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How others view you... in their mind.  

Daytimer09B 54M
461 posts
12/18/2019 5:26 am
How others view you... in their mind.

I am a very creative guy with a great sense of vision and filling in the blanks where there are things I can not see visually. I know some will be bothered by the thought that someone can look at them and imagine what they look like undressed and then others, would enjoy the thought that someone would want to know what they look like naked and enjoy the vision. I think that is one reason I like seeing the "Dressed / Undressed" pictures. I have a great love for the bare human body as well as the warmth that comes from snuggling up close to each other when naked.

Question: Do you feel violated or creeped out by someone invisioning you naked or do you feel flattered that they would want to see you that way?

*Disclaimer: This type of vision is not the same as some random creapy person staring at you making you feel uncomfortabe. There is a difference and it helps me to keep a smile on my face guessing how nice someone looks underneath their clothes.

Daytimer09B 54M
901 posts
12/18/2019 5:26 am

Look forward to hearing what you have to say... oh, and do you ever envision someone naked while talking to them?

pocogato12 70F  
37236 posts
12/18/2019 5:47 am

Oh yes I have vision and they are not the sugar plum fairy. But of course, I would welcome some "sugar". I am not creeped out and I am sure it happens frequently

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Daytimer09B replies on 12/18/2019 6:09 am:
Nice to see that there are women who feel the same. I just wish there was a way of knowing when someone of the other sex was thinking that way about me. lol

author51 59F  
130010 posts
12/18/2019 6:21 am

I envision men naked so no it does not bother me.. I find it highly erotic... If there is one that comes across creepy though and starts to message without respect than that is when I block them so they can not envision a damn Great post sexy man..xx

Daytimer09B replies on 12/18/2019 11:50 am:
Thanks! I am glad to hear you feel it is highly erotic, and if you are going to get an opportunity to be with that person it is kind of like Christmas morning and it makes oprning up their package even funner.

sensualmaninmn 61M  
519 posts
12/18/2019 6:49 am

I do envision a potential partner naked, but I never ask for nude pictures--I prefer real-time joy of discovery. When a woman sends unsolicited nude pics, it is a yellow flag in my mind. We have to remember that the majority of us have imperfect bodies, whether it is weight, scars, and so forth. While attraction is important, chemistry, confidence and intellect are the biggest turn-ons for me.

Daytimer09B replies on 12/18/2019 11:51 am:
It is kind of funny but as I have aged so have my likes. For example, stretch marks now have a certain sexiness to them that they did not when I was much younger. Good comments, thanks for stopping by.

crewcab2019 50M

12/18/2019 6:59 am

Well, you are definitely smoking hot.

Daytimer09B replies on 12/18/2019 11:57 am:
Thanks for stopping by.

botoko50 72M

12/18/2019 8:09 am

Typical human response to look at other people- most of the time I'm glad clothes were invented- lol- I don't care what other people vision- I don't go around asking people if they look at me as try to imagine me naked-

Daytimer09B replies on 12/18/2019 11:56 am:
Clothes are nice to keep down some of the things you really wish you would never see. I have found that nudist beaches have all varieties but there is just something different about people who are comfortable in their own skin... but not to comfortable. lol

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