Female fetishes... do they exist?  

Daytimer09B 53M
517 posts
4/21/2020 11:03 am
Female fetishes... do they exist?


It seems anytime you see a fetish, talk of a fetish or hear someone mentioning fetishes it seems always reference something that a guy has asked for. I can not ever remember seeing a fetish reference from a lady. I am not including the dom/sub lifestyle in the fetish question as I believe that is more of a lifestyle than a fetish. Here is one that I hear often when watching a video site: feet, show your feet. Well, I for one love feet when they are nicely shapped and not disformed from wearing really tight shoes. I love giving feet massages as a great start foreplay. I will actually even get a rise from doing it. But has any lady ever said she wants see some guys feet? I have never heard it or anything else for that matter. If you have a fetish, or love feet, let me hear it. Thanks!

Daytimer09B 53M
889 posts
4/21/2020 11:05 am

Do you like having your feet massaged or do you prefer to keep them covered up with socks? I had one girlfriend who I dated for about 6 months who would never show her feet.


CvilleM4U 61M
107 posts
4/21/2020 1:25 pm

Try Fetlife dot com. Fetishes galore there.


Daytimer09B replies on 4/21/2020 3:45 pm:
But are these from women? I'll have to go check and see.

MsJaneBondage 52F
139 posts
4/21/2020 1:32 pm

Nothing is a taboo anymore, but I know of only a few fetishes.

These I think are Taboos to the common man: One of them is kissing, the other is foreplay, then there is sensual dominance, then we have taking it slow,

A few personal Fetishes and one that I can only take for about 4 seconds is a little toes sucking, I also encourage gentle butt biting, gentle hair pulling and gentle choking. Maybe a few pats on the ass in the right direction so as not to cause pain.

Ok, I know these aren't real fetishes but they seem to be non-existent with most men. If only they knew what a woman wants, then they will get their cookie too.

Maybe a fetish, and not one that I have, is a woman being treated like a dumb slut. I know there are women who like this type of fetish. I would propose that men not assume that all women are into that specific type of fetish. I will incorporate it on occasion with the right guy, but that would be for his pleasure not mine.


Daytimer09B replies on 4/21/2020 3:45 pm:
"These I think are Taboos to the common man: One of them is kissing, the other is foreplay, then there is sensual dominance, then we have taking it slow,"

Wow, I can not beleive those are gone. For me, its my go to that makes everything else better. I guess I must just be old school. Thanks for commenting!

Brownie202 64F  
2595 posts
4/21/2020 2:58 pm

I don't have any myself but I would think women have them. Not saying all do.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


positively4you 72F  
4523 posts
4/21/2020 4:12 pm

Have you looked at man feet? Pretty sure they are not a woman’s dream.


Daytimer09B replies on 4/22/2020 9:34 am:
Like I said, I have never heard any woman say that. But a lot of guys really love feet.

author51 58F  
126353 posts
4/22/2020 2:09 am

    Quoting Daytimer09B:
    Do you like having your feet massaged or do you prefer to keep them covered up with socks? I had one girlfriend who I dated for about 6 months who would never show her feet.
I love pampering my feet and wear open toed everything be it heels or sandals. I do not like foot massages though for some reason.............. maybe that is my fetish.....lol. Good post Hun....xoxo


Daytimer09B replies on 4/22/2020 9:36 am:
I wonder if you do not like them because your feet may be to ticklish? or maybe you just truly do not like having your feet messed with. Still looking for that elusive female fetish.

TicklePlease 53F  
13689 posts
4/22/2020 4:37 am

A fetish (to me) is something that's inherently non-sexual, being deemed sexually arousing by someone. I've always thought that only men had fetishes, even though all I have is anecdotal evidence. I've yet to meet a woman who becomes aroused by something that's not inherently sexual.. yes all women have our sexual proclivities and preferred sexual dynamic but true fetishes seem to exist only in men.


Daytimer09B replies on 4/22/2020 9:38 am:
Your definition makes sense. It does seem to be a male only type of excitement. Thanks for your contribution.

Daytimer09B 53M
889 posts
4/22/2020 9:33 am

    Quoting Brownie202:
    I don't have any myself but I would think women have them. Not saying all do.
Kind of goes with what I was saying. You never here of women's fetishes or at least not much. I guess guys are more vocal about them. Thanks!


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