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Hot but not?  

Daytimer09B 54M
460 posts
7/27/2021 1:23 pm
Hot but not?

So I am really bored today and what else is there to do but kill some time on here with you sexy people.

Here is my question:

Have you ever seen a sex scene or read about a sexcapade that you just could not wait to try because it looked or sounded so dang HOT only to find out later it was not as good as it would appear?

Here is mine: Hut tub sex. What on earth could be better than hot tub sex I thought. Oh it has all the elements I like... wine.... a sexy hottie... massaging water... sexy steamy setting... oh the thoughts that went through my mind leading up to this incredible encounter.

Then reality set in... it was SWEATY HOT and I was way over heating, I literally had sweat beads running down my back, down my face, down every square inch of my body, the steam was NOT sexy at all but just too much over the top. Heck, I had to cool down in order to function properly. And that was just me, I am sure she was having similar issues so it was time to get under a cold shower and then go to the bed so we could enjoy what was left of the moment.

Let's here about your... NOT SO HOT moment.

Daytimer09B 54M
901 posts
7/27/2021 1:23 pm

Looking to hear some good stories on this one.

bigbananaguy 51M  
33 posts
7/27/2021 2:26 pm

Sex in a car is always suboptimal.

Daytimer09B replies on 7/28/2021 6:28 am:
Totally agree. It has been so long since I have done that one I had forgotten. Good one.

pagancountrygirl 65F
6466 posts
7/27/2021 2:46 pm

You need to try a hot tub outside in the winter.

Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!

Daytimer09B replies on 7/28/2021 6:29 am:
That would certainly be better I am sure. I did make a mistake one time by putting bubble bath in one. I have never seen so much bubbles in my life, the entire room was filled as it could not be contained. lol

staci_19702 52T  
3767 posts
7/27/2021 4:16 pm

Well, since you asked. 😃
#1. Sex on the beach. Bulls#*t! Sand gets everywhere. And if there’s been a recent application of sunscreen (which is what leads to sex on the beach)it’s worse!! 180 grit sandpaper on everything you touch.
#2. Tried some food play from the fridge once. Kind of a 9 1/2 weeks thing. It’s fun for a bit. But whip cream, aerosol or container, gets yucky after about 10 minutes. The session was fun, but the clean up was heinous. Especially after several drinks.
#3. I am with you on the hot tub thing. We tried in a sauna once. It was hot! Hard to breathe. Too steamy. And everything is hard wood. It hurts and there is no comfortable position for someone laying down.
Great post. Thanks!

Have a great day! 💋

Daytimer09B replies on 7/28/2021 6:31 am:
Thanks for your stopping by and giving some good answers. Funny how everything works better in our imagination.

lust4life59 63F  
2552 posts
7/27/2021 9:40 pm

Threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes. Eh - just not my thing, but couldn't have honestly said it without trying more than once and in various combinations.

Daytimer09B replies on 7/28/2021 6:32 am:
That is one thing I have not had the pleasure of trying yet. I still want to try a FMF but not sure if I would enjoy anything beyond that. Nice to hear your perspective, thanks for commenting.

author51 59F  
130010 posts
7/27/2021 11:14 pm

My sentiments exactly as I had a Hot time indeed with a lover in the Winter outside in the Hot Tub...xoxo

Daytimer09B replies on 7/28/2021 6:33 am:
I can definitely see the benefits of being outside when it is much cooler. Inside was just total overheating and not good.

secret_lade 48F
9227 posts
7/28/2021 12:26 am

Ditto sex on the beach. Just plain horrible.

Daytimer09B replies on 7/28/2021 6:36 am:
Makes for a good drink though... (the name and the drink). You do hear an awful lot of people talking about how much they would like to have sex on the beach. Wonder how many would change their mind afterwards?

spunkycumfun 62M/67F  
41171 posts
7/28/2021 1:57 am

Car sex has never been good for me - far too uncomfortable! And beach sex - far too much sand!

Daytimer09B replies on 7/28/2021 6:38 am:
Car sex is for teenagers. It's just too hard for anyone else to get out of that pretzel like state.

seems6666 52F
4838 posts
7/28/2021 8:45 am

MMF threesome... it was shit! nuff said

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