Your Feedback about the Vast Amount of Fake Profiles!!  

DiscreteSlowRide 51M
169 posts
8/14/2021 5:40 am
Your Feedback about the Vast Amount of Fake Profiles!!


One of the biggest complaints I have read from many (not most) members on TSdates.com is the vast amount of fake profiles on here. Some may have been planted by TSdates.com (some say) but many are posted by (and I say this in my most subtle and diplomatic way possible) lying shit bags living offshore somewhere.... Sorry but lets just call them what they are, ok?

Being a man on here I have noticed the tells as I am sure most other men have noticed as well. However, i have noticed when some men respond to these fake profiles/bloggers, their little head over rides their big head.

I have seen posts from women making the same claims about mes fake profiles as well. Since I do not look at mens profiles, I could not say for certain what these fake men post however I would love for the women to participate as well.

Regardless lets get a bit of participation and feed back going here and maybe there is a slim chance we can wake up the TSdates.com hacks from their slumber and clean up the fake crapola!
Yeah..I know. Its a nice thought. Let me hold on to my false sense of hope.

...If she is 20 to 35 years old, lives out of state and initiates contact and she calls you ...baby...

...If her profile guarantees satisfaction or she will rock your world like no other

...If she is out of the country for a few weeks, wait for it, she is going to give you an amazing story and ask you for money

lust4life59 62F
2395 posts
8/14/2021 6:40 am

Now, I can't say for certain they are fake or not, because there are red flags that cause me just steer clear of interacting with them. I suspect they are scammers, but who know's they might be

So my red flags are

1. Too good to be true

2. when trolling women on this site they tend to be more interested in appealing to the
emotional rather than the sexual side. i.e. instead of " I'll rock your world like no
other", it 's more along the lines of "I'm looking for the love of my life, to settle down and get married".

3. Followed immedicately by " What is your name? and email? I dont get on this site very often".

4. For the most part, their communication does not match their profile write up. You
can tell they were written by two very different people. And English is NOT their first language.


BiggLala 49F  
30139 posts
8/14/2021 8:35 am

Regardless lets get a bit of participation and feed back going here and maybe there is a slim chance we can wake up the TSdates.com hacks from their slumber and clean up the fake crapola!
-I firmly believe that the "fakes" wouldn't be here were no incentive for them. This means...people (men mostly) need to stop falling for them...yeah, that false sense of hope. So, I have no illusion that the site is going to clean up anything. First, no one from the site reads blogs (unless a singular post is reported or to resolve an issue or something); second, this topic is beaten to death, nothing been done; lastly, like it or not...the site benefits from the fakes being here. The volume of people (men mostly) who fall for them outnumber the fakes, those men are mostly the ones paying, and the numbers allow the site to *claim* this many _____ (insert number here) members.

So, going back to my initial statement, what I really want to do is get a bit of participation and feed back going here and maybe there is a slim chance we can wake up the TSdates.com members from their slumber so they stop giving attention to, and falling for fake crapola! Ahhh well...that's MY bit of false hope.

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DiscreteSlowRide 51M
370 posts
8/14/2021 9:13 am

    Quoting lust4life59:
    Now, I can't say for certain they are fake or not, because there are red flags that cause me just steer clear of interacting with them. I suspect they are scammers, but who know's they might be

    So my red flags are

    1. Too good to be true

    2. when trolling women on this site they tend to be more interested in appealing to the
    emotional rather than the sexual side. i.e. instead of " I'll rock your world like no
    other", it 's more along the lines of "I'm looking for the love of my life, to settle down and get married".

    3. Followed immedicately by " What is your name? and email? I dont get on this site very often".

    4. For the most part, their communication does not match their profile write up. You
    can tell they were written by two very different people. And English is NOT their first language.
All good points, particularly your second point about appealing to the emotional side.
Add to that....I am god fearing yada yada yada...seeking marriage


DiscreteSlowRide 51M
370 posts
8/14/2021 9:19 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    Regardless lets get a bit of participation and feed back going here and maybe there is a slim chance we can wake up the TSdates.com hacks from their slumber and clean up the fake crapola!
    -I firmly believe that the "fakes" wouldn't be here were no incentive for them. This means...people (men mostly) need to stop falling for them...yeah, that false sense of hope. So, I have no illusion that the site is going to clean up anything. First, no one from the site reads blogs (unless a singular post is reported or to resolve an issue or something); second, this topic is beaten to death, nothing been done; lastly, like it or not...the site benefits from the fakes being here. The volume of people (men mostly) who fall for them outnumber the fakes, those men are mostly the ones paying, and the numbers allow the site to *claim* this many _____ (insert number here) members.

    So, going back to my initial statement, what I really want to do is get a bit of participation and feed back going here and maybe there is a slim chance we can wake up the TSdates.com members from their slumber so they stop giving attention to, and falling for fake crapola! Ahhh well...that's MY bit of false hope.
No doubt there is incentive for the fakes to be hear. Scammers find suckers every minute of every day, not just here.

A lot of men fall for them because they just don't know any better.

Case in point...I was reading someone woman's blog a few weeks ago. I don't remember what it was about. Two men responded, one guy called out the poster as a fake.
The second guy gushed on about how gorgeous she was and how much he would love to meet her or that she lives close to him...

So some men just don't see it. They want to believe what they want to believe...


Attentive14Funx 48M
38 posts
8/14/2021 9:25 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    Regardless lets get a bit of participation and feed back going here and maybe there is a slim chance we can wake up the TSdates.com hacks from their slumber and clean up the fake crapola!
    -I firmly believe that the "fakes" wouldn't be here were no incentive for them. This means...people (men mostly) need to stop falling for them...yeah, that false sense of hope. So, I have no illusion that the site is going to clean up anything. First, no one from the site reads blogs (unless a singular post is reported or to resolve an issue or something); second, this topic is beaten to death, nothing been done; lastly, like it or not...the site benefits from the fakes being here. The volume of people (men mostly) who fall for them outnumber the fakes, those men are mostly the ones paying, and the numbers allow the site to *claim* this many _____ (insert number here) members.

    So, going back to my initial statement, what I really want to do is get a bit of participation and feed back going here and maybe there is a slim chance we can wake up the TSdates.com members from their slumber so they stop giving attention to, and falling for fake crapola! Ahhh well...that's MY bit of false hope.
I agree. They really don't care as long as it keeps the fake members numbers up. In most cases reporting them does no good at all. I wouldn't put it past this site to be generating some of these fake profiles themselves. It just seems strange to me that someone behind a fake profile would pay to upgrade it to gold knowing that it probably will get removed.


manto69u 66M  
89 posts
8/14/2021 11:00 am

New profiles that say looking for that special someone. Younger women seeking me out. They just scream fake and to good to be real.


Beavertraxx 60F
88 posts
8/14/2021 11:10 am

Over the years I've received a few messages accusing me of being a fake.
I don't know why.
I'm much too old to be a fake.
I never guarantee satisfaction.
I can't rock anybody's world. ( I might shake it up for a few hours on a Saturday night. )
I'm not out of the country working for a Nigerian oil company.
And.. I don't want anybody's address, phone number, financial status or any other personal info.

Julie (aka Jey)
Mom always said, "If it aint broke, date it."


lonlyforlove2 79M
23041 posts
8/14/2021 11:24 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    Regardless lets get a bit of participation and feed back going here and maybe there is a slim chance we can wake up the TSdates.com hacks from their slumber and clean up the fake crapola!
    -I firmly believe that the "fakes" wouldn't be here were no incentive for them. This means...people (men mostly) need to stop falling for them...yeah, that false sense of hope. So, I have no illusion that the site is going to clean up anything. First, no one from the site reads blogs (unless a singular post is reported or to resolve an issue or something); second, this topic is beaten to death, nothing been done; lastly, like it or not...the site benefits from the fakes being here. The volume of people (men mostly) who fall for them outnumber the fakes, those men are mostly the ones paying, and the numbers allow the site to *claim* this many _____ (insert number here) members.

    So, going back to my initial statement, what I really want to do is get a bit of participation and feed back going here and maybe there is a slim chance we can wake up the TSdates.com members from their slumber so they stop giving attention to, and falling for fake crapola! Ahhh well...that's MY bit of false hope.
THis Young lady hit it on the mnail head. The fakes create acrtivity, even fake activitry creates more action, it is a never ending wave that makes the site money, They have no incentive to even police them, .....

But as you say it is so easy to see through them and just go elswhere.. Simple to innore them is best but so many guys think with the wrong organ.. And often they get scammed! And he scammer just goes on...

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Tmptrzz 59F  
104279 posts
8/14/2021 11:43 am

There are way to many fake profiles on this site, in the past this was never allowed. And a lot of complaints I hear about is the couple profiles where it is just a man and not a couple. I mean seriously how many profiles does one need. There are also many members that have multiple profiles which is also a huge complaint of members here.

Not to mention the scammer jammers, and the cat phishers and now the cam models from Cambodia, lots of complaints about them as well. The site really needs to clean up the site and put an end to all these things.

I hope you enjoy a great weekend..

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seems6666 51F
4754 posts
8/14/2021 11:47 am

I've been on here a loooong time and have only come across one male fake profile.. and it stood out like a sore thumb. As Lala said. Fakes profiles are flagged up nearly every day on the blogs and nothing gets done. The fakes this side of the pond are "confirmed" members. Yet they've had the same profile pic for 10 years and befriend any man that breathes. Whether they actually participate in anything after that. I don't know. But I suspect not!
As you said if something seems to good to be true it probably is , with the best will in the world a beautiful young woman is not going to be attracted to an overweight balding 50 something man ... Unless she wants something


DiscreteSlowRide 51M
370 posts
8/14/2021 2:44 pm

    Quoting Beavertraxx:
    Over the years I've received a few messages accusing me of being a fake.
    I don't know why.
    I'm much too old to be a fake.
    I never guarantee satisfaction.
    I can't rock anybody's world. ( I might shake it up for a few hours on a Saturday night. )
    I'm not out of the country working for a Nigerian oil company.
    And.. I don't want anybody's address, phone number, financial status or any other personal info.
Were the accusers men you were not interested in?

Some men might see a woman's lack of interest in them as the woman being a fake, a lesbian or a hateful bitch. Some men are reeeeally gracious like that.


Only_one_14 52F
4154 posts
8/16/2021 7:44 pm

Can’t control them so I just ignore them. Some fake profiles are not so fake when someone has 4 or 5 different profiles. 🤷‍♀️

A Man who knows how to use his tongue is extremely useful!


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