How do you worship your woman?  

Desires_Unleashe 38M  
18 posts
9/1/2021 7:05 am
How do you worship your woman?

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HAMONMAN 62M
12914 posts
9/1/2021 8:58 am

sounds like you're doing all right


Humanity peaked during the 20th century.
We can't even make a decent starter solenoid any longer.


seems6666 51F
4761 posts
9/1/2021 10:40 am

I'd divorce her and marry me


author51 58F  
125833 posts
9/2/2021 12:00 am

Lucky lady you have there and seems like you show your love to her, like she does you.....xoxo

You can never have enough JOY in your life...xoxo

RIDE


BiggLala 49F  
30139 posts
9/2/2021 7:53 pm

Perhaps I shot myself in the foot by setting the bar too high?
-Yep. Sounds like you married a princess who thinks her prince isn't doing enough.

Is what I am doing right now actually enough worshipping?
-From what she said...no, you aren't. Have you asked HER what more you can do, or has SHE told you how SHE wants you to worship her? The best feedback I have is that...you have her tell you what SHE wants, and then you...do it, without question, without argument, whether you want to or not. That's what faithful goddess worshiping mortals do.

Just my feedback since you asked.
Good luck!

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Desires_Unleashe 38M  
6 posts
9/2/2021 10:36 pm

I'd never call her a princess. She's tough and resilient. At the start of our relationship, she was actually rescuing me.

When I wanted to get her input into what I could do, she reacted defensively; upset that I would expect her to be able to just tell me, instead of me figuring it out myself. She takes great insult in the notion that she could just tell me how to make her happy. That it is somehow her mommying me by teaching me things I should have already learned in life. I suspect it might be more defensive coming from her not knowing herself. But ultimately its on me to figure it out! "Go look it up!" was the closest thing to an answer.


BiggLala 49F  
30139 posts
9/4/2021 10:44 am

    Quoting Desires_Unleashe:
    I'd never call her a princess. She's tough and resilient. At the start of our relationship, she was actually rescuing me.

    When I wanted to get her input into what I could do, she reacted defensively; upset that I would expect her to be able to just tell me, instead of me figuring it out myself. She takes great insult in the notion that she could just tell me how to make her happy. That it is somehow her mommying me by teaching me things I should have already learned in life. I suspect it might be more defensive coming from her not knowing herself. But ultimately its on me to figure it out! "Go look it up!" was the closest thing to an answer.
Oh man...I'm going to say this as tactfully as I can while remaining direct...FUCKIN' RUUUUUNNNNNN!!! Run Forrest!!!! As Jenny said, "Just run away...run away as fast as you can!"

Based on what you've said, it sounds as though you *might* NEVER be able to make her happy. EVER! She will blame you for her [seemingly] perpetual state of displeasure. I say that because of what you wrote in your OP, and the following two statements; "She takes great insult in the notion that she could just tell me how to make her happy," and "I suspect it might be more defensive coming from her not knowing herself." I think that second statement astutely summarized the root of her defensiveness. Therefore, I think it unreasonable for her to expect you to worship her in the way that she wants...when even she doesn't know. Seeing as how she's unwilling to figure out how the worship will work (re: "Go look it up!" ), it's unlikely she'll change. Or...you'll have one helluva an uphill battle getting her find herself, and then communicate her needs to you.

Regardless, good on your for trying (but don't let yourself become a doormat )! I hope she's ultimately worth it, and it all works out.
Good luck!

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