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Let me be your boy-toy. (Food for thought)  

Daytimer09B 54M
462 posts
4/24/2020 12:23 pm
Let me be your boy-toy. (Food for thought)

You can't help but see so many profiles saying they want meet someone for _____, but do they really mean it? Even people who may match 0% with do not return emails or other points of contact. So do they really want meet someone or are they just here because they thing it is a fun place hang out and write things they think about but do not have any plans on acting on. The blogs are great because people interact, however, they are not there meet people. Nothing wrong with that as I feel I have made a lot of friends who I may or may not ever meet if I travel their area for vacation or wor But it just seems a shame that so much sexual desire goes untapped and so many connections close by are not real. I would just love be someone's boy-toy (of my preference type) one time. I would love to meet a female who would want to be my girl-toy just because they wanted a little adventure and fun. I am in great shape currently but in years to come I know I will most likely fall off more and will have less and less stamina. To bad people on here only live in a fantasy world. So what do you think? am I right? and what percentage of individuals return your correspondence (not including the blogs)? I bet I get about 5% or less. I must really look hideous.

Daytimer09B 54M
901 posts
4/24/2020 12:24 pm

I think I must have too much time on my hands.

author51 59F  
130010 posts
4/24/2020 10:57 pm

I also reply to every single email whether I am interested or not..I will be back to meeting when all this is done my friend as I have one or two local men I am interested in and chat with daily.. I would love to meet fellow bloggers like you and others as well..xoxo

Daytimer09B replies on 4/26/2020 7:36 am:
I've always wanted to attend one of those Bloggers Bashes that use to be popular about 6 years ago. I really have not heard of them much since. But of course, I want to go to one where I will know and have exchanged comments with the most bloggers. Otherwise it would just be total strangers and that would not be fun. I love getting to know people through the blogs. The few bloggers I have met have been great. It is like meeting an old friend who you have not seen in a long time. Hard to believe it is the first time you have actually met in person. Stay safe and enJOY life!

TicklePlease 54F  
13851 posts
4/25/2020 6:01 am

I'll reply to emails that are from men who have read my profile and fit my basic description of what I'm seeking. The rest of them are like wolf whistles or catcalls from someone driving by. Why on earth would I reply to someone who can clearly read that they don't fit what I'm looking for but doesn't care?

Is it a fantasy world for women to want to meet someone to casually date and have sex with on a regular basis without the pressure of further relationships? That seems to be what most of the real women here want, I wonder why that's so hard to find? I think it's because most of the men here treat the site and the women here as masturbatory aids. Men wonder what the percentage of real women here is... and real women wonder what the percentage of single men who have their own place is. I'd bet there are more real women looking for fwb than there are truly available men.

Daytimer09B replies on 4/26/2020 7:40 am:
Interesting take Tickle. I agree with you that only the deserving should get responses and not those who simply write "Want to..." I think anyone should be able to tell the difference between a decent person who at least deserves a thanks but not meeting at the present and those who are just as you mentioned. There are SO many fake female profiles that it does also skew's numbers. I always try to look up and see if they have a blog so I know they are real. Unfortunately for me, it seems no one anywhere close to my area ever blogs. Thanks for your comments and have a wonderful week!

lust4life59 63F  
2552 posts
4/25/2020 6:12 am

I'm guilty of not responding to every email I recieve, but I will say I do read them. There are a lot of scammers on here, took me a while to figure out who was likely to be real and who wasn't. I get a lot of comments about my pictures, video, and profile in general, those I will respond to, even if it's just to say thank you. If someone is close geographically, I prefer to meet in person rather than exchange lengthy emails to get know them (Pre covid days that is).

Daytimer09B replies on 4/26/2020 7:44 am:
I like that you're being genuine. To many on here hiding behind a profile name. I know women have to be a little more cautious than men. But if you are responding to those deserving I would put you up in the "has Class" category. Thanks!

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