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Breaking an unwritten rule.  

Daytimer09B 54M
460 posts
9/5/2018 5:45 am
Breaking an unwritten rule.

I know you are not suppose to make people have to think on Wednesdays but here is something I have been wondering about. This pertains to desires and wishes of the people here at Which of the following do you feel best represents your thoughts and emotions.

Feel free to comment by putting them in order of importance to you. Of course I am leaving out the most desirable question where you can have it all.
Finding someone to spend your life with even if there was not much sexually.
Finding someone compatible with your sex interests if just for a short time.
Finding multiple people with your sex interests.
Shorter life if it meant a more sexually fulfilled life.
Longer financial security life even if not sexually fulfilled.

Daytimer09B 54M
901 posts
9/5/2018 5:46 am

Inquire minds want to know.

Msmealsonheels 29F  
688 posts
9/5/2018 6:52 am

Canned answers to posed questions don't always seem to fit very well sometimes. Almost like the concept of trying to fit a square peg in a round hole...

Daytimer09B replies on 9/5/2018 7:02 am:
With all due respect to your answer, when you get older you will find these answers a little more thought provoking. Thanks for stopping by.

seems6666 52F
4838 posts
9/5/2018 7:15 am

I seek a relationship, not sure about a forever one, just a normal relationship with fun, companionship, good sex, and shared financial commitments

Daytimer09B replies on 9/5/2018 2:00 pm:
How has that worked out for you here? Hope you are able to find what you are looking for.

Platosgames 100M
3189 posts
9/5/2018 11:53 am

While I could certainly say no to some of the options. As evidenced by some of my posts, I can't really say there is a specific thing i'm looking for. I'm gonna have to abstain. From the voting, not sex. just saying.

PS..could we have an option that reads.

Looking for sex with someone I really click with, that could turn into a long term relationship, as long as everything else worked out, but didn't have to be a long term, could be a semi long term, but if it didn't we were still good friends, and we still had mind blowing sex, with NSA, unless there needed to be a few strings, just to hold it all together.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx

Daytimer09B replies on 9/5/2018 2:00 pm:
Thanks for commenting and good look with your searches.

27112 posts
9/5/2018 2:41 pm

None of the suggested answers are quite right for me.

I'm more leaning towards the suggested option that Platosgames provided.

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Daytimer09B replies on 9/6/2018 5:49 am:
I'm not familiar with that term.

pineconer9 72M
245 posts
9/5/2018 4:34 pm

Ideally like to find that special someone for the rest of my life that we are also on the same page and open sexually,,and share with each other and others knowing it will always come back to the two of us..but we share hot sexual adventures with others

Daytimer09B replies on 9/6/2018 5:50 am:
I think a lot of guys would like that but it seems hard to find, at least in my neck of the woods.

Yoursideguy76 45M

9/5/2018 9:32 pm

I don’t mind thinking on Wednesday. I do it every Wednesday and it has never resulted in an aneurism.
Closest one for me is the second option followed by the third.

Daytimer09B replies on 9/6/2018 5:51 am:
Thanks for stopping by and sharing.

TXArmyWife 50F
1964 posts
9/6/2018 8:14 pm

I’m in a sexless marriage, so, right now, I voted for a shorter life sexually fulfilled.

I need a really great kiss!!

Daytimer09B replies on 9/17/2018 5:39 am:
That is sad to have to think a shorter life is better. I hope you can find someone here to help satisfy your appetite. Hugs!

zeke53028 63M  
1135 posts
9/7/2018 6:31 pm

When I first joined here it was to find sex partners. But as I've gotten older it's more of a time waster than anything. I have met a few women and one couple that I had sex with and we still email or IM on occasion but we don't hook up anymore. My current girlfriend of several years is my dental hygienist so I'm not looking.

Daytimer09B replies on 9/17/2018 5:40 am:
That is great that you have been able to find someone. The blogs are a great place to meet like minded friends.

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