Confident on a date  

G000dbuddy 34M  
753 posts
10/15/2021 11:18 pm
Confident on a date


Ironically, if you are not confident in yourself, and you are worried about being rejected, then you will probably be rejected very quickly. The nervous attitude of someone who is not confident in themselves shows through their body language and makes other people uncomfortable and turned off.

It is human nature be attracted someone who has a high level of confidence in themselves. This is why 'bad boys' or 'bad girls' are so attractive; they have a high level of confidence that attracts people despite their bad qualities.

How do you feel confident? You become confident! You affirm yourself that you are a great catch with a lot offer someone, and the more you affirm it the more you will start believe it.

Another way feel confident for your date is read some tips and tricks succeeding with the opposite sex right before your date. This will leave you armed and ready with information that can influence your d and your brain will not have had a chance forget important key points about succeeding with the opposite sex.

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G000dbuddy 34M  
1224 posts
10/15/2021 11:20 pm

The most important thing to remember is that if you are pretending that you are interested in them or being fake about your interest, then they will sense it, and they will most likely refuse a second date with you. Make sure that doesn't happen by genuinely maintaining an interest in what they are saying and doing.

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agelesssexylegs 78F
1051 posts
10/15/2021 11:33 pm

Oh always falling for the bad boys,more fun to be around and do my utmost to look as confident as i can be,think it easier for us ladies in way we dress,though i would say i not a bad girl,just me


partygald 39F
1930 posts
10/16/2021 1:29 am

Fake it til you make it? 😝


author51 58F  
125989 posts
10/16/2021 2:06 am

Confidence in oneself and loving yourself is key to everything in life, love and the pursuit of happiness both in and out of bed.xoxo


cevblodgett 51F  
32 posts
10/16/2021 2:47 am

Never had an issue with confidence and sometimes feel that I may a bit to confident but it is who I am.


G000dbuddy 34M  
1224 posts
10/16/2021 3:00 am

    Quoting partygald:
    Fake it til you make it? 😝
Save your whining and complaining for your friends at home. Focus on positive and uplifting stuff for your first date. You don't need to get too deep on a first date, but if you feel like you should then talk about your dreams and goals that you are excited about, or talk about the accomplishments you have had; do not talk about your failures and disappointments.

In the end, it is not that hard to get a second date with the right attitude and presence on the first date. The above three things: being confident, showing interest, and being positive, will leave your date wanting more.

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G000dbuddy 34M  
1224 posts
10/16/2021 3:04 am

    Quoting agelesssexylegs:
    Oh always falling for the bad boys,more fun to be around and do my utmost to look as confident as i can be,think it easier for us ladies in way we dress,though i would say i not a bad girl,just me
Maintain eye contact to show your date that you are really interested in what they have to say.

Use your body language to show interest by facing your date. Also, lean in towards them when they talk.

Laugh at their jokes, and make sure that you show appropriate emotions when they are talking about something that is not funny.

You can share a story about yourself that relates to what they are talking about, but don't turn the conversation towards you completely; instead, share the story so you can relate to them better and show them that you understand them

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G000dbuddy 34M  
1224 posts
10/16/2021 3:06 am

    Quoting author51:
    Confidence in oneself and loving yourself is key to everything in life, love and the pursuit of happiness both in and out of bed.xoxo
Expectations are usually high on a first date. Laughter, fun, and excitement are all anticipated by your date. There is no desire for negativity in those expectations.

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scoupe42 58M  
12843 posts
10/16/2021 6:09 am

Maybe I should buy the book Confidence 101 for Dummies!


G000dbuddy 34M  
1224 posts
10/16/2021 11:12 pm

    Quoting scoupe42:
    Maybe I should buy the book Confidence 101 for Dummies!
One reason a person may still be single for years on end...or forever, is because they are an a**hole. Having an attitude towards others and being rude to people is a surefire way to scare people away. Check your own behavior! Single? Be a jerk. Simple.


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