple of theories.
Posted:Nov 13, 2018 4:36 am
Last Updated:Aug 2, 2021 7:19 am

Well we have all the heard the terms, more than a mouthful is a waste and size does not matter it is how you use it, so I thought I would put together a poll that would not take any brainpower on this Tuesday but would show the preferences of the people who visit my blog. I know that there are other things important like girth and perkiness so don't take this to seriously but do share your preference with me. Thanks!

Women: You will be given a list of sizes to choose for what size penis you prefer on your lover.

Men: You will be given a cup size to see what size breasts you prefer on your lover.

Happy Tuesday Everybody! ...and be sure to check back to see how many people have chosen what size you were blessed with. And yes, smaller can be a blessing as well.
Women: 2 inches or less
Women: 3 to 4 inches
Women: 5 to 6 inches
Women: 7 to 8 inches
Women: 9 inches or more
Men: A cup
Men: B cup
Men: C cup
Men: D cup
Men: The bigger the better.
10 Comments , 127 votes
Just what I needed.
Posted:Nov 12, 2018 5:47 am
Last Updated:Dec 24, 2019 9:08 am

So I was at an outdoor concert in a neighboring town this weekend and had to go to the bathroom but did not want to go in a freezing cold port-o-potty. I left the outdoor venue and walked to a nearby restaurant where I saw this as soon as I walked into the bathroom. I could not help but smile and think of Blogville as I had just written something not to long ago about men need compliments on their looks to sometimes. Needless to say, when I came back out I sat down and ordered an appetizer and a drink. Thought it was the least that I could do since they hit a cord with me that I needed.

Has any sign spoken to you lately?
Understanding the difference.
Posted:Nov 9, 2018 6:01 am
Last Updated:Nov 12, 2018 5:27 am

From what I read on a lot of... the short profile (as seen by non-gold ballers) and some in the blogs about non-bloggers, there seems to be a lot of men taking a line or two out of a profile and thinking it applies directly to them, a total stranger, and develop expectations based on that information. I can see where some may get confused, like when a woman says something of this sorts... "looking for a tall man with dreamy eyes who can sweep me off my feet." Well, I am a tall man. I have been told I have dreamy eyes, therefore she must be talking about me. In that brief description it does not say all of the other things that is going through her mind like, does not live with their mother (lol), has a good paying job, likes cats... lots of cats, etc. It is really a slippery slope because if she does put all of that in there then she would most likely be categorized as a crazy cat lady, which she may be, or a total B****. Plus, since probably most men on here are non-paying members they can see the rest or would not take the time to read the rest anyways.

I think that is one of the biggest disconnects on here. In addition, if a man is feeling especially frisky or horny at the moment, all common sense goes out the window and it is simply... Here is a female, she has what I . She lives within driving distance. She is on a sex site so she must be wanting what I got. I wrong ladies?

Now, this brings me to the blogs and to replies on comments. First and foremost I a little bit of a flirt in real life with waitresses, hostess, just service people in general. Not the over the top kind of flirting but the pick them up and make them feel better type of flirting. If it makes them feel better and in return gets me better service, then it is a win win for both. So when I make comments on pictures a blogging friend posts, which some are really tantalizing, or to something that they may write that makes me a little frisky inside. Then I totally understand that their reply being something like... I would love to help you with lotion on those hard to reach places... is simply fun flirtatious talk and nothing more. They could actually mean it but it does not mean... hey, this woman wants me. I to flood her email box and pester the crap out of her. NO... it means that you found a woman with a great sense of humor who enjoys flirtatious shorts because it makes both of you feel good. And who knows, maybe one day it will turn into something else, but it is only because you were friends first and therefor each of you opened up your window of opportunity. I would say that probably 95-99% of the people I come into contact on this site I will never meet in person, but I can certainly enjoy their company and comments here in Blogville.

Enjoy your kick off to the weekend!
More unrelated potpourri from Daytimer... R U Ready?
Posted:Nov 8, 2018 5:51 am
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2018 11:03 am

My mind never stops and a lot of times I can not get to sleep or even wake up in the middle of the night because of SO much running through it.

1) Does anyone else ever have that problem?

2) I use to write erotic stories and was told by women who read them that they were very good because of my imagination and vivid descriptions. However, I had to quit writing them because I was getting to worked up and sex was never as good as my stories. Being a hopeless romantic is a curse. lol How about you, does writing erotic stories or even posts make you horny?

3) Sexual emotional swings -

a ) I knew a woman who got pregnant and could not stop thinking about sex. She could not get enough and practically ripped her husbands clothes off when he would walk through the door after work during that pregnancy. But then, when she got pregnant again she did not want anything to do with sex. Really a crazy sex swing.... have you ever been like that or know someone like that?

b) In addition, I know someone who had a hysterectomy and afterwards never wanted oral again. Is that normal? (By afterwards I am not talking about right after the surgery, I am talking about permanently)

4) Have you ever had a surgery or something else that caused you to not want sex or a sexual act for anytime afterwards?

Just one more day people... the weekend is almost here... stay strong!

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