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More unrelated potpourri from Daytimer... R U Ready?  

Daytimer09B 54M
460 posts
11/8/2018 5:51 am
More unrelated potpourri from Daytimer... R U Ready?

My mind never stops and a lot of times I can not get to sleep or even wake up in the middle of the night because of SO much running through it.

1) Does anyone else ever have that problem?

2) I use to write erotic stories and was told by women who read them that they were very good because of my imagination and vivid descriptions. However, I had to quit writing them because I was getting to worked up and sex was never as good as my stories. Being a hopeless romantic is a curse. lol How about you, does writing erotic stories or even posts make you horny?

3) Sexual emotional swings -

a ) I knew a woman who got pregnant and could not stop thinking about sex. She could not get enough and practically ripped her husbands clothes off when he would walk through the door after work during that pregnancy. But then, when she got pregnant again she did not want anything to do with sex. Really a crazy sex swing.... have you ever been like that or know someone like that?

b) In addition, I know someone who had a hysterectomy and afterwards never wanted oral again. Is that normal? (By afterwards I am not talking about right after the surgery, I am talking about permanently)

4) Have you ever had a surgery or something else that caused you to not want sex or a sexual act for anytime afterwards?

Just one more day people... the weekend is almost here... stay strong!

Daytimer09B 54M
901 posts
11/8/2018 5:52 am

And for anyone wanting to know (see comment in last post) it is really, really BIG, or just the right size depending on what you are looking for!

author51 59F  
130010 posts
11/8/2018 5:59 am

After each of my three CSections, I could not nor did I want sex for a long time after the initial healing I have always loved oral giving it and of course receiving so no problems there. I have a high sex drive and could do it anytime, anywhere 7 days a week... No usually normal after a hysterectomy to not want to do oral again. She was probably insecure about her femininity at that point though. Oral is more tastebuds in my opinion... I sometimes get frisky when writing an erotic prose or story and have had to stop in the middle of it to go play... than finish

Daytimer09B replies on 11/8/2018 6:05 am:
The human body, desires and such, can really be so complicated sometimes. I have not had any cuttings done in the nether regions so it is hard for me to understand someone not wanting something. It seems my brain, the one in the top head lol, is where my sexual desire comes from. The other just enjoys the pleasurable feelings. Sometimes I feel like I may be a sex addict because it is always on my mind.

luvgluv19 74M

11/8/2018 8:13 am

    Quoting  :

The best reason I can think of for a woman to want oral again is because it was done right and the orgasm was complete. Some people don't have the expertise to make some one orgasm during oral or regular sex

Daytimer09B replies on 11/8/2018 10:12 am:
... and I think some women just don't like it no matter how good you are. They think it is either not hygienic or just do not connect that way. I have heard that not all women enjoy masturbating so I guess they would not like oral either.

luvgluv19 74M

11/8/2018 8:14 am

Before you go to bed sit down in your quiet place and just breath to reset your mind and get ready for bed. If you can't relax you are headed for a heart attack my man

Daytimer09B replies on 11/8/2018 10:17 am:
I am normally a little overactive anyways as I do a lot of working out and still try to get in as much sporting activities as my falling a part body will allow. I don't smoke and I drink in moderation and not all that often so I am hoping that I can sneak around that heart attack thing. Unfortunately for me, quiet places can be the worse due to having a bad case of ringing in the ears. When it is quiet the ringing seems extra loud. I can do a pretty good job of tuning it out when other noises are in the room. From your profile pic it looks like you have been able to keep it together. Keep it up!

pocogato12 70F  
37236 posts
11/8/2018 2:25 pm

I have absolutely zero trouble shutting my mind off when the pillow calls. I do not think it ever was an issue.

My intellectual bent is not towards writing erotica although I have some that I do not believe I have posted here except perhaps one to Symposium. I am more apt to do research and share Fun Facts and trivia. My reading habits follow this as well- I write in my books and make notes and quite often go look things up after the book is finished. I have some authors I re-read!1

I have had so much surgery and chemotherapy I cannot honestly tell you when my " I need it" zone came back on and then went off and back on.
Right now it's possibly on an "Hmmm yep" if the right man came along

?? Have you ever taken Ambien??

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Daytimer09B 54M
901 posts
11/8/2018 6:08 pm

Really learned a lot about you pocogato. Sorry you have had to go through so much but glad you are able to move on past it. I think I may have hit on a subject I should have avoided so not to bring back painful memories, but that darn brain of mine is always churning. I rarely take any kind of drugs for sleep or anything else. I will when feeling ran down and needing sleep badly take nyquil. I just hate waking up the next morning all droughy(?). Thanks for sharing!

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