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Triggering Effect  

EroticMusings2 58F  
1574 posts
2/22/2022 4:02 am
Triggering Effect


Sitting here watching the sunrise, and yes you guessed it. Sleep and I are apparently no longer on speaking terms. Much on my mind, good and bad. Feeling hurt, a bit dismayed and even shocked. But then feeling very cared for too.

I never will understand why people at times feel the need to talk to down to other people. I am a very kind, loving woman. Yes I love sex, as much as anybody else. But It has to mean something to me. I need to feel a connection with you. When you feel that a person does not really wish to speak to you, we all know what that feels like. But being talked down to, is something I absolutely will not stand for.

Had a family member all the sudden text me the nastiest vile text. No sure why that happened, nor what caused it. I think the person was doing some heavy drinking. Again not something I will stand for, I have to surround myself with people who care, and will actually show it. This is why I keep to myself until I feel like there is a connection and that it is safe.

But on the positive side, my husband is doing superb in his recovery. Walking mainly with just a cane now. He really does not need any assistance from me. It is a beautiful transformation to see. Also a friendship that ended probably almost a year ago, is growing back fast. Probably even better than before, which does make me very happy.

My mental health, honestly I am struggling. I do get my feeling hurt, can't help that. lovers love how passionate I am in the bedroom, but seem to think I can shut all of that off. This is me, how I was made, we are all different. But just because someone requires a different approach and maybe some kinder words, does not mean they are not worth the effort. Depresion is a real burden, but I am handling. I just now what triggers me.

All in all, I am managing and I know things will get better.

How are you?

Ann

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


spunkycumfun 62M/67F  
41171 posts
2/22/2022 6:29 am

It's not good to hear that you're not sleeping well but it's good your husband is recovering very well.


Blueyedguy823 56M  
1077 posts
2/22/2022 10:56 am

Our world needs more empathy. We need to understand how what we say affects others around us. I learned this later in life. I wish I new it sooner.


EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
2/23/2022 2:44 pm

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    It's not good to hear that you're not sleeping well but it's good your husband is recovering very well.
On going problem with my sleep, think it will always be that way, but its okay. Big hugs to ya.

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
2/23/2022 2:45 pm

    Quoting  :

I am so tired of people thinking they can say anything and then we are the bad ones because it hurts our feelings. But I figure I am not going to waste my time and energy on such. I matter, my feelings matter. You matter, and your feelings matter too. I really enjoy being friends with you. Nice to know I am not alone in this. hugs

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


EroticMusings2 58F  
661 posts
2/23/2022 2:47 pm

    Quoting Blueyedguy823:
    Our world needs more empathy. We need to understand how what we say affects others around us. I learned this later in life. I wish I new it sooner.
We have become such a uncaring , throw away society. REally is sad to me, but all we can control is how we treat others and react. I wish I had learned earlier in life that my feelings mattered and to not allow myself to be treated poorly. Hugs.

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


justskin1 70M
13175 posts
2/25/2022 5:50 pm

Sorry to hear that sleep is still playing very hard to get. It is good to hear that your husband is recovering very quickly and well. Him walking with a cane has got to make some of your day a bit easier. May that friendship keep growing back and may it end up much better than before.

Empathy has always been in short supply but I feel that all this on-line stuff, email, texting and other electronic information passing is eroding that little bit. I had read that reading good Lit. is proven to make most people more empathetic. Makes sense to me.

Sending big naked hugs to you and some extra hours of good sleep.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


TheRedLion 66M  
28 posts
3/14/2022 8:45 am

I have the cure and am willing and ready to administrate it for you.


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