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That one item that gives you over the top confidence.  

Daytimer09B 54M
463 posts
5/13/2019 6:41 am
That one item that gives you over the top confidence.


I am currently packing for a long trip and will be going out dancing and other outings where there will be lots of other people. Normally I can think of several clothing items that make me feel very confident and desirable. However, I seem to be drawing a blank and only have a few days to get something new.

So here are my questions for you:

1) What item gives you that positive vibe and makes you feel great? It could be a pair of shoes, a watch, a particular shirt, etc.

2) What is the look you like seeing on a guy? What gets your attention?

Daytimer09B 54M
901 posts
5/13/2019 6:41 am

Thanks in advance.


eagnas234 55M

5/13/2019 7:00 am

A nice pair of shorts and good lucky underwear.


Daytimer09B replies on 5/13/2019 7:06 am:
I have all my lucky underwear packed, if only these were underwear attire events.

author51 59F  
130010 posts
5/13/2019 7:12 am

My sundresses do. I only wear heels with them for either formal occasions or in the bedroom but without the sundress....lol. For a man, I like a great fitting pair of jeans, a polo or golf shirt or a dress shirt unbuttoned to show some chest hair....lol.

I also love jeans and a tee shirt, a cool pair of shades and a baseball cap..


Daytimer09B replies on 5/15/2019 6:14 am:
You sound like you are describing me on a normal day. Now that it is warmer I substitute the jeans with a nice pair of shorts.

I do like seeing sun dresses on women, especially the ones that show a little cleavage.

pocogato12 70F  
37236 posts
5/13/2019 3:55 pm

Dockers or chinos ( jean if it's really casual) that have a crease in them accompanied by a colored shirt that he likes and most of all: a smile and clean fingernails. Clothes do not make the person.

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Daytimer09B replies on 5/15/2019 6:16 am:
I have heard others talk about dirty fingernails. Because my job is more of a desk and sales job I rarely have dirty fingernails. Of course mine do grow very fast and I have to keep them trimmed. I have several features that most women would love to have... fast growing hair, fingernails (both strong and thick) and long eye lashes.

author51 59F  
130010 posts
5/15/2019 7:14 am

    Quoting author51:
    My sundresses do. I only wear heels with them for either formal occasions or in the bedroom but without the sundress....lol. For a man, I like a great fitting pair of jeans, a polo or golf shirt or a dress shirt unbuttoned to show some chest hair....lol.

    I also love jeans and a tee shirt, a cool pair of shades and a baseball cap..
Mine show more leg than cleavage.. My tops on the other hand show more cleavage....lol


Daytimer09B replies on 5/30/2019 6:51 am:
Thanks for your input Joy!

SeaGirlFL 58F
9220 posts
5/26/2019 8:54 am

I have a couple of comfortable tops that I'll usually wear with capri pants.

Men always look good dressed up...but, for a casual going out...I guess I'm partial to a button-down shirt and jeans, or a golf shirt and shorts. What ever he is comfortable in, works for me, as long as it's clean and tidy.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


Daytimer09B replies on 5/30/2019 6:52 am:
Clean for sure. Hate seeing people look like slouches. Thanks!

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