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Dick pic etiquette
Posted:Feb 13, 2019 1:01 am
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2019 7:03 am

As we are all aware, there are some men, (maybe “boys” is a better description) who love to send unsolicited dick pics.

I guess some recipients don’t mind it. But I speak to many women who are really not into it.

Now here’s the problem....

Boys wanna do it - women aren’t into it.

I think I’ve found some middle ground where everyone can be happy.

Firstly I want to address the “boys”.

If you feel compelled to send a dick pic. First understand not everyone wants to see your pecker. Maybe think outside the box.

Try dressing your dinkle up a little. Draw a face on the head. Ever thought about getting some googly eyes?

Make a “tiny” costume or outfit.

What about softening the blow of your dick pic by drawing or painting a picture of your peepee and send that.

Make some effort. Show that you care.

And to the ladies who receive unsolicited dick pics....

Before blocking the guy maybe request he draws a smiley face on his helmet. Encourage creativity.

Let’s find a happy place together
I wish I’d said something
Posted:Feb 11, 2019 2:39 pm
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2019 1:18 am

I had an awful experience today that I’d like to share with you. Hopefully it will inspire you because it’s definitely made me think.

I was sat in Starbucks (other coffee shops are available) and I like to people watch.

A lady probably in her early 40’s caught my eye. She sat alone sipping her coffee. She looked Indian with caramel coloured skin and long dark silky hair.

She had earphones in and as I watched her I could see that she was upset. She wiped her eyes a couple of time with a tissue and my heart almost broke.

I hate to see people upset. I wanted to go over to her and give her a big hug. I sat for a few minutes watching her and she was definitely upset.

I debated about approaching her and ask my if she was ok but my head told me it would look odd or I’d come across as a creep.

A few more minutes went by and I caught her looking at me out of the corner of my eye. I looked up and she flushed and looked away.

A couple more minutes went by. This time our eyes met and I smiled at her and she smiled back sweetly, but I could see a deep sadness behind her smile.

She finished her coffee and collected her things then walked out. I wish I had said something to her.

5 minutes later I got up and left and went to the bus stop. There were many people waiting for the bus. Then I saw her. The same lady was standing at the stop and still looked upset.

The bus arrived and I sat opposite her on the isle. She was visibly crying and I wanted to say something but again felt it would be weird and didn’t want to frighten her.

I decided that I needed to reach out to her in as subtle a way as I could to not draw attention to her crying. I found a pen and piece of paper in my bag and decided to write a note with my name and number. I was going to pass it to her and say if she Needed to talk to someone.

Before I could finish writing my number the bus stopped and she got up from her seat and walked off the bus. I felt so bad.

She Needed someone. Maybe not me but I should have said something sooner.

It’s sad that I second guessed myself. I should have been brave.

I have decided in the future to fuck social norms and if that happens again I’m going to risk ridicule and see if the person is ok.

This will stay with me for a few days.

Thank for reading x
Dangerous shower incident
Posted:Feb 8, 2019 1:45 pm
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2019 1:22 am

I just had a traumatic experience in the shower.
So because I’ve recently moved into a new house with no bath, which I hate I had to “manscape” in the shower. Which is my first time. In the bath it’s always been a piece of cake.

Well I’m concentrating. Gliding the razor over my balls when I coughed unexpectedly. I slipped and fell.

I sat under the shower scared to look down. Expecting to have sliced off a nut.
I think I must have sat there for 5 mins. Staring straight ahead.

Finally I looked down and I am pleased to say I am still intact. But.....
I now have one ball shaved and the other is not.

Until I find a bath it’s staying like that.
Beneath the scars
Posted:Feb 4, 2019 12:03 am
Last Updated:Feb 4, 2019 11:29 am

I want to share something with you this morning that I hope will inspire you.

Two years ago I was rushed into hospital with a burst appendix. I was in hospital for 11 days and had to have open surgery.

I couldn’t walk for almost two months and was left with a huge scar. Because the surgeon had to cut through my stomach muscles I appear, when naked that I have a “belly”.

No amount of sit ups or crutches will ever knit my abs back together. The only way that would happen is with surgery, which I don’t want.

Every day I wear a vest which pulls in my stomach, I guess for vanity and for not wanting to be judged.

I used to adore swimming and it took me a long time to build the confidence to get back in the pool.

I realise I am still me with the scar but it has been a healing process on more than just my body.

I want to encourage you. With your scars, your lumps and bumps. With your little imperfections, you are still you.

You are still sexy and desirable to someone.

Have a good day and don’t forget to love yourself.

DOMinic x
A monopoly on fucking
Posted:Feb 3, 2019 12:14 pm
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2019 7:43 am

If you wanna fuck women, stop trying to fuck women.

The question is asked.....

What do women want? like it matters. Ha

A strong but sensitive guy

A bad boy turned good

A man who takes care of himself but isn’t vain.

A man who can take control, but not walk all over her.

And a million over things.

So how does a man try and get a women? Great question, right.

And here’s the answer.........

By pretending to be the things she says she wants. Men adjust themselves. Men can never be 100% honest.

We are told this is a mans world.


women have a monopoly on sex.
As men let’s take back control.

If you wanna fuck a women, stop trying to fuck women.

There will be more blogs on this subject to come.


If you are an emotional, angry women feel free to not comment with your rebuttal. Don’t forget if you’re hysterical, it’s historical.

If you are a Beta Male who disagrees. Don’t comment it won’t get you any pussy.

It won’t work.

“Be the man you were meant to be”

Chat soon x
Live cam
Posted:Feb 3, 2019 5:19 am
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2019 1:48 pm

So I’ve decided I’m going to live cam on here today. And I must be honest. I’m more than a little nervous.

I broadcast regularly on other sites and have done now for about 7 years. The main difference is this place is predominantly a place where people get their junk out.

I Will deffo not be getting my giblets out. No one wants to see that and that’s not what I’m into.

The reason for going live really is meeting new people and because I’m a huge narcissist lol.

Anyway wish me luck and if you fancy coming by and having a chat you’re more than welcome
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Snow idea
Posted:Feb 1, 2019 2:33 am
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2019 7:48 am

It’s been snowing here overnight. Which I love. But I woke to a weird message.

I received a message from a lady that I’ve had no contact with before. She was angry by the fact I have no image on my profile and she accused me of being a fake person.

I explained that for some reason TSDates is glitching and I can’t put a profile picture up. I offered to send her a pic and she told me to fuck off

I don’t understand why she was so angry. Especially as I’d had zero contact with her up till this point.

Anyway I’m still happy About the snow lol
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Negative profile descriptions
Posted:Jan 30, 2019 4:07 am
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2019 6:32 am

Having read a lot of profile descriptions, and some I do enjoying I must say there is something very striking about a lot of female descriptions.

In short they are very negative about men. Not all, but most.

The description is a chance to say a little about who you are. Describing yourself more than just the physical. Obviously if you have pics up you don’t need to describe your boobs or butthole. We can all see, for the most part.

Using this platform to say what type of men you don’t like is a waste of your time and anyone reading. Most of the men described probably don’t read your descriptions anyway.

Telling men you do not like.
Players, married men, black men, white men, young men, old men, beards, over weight men, egos, pricks and Dicks is the most off putting thing I can read.

Personally I am uninterested about what you don’t want. I’d like to hear more about YOU. what are you into, what are your passions? At least something I can use to strike up a conversation. Or maybe you don’t want a conversation?

If you are a female and you’re reading this how do you use your description?

Have a great day
Posted:Feb 1, 2019 9:45 am
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2019 6:09 am

In a world post 50 shades, it’s much more acceptable to express your fantasies. Even more so without the risk of being kink shamed.

I read an article today that stated that women tend to join sites like this, not just because they want to have NSA Sex because, let’s be honest most women wouldn’t need to try hard to find that anywhere. But more so because they want to explore their kinks and fetishes with some anonymity away from places like POF.

I wonder how true this is?

Ladies what kinks if any do you wish to explore here.

And to the men what are your kinks and why did you originally decide to join TSDates?

I guess we all have our reasons.

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