How important is sex to you?  

G000dbuddy 34M  
751 posts
10/5/2021 11:33 pm
How important is sex to you?


How important is sex you? - in the context of a relationship, naturally! - Is the defining factor on how you see your partner and your relationship? Is the 'cherry on the top'? Was grounds for divorce?

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G000dbuddy 34M  
1216 posts
10/5/2021 11:35 pm

Right now? Its not that important to me anymore because sex is not so readily available, and my going into clubs and picking up women days are long over with. At my age I realize I actually have to care for the person I'm making love to. Sex is the icing NOT the cake.
Occasionally if I get "the urge" I realize I must have too much time on my hands and usually will tackle a project around the house or build something and the urge fades.
I've started an awful lot of projects! laugh

I'm happy and content with myself.


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MrWrong4RghtNow 55M  
2191 posts
10/6/2021 12:16 am

Sex has never been important to me in terms of being in a relationship. I will say that personal injuries and my then life partner's medication made sex a item on the back burner. Of course that didn't stop her from cheating on me.
While i get horny occasionally its an easy matter to relieve that tension and move on. Relationships are in my opinion more grounded if you can relate to each other beyond sex. Maybe thats my age and meds talking but thats just how it is. Good for you and your projects! I hope you do find someone because the reality is that while sex should not be the defining factor, it should contribute.

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WyoCowboy7751 68M
2326 posts
10/6/2021 5:38 am

At ANY age "going into clubs " or bars still has it's advantages or rewards !! As you might note , I'm 68 !! I have occasionally gone to a bar for a few drinks and played pool !! The scenery can be challenging when you get a pool opponent that you know is there just to be a tease playing pool !! Her top as she leans over for a shot and exposing her boobs and holding that pose while pretending to line up her shot or wearing a short skirt and giving view of butt and panty or thong is just what I'm there for , as with the others that she knows are watching 🤩🤠


oldbstrd55 64M
3210 posts
10/6/2021 5:49 am

I see a lot of guys carry on like, if they don't have sex soon, they will die. That only happens with some animal species. I like sex, but it's not that important. I can always fuck myself, if I need release.


Brownie202 64F  
2591 posts
10/6/2021 8:02 am

It is not and it hasn't been for 12 or more years.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Brownie202 64F  
2591 posts
10/6/2021 8:03 am

I meant to add that is how long since I wanted it. I have my toy on the rare occasion that I do want it.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


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