Sexy vs Fat  

FatAndSassier68 52F  
345 posts
10/16/2021 3:52 pm
Sexy vs Fat

I hang in the BBW room here on It's a more comfortable room for to in, as I am a big . Men there are interested in big girls; some fetishize us, but most just have a preference for larger women. Different strokes for different folks, amirite?

My biggest issue is with the idea, even among admirers of BBW, that they can't us fat. Like, it pains them to say the word. Now, I dont know if it's because they dont want to hurt our feelings (trust - we know we're fat), but it gets really annoying when a man tells not to myself fat.

"Oh youre not fat, youre fluffy". No, friend, fucking fat.
"I think you're beautiful on the inside, and what's on the outside doesn't matter". - Total horseshit. If you didn't think I was attractive on the outside, you wouldn't give the fucking time of , and that's the truth.

If I've said it once, I've said it a thousand times - BEING FAT AND BEING SEXY ARE NOT MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE! It's very possible to be both. The average clothing size for American women is /18. That's a thick . Anywhere from 0 to 2 pounds. When I was , and a size 18, I was called fat. I wasn't unhealthy, but I was told I was, and was put on diets from the age of . Is it any wonder I have a horrible relationship with food?

We are getting bigger. Can we please normalize the word already?

blaqguyinwi 57M  
20 posts
10/16/2021 11:13 pm

Well...if it's a matter of words, I like the words big, thick, curvy or chubby. Sure, we could use the word fat, but it's relative at a certain point. For an individual, the more appropriate word(s) is the ones he or she uses with love and affection...or even lust. Just an opinion.

G000dbuddy 34M  
1201 posts
10/17/2021 3:25 am

The ones he or she uses with love and affection..


staci_19702 51T
2428 posts
10/17/2021 3:36 am

I love this post. You’re very matter of fact about it.
Wifey is curvy. She’s hot.

Have a great day! 💋

Naughtypursuit 54F  
2735 posts
10/17/2021 5:20 am

It's hard to believe and trust someone when they fluff around with words....I hear ya.

12914 posts
10/17/2021 5:45 am

'big-boned' is a term I've heard - not sure if that's good or bad tho'

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CleavageFan4U 64M  
68272 posts
10/17/2021 6:47 am

You know why I prefer fat chicks? Because that is where you find big ole fat titties!

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Owatalife 65M
1689 posts
10/17/2021 8:27 am

Think a lot of men who prefer women with curves are indeed sensitive about calling any woman fat as I certainly am. Your take is spot on call a duck a duck & not something else. That said manners do count for a lot even on this site that is chock full of neanderthals. Everyone has their own preferences & I would agree that your point is by far the more honest & direct approach but as is often the case that can & does sometimes lead to a lot of head scratching awkwardness.

HallPassInLowell 55M
141 posts
10/17/2021 10:24 am

Well, you're lucky, being fat AND sexy! Some of us are just fat.

positively4you 72F  
4512 posts
10/18/2021 4:00 am

Sexy has little to do with fat. A lot of thin people are just not sexy and a lot of fat people are. And vice versa. The term “fat” just doesnt bother me. But I do appreciate a man who is sensitve and respectful of not offending someone.

Xtraordinary_sub 53M
5 posts
10/18/2021 10:06 am

I suppose it's similar to the size of pricks. Most people aren't about to tell a male that they have a cute little cock, because they believe that may be hurtful (and i suspect that to some, it might be). I agree with You... people should not assume that people have issues with their body when it doesn't conform to some imposed standard, and understand that some of us are comfortable in our own skin.

FatAndSassier68 replies on 10/18/2021 10:27 am:
Speaking for myself, I'm not afraid to tell a man his dick isn't big enough. But that's just me.

xxx14760man 46M
32 posts
10/21/2021 10:02 am

i have dated many fat woman. I have found out that normally fat woman tend to be the best sexually and also will give their heart to you in a relationship as that has happened.

extension2019 56M
2 posts
10/21/2021 6:46 pm

all i know is i like to watch the the shock waves of thrusts ripple to my rhythm

OldskoolOkie 53M  
1 post
10/22/2021 9:04 am

Well, you look pretty damn gorgeous on the outside to me, as well as the inside. Sexy is sexy. No matter what size dress you wear.

SassEMom71 50F
19 posts
11/2/2021 10:08 am

Hun, you are absolutely sexy. You're gorgeous. Sexy doesn't have a size listed on the label.

blkforsex1 51M  
29 posts
11/11/2021 7:34 am

I love only Bbw fat women

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