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Have you ever gotten so distracted in a work environment...  

Daytimer09B 54M
463 posts
3/10/2020 6:52 am
Have you ever gotten so distracted in a work environment...

Okay, so after my last post, I am back out of town for a large group meeting. I get in a little late and have to sit near the front in an isle seat. The person leading the meeting is a lady in her mid 40s and she is wearing a skirt that comes down to about 8 inches above her knees. It is a loosely fitting dress and her legs were ghostly white from the lack of seeing sun since last summer. I am not lying when I say she had the best legs I have seen in a very long time. They were flawless, and believe me, I checked every square inch. She was in high black heals and they really made her calves look incredible. Needless to say, I could not think about work and all that was on my mind was wanting to run my hands up and down her legs and thighs with lotion and kisses. I have never met this lady before so I really know nothing else about her. I really hope I did not look like I was stareing at her legs the entire meeting but I know I was. I can not even tell you the first thing about anything she said. Bad me, bad me. I really hope I can find a powerpoint of her presentation. I do not think this has ever happened to me before.

So does this happen to women as well when a guy speaks or is it just simply a guy thing and our love for flesh?

Daytimer09B 54M
901 posts
3/10/2020 6:53 am

Sorry if I came across as being shallow. It took me totally by surprise.

idblueswoman 64F  
830 posts
3/10/2020 7:41 am

I think its a man thing. While I can find a man attractive, certainly not wired to just after a stranger.

Daytimer09B replies on 3/10/2020 9:20 am:
Thanks for your comment.

shogun_269u_II 60M
155 posts
3/10/2020 9:18 am

I have had this happen more than once! One time became such an issue had to retire to the restroom to blast a load! Once the relief occurred I was able to focus much better

Daytimer09B replies on 3/10/2020 12:29 pm:
It is amazing how much something like that can totaly keep you from being able to focus until like you said. Hard to believe something like that can have such a grip on us.

author51 59F  
130010 posts
3/11/2020 12:01 am

I have always worked for myself and most times by myself so being distracted by someone has not been an issue. Good post..

Daytimer09B replies on 3/11/2020 5:35 am:
Thanks! Working for yourself has its pluses and minuses. But after spending many years in the corporate world I think I enjoy the minuses more.

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