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How would you rate yourself the first time you had sex? 1-10  

Daytimer09B 54M
461 posts
10/25/2018 12:43 pm
How would you rate yourself the first time you had sex? 1-10

It's Thursday and I have had a really rough week. I an optimistic type person so I looking to do something fun in order to break the chill of this week. Play along with me and be honest. Feel free to give details as to how you come up with your rating. Rate yourself with 1 being "not very good" to 10 being "Outstanding."

Just how "good" were you the very first time you had sex?

My answer in the comments.

Daytimer09B 54M
901 posts
10/25/2018 1:02 pm

I am going to rate myself a big whopping "5". Yeah, that sounds pretty sad when it comes to sex but you have to know the circumstances. I was a very young Sophomore in college and my roommate and I decided to throw a keg party (Cheap beer) at our apartment (which did not have hardly any furniture). A friend from school brought me a bottle of Crown Royal as an apartment warming gift. I spent the entire party doing shots of Crown as I mingled with other people, many who I had no clue who they were. We used a banner on our balcony to advertise the party. In hind sight, not a very smart thing to do, but we did pack out the place. Long story short, this girl I had met recently from another college, and whom lived down the road in another building, asked if she could crash in my room until this guy who had been hitting on her left. Being the nice guy I am I said sure, after all, she was very cute. Maybe an hour later the party ended and I made my way to my bedroom. She was laying in my bed with just one of my tee-shirts and panties. I took off my clothes, slipped on some boxers and crawled into bed. She rolled over next to my "extremely drunken self" and asked if I were sleepy. In my head I was screaming YES but verbally I said... no. Next thing I know she had rolled over on top of me and we were kissing. My hands started roaming as I had nothing holding me back because of the liquid courage and the next thing I know I am squeezing an incredible rack. One thing led to another and I was on top and going to town. BAM... within a minute or two I was done and pulled out. She said, "You do not have to pull out because I have protection." In other words, she wanted to go again. This time I lasted close to five minutes.. that may be a stretch, can't remember cause I was too dang drunk and queazy. When I finished I headed to the bathroom to clean up and wouldn't you know, she was right there on my heels. "I've never done it in the shower before" and all I could say was... sorry, I am too drunk and I really don't think I can go any further tonight. She left afterwards and said she wanted a rain check. So that is my story of my very first time... not exactly the way you want it so that it would be memorable... in a good way that is.

pocogato12 70F  
37236 posts
10/25/2018 1:25 pm

5 and I was a sophomore in college on Maine Day and I was at a toga party- I think the story writes itself from here. Couldnt have been too bad we got married before the Army got him

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Daytimer09B replies on 10/25/2018 1:54 pm:
You lucky lady! I always wanted to go to a toga party but no one ever had one. After our big blowout party we got furniture and decided it was best to just go to other people's parties because we didn't want to get our furniture torn up. Thank for sharing!

positively4you 73F  
4605 posts
10/25/2018 2:13 pm

Im guessing I was a 2. I was hammered. At a hotel for a convention in Myrtle Beach. Ahhh, memories.

Daytimer09B replies on 10/26/2018 6:52 am:
You may have been a 2 but I am sure he would say much higher at the time because he was probably hammered and needing some relief as well. Myrtle Beach, wow, I have not been there in ages. I wonder if Mother Fletchers is still around these days and what it is like. Thanks for sharing!

benard69 65M/65F  
6298 posts
10/25/2018 2:32 pm

Had sex in a Volkswagen the first time...At 6' 4" I would rate myself at a 12 but in all honesty it was probably a 2...

Daytimer09B replies on 10/26/2018 6:54 am:
Being 6'4" and having driven an old Volkswagen bug myself once I definitely think style points should be awarded.

lyavu 49F
1538 posts
10/25/2018 5:41 pm

I would say 20

Daytimer09B replies on 10/26/2018 6:55 am:
If you were a 20 I would bet to say he was unresponsive afterwards. Probably had to get jump started to get back up. Rocked his world.

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